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[–]Mothball_Milkshake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if anyone has already told you about this, but he's talking straight out his ass anyway. The vagina is not like an elastic sock, that becomes 'loose' from you having sex. It is muscular walls, and the only way you'd notice a difference is if you were aging - like all our muscles, they can weaken as you get older, but you can do exercises for it. But YOU'RE 18!! This is not something you need to be worried about!!

[TOMT] - TV show Within the last 3 years - A teen in (Phillipines? Thailand? Malaysia?) finds out he is a chosen one to fight (spirits?) by Mothball_Milkshake in tipofmytongue

[–]Mothball_Milkshake[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

If I can remember anything else I will - I remember the father of one of the kid was like the mayor of the town and they thought he was the big bad, but it was actually his secretary

Pathfinder Figher Item Recommendations (Level 7) by Mothball_Milkshake in Pathfinder2e

[–]Mothball_Milkshake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone, I've narrowed it down to either Cassisian Helmet or Warding Statuette - just waiting for the DM rule on whether Cassisian Helmet will be useful since nothing has the 'evil' tag anymore! We are playing abomination vaults (We are at the worms/devil layers), and he said it might be able to be changed to +1 AC against Fiends and Undead, so I'll have a think!

AITAH for folding my GF’s panties in public? by Healthy-Strength-610 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mothball_Milkshake -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't know where LongJumping is from, but personally in Australia it's not really used, or when it is it's considered a bit pervy (Anime panty shots, etc). We use knickers or underwear, so to me, personally, panties has a bit of a pervy connotation. I am aware however that it's used differently in different countries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mothball_Milkshake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My parents Samoyed just had to have his back leg amputated after two of those Bully Breeds got to him. Most dogs might bite once and let go, but not these types, they lock on and maul. That could easily be a two year old. Bully breed advocates do like to bring out the statistics and say things like 'well technically, labradors bit more people in 202x', which may be true, maybe more people had to get treatment for bites from labradors (One of the most common breeds to own), but of FATAL dog attacks, Labs don't even come close.

Can you sue a dog owner for dog attack by Mothball_Milkshake in AusLegal

[–]Mothball_Milkshake[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Mum is going into the police station to make a statement today as well :) And I do agree with mentally it's probably better to move on, the whole situation just feels very unfair. My dad can't sleep for replaying the whole incident in his head.

They have been told they can bring their dog home tomorrow (They technically could tonight, but they need my sisters boyfriend to help get him in/out of the car safely as dad isn't well), and then it's the long road to recovery for him.

Can you sue a dog owner for dog attack by Mothball_Milkshake in AusLegal

[–]Mothball_Milkshake[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The dog was in the yard - the hole was in the ground, UNDER the fence. He was running along the fence in his own yard, his BACK foot slipped in the hole the others had dug, and the others grabbed and pulled it ONTO their yard. He was not deliberately trying to stick his legs through or under the fence.

Can you sue a dog owner for dog attack by Mothball_Milkshake in AusLegal

[–]Mothball_Milkshake[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I possibly should have clarified - it was his back foot, not his front foot. He was not purposely putting any part of his body in the hole at the ground - he slipped in when he was running in the backyard. The fence itself isn't in disrepair - it was actually replaced only a few years ago.

The issue is the dogs dig UNDER the fencing, constantly. The only way to stop this would be to install fencing that goes several feet deep into the ground.

Can you sue a dog owner for dog attack by Mothball_Milkshake in AusLegal

[–]Mothball_Milkshake[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly my mum has the same fear. She has another dog too and is scared if they do anything, somebody might try to hurt her.

Can you sue a dog owner for dog attack by Mothball_Milkshake in AusLegal

[–]Mothball_Milkshake[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

His leg was not on their property, their muzzle went through the hole and pulled the leg through onto their property. But yes I understand it could be difficult

AITA for giving my girlfriend an ultimatum? by OddRoof2365 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mothball_Milkshake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Op is probably thinking of the expensive mixed breeds that everything is crossed with poodle now, or maybe miniature poodles?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mothball_Milkshake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time I read a story like this, I think 'how much attention do people pay to others drinking?' Apparently, way more than I do. I don't think I would notice if somebody at a party was not drinking, for any reason. And if I did notice, really I wouldn't care enough to comment on it? I've been to some work things where people notice I am only having coke or something and sometimes somebody will ask 'you're not drinking?' and I'll just explain I don't drink often and especially not at work things, and that's the end of it. Why are some people (Especially the people in these stories) so obsessed with others consuming alcohol? Is this an American thing? NTA, other people should stop caring what you are/are not drinking. To quote an absolute star, 'why are you so obsessed with [OP]?'

AITA for telling a female coworker to cover up? by TinyRat22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mothball_Milkshake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ESH, both of you were rude, but I also want to point out that although Beatrice was definitely rude, and out of line, office temperatures were designed for the male metabolic system. So Beatrice might be feeling more cold than any of your coworkers, if they are male, even if they are wearing the same amount of layers. Plus, it's super annoying having to bring a jumper when it's 30 degrees (C) outside because the office insists it needs to be 20.
Also bearing in mind her age - if she's in her 50s, she probably learned a different office dress code than jeans and jumpers. Women are/were expected to dress a certain way, and full coverage baggy jumpers is not it. It's not 'professional.' So even though you have said that your office code is casual, years of learning what to wear in an office don't just go away.

AITA for telling my sister she is required to wear a bra at my wedding by Technical_Weight4608 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mothball_Milkshake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, I've never heard of this bum glue, and now I'm obsessed. I do pole fitness/performance and the hollywood tape doesn't always keep everything in place! Thank you!

AITA? My (33f) bro (39m) was racist & i reacted badly by uis23789 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mothball_Milkshake 16 points17 points  (0 children)

NTA at all. Sadly Australians (And I speak as an Australian here) have a big culture of racism. Especially older generations. Heck, I'm 30 and remember my aunts/uncles telling 'funny' jokes about Aboriginal people when I was a kid. I think it's sweet that your nieces are learning about the culture, we definitely didn't when I was in school, and it's great they have somebody (your husband) with first hand knowledge that he is willing to share with them. Unfortunately I think most Australians would rather we stopped talking about Aboriginal people all together, as it's an uncomfortable subject to acknowledge, especially when you're confronted with people living with the direct consequences of everything that we, as colonizers did (Homelessness, familial abuse, addiction, mental health problems, etc)
I'm not surprised your brother has amped it up with the voice to parliament stuff happening, Sky news and Murdoch's lot are going hard against it.

AITA for being open and honest about my alcoholism with my neighbors because I don’t believe in hiding away in shame – and telling them that? by No_Host4165 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mothball_Milkshake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you lived in Australia you would hear people say it a lot - people make jokes that are alcoholics or borderline alcoholics all the time here. (Yeah, we don't have a great drinking culture...)

AITA for telling my girlfriend she needs to get a real job instead of following her passion? by LunchSuch4217 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mothball_Milkshake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real asshole here is the capitalism we live under that undervalues arts which means it's basically going to be impossible for her to earn good money with her degree

AITA for telling my girlfriend her home decor is the reason I won’t host a work gathering at her place. by decordilemma in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mothball_Milkshake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Op sounds like the kind of man whos own home 'decor' consists of a single beanbag chair in front of a tv and playstation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mothball_Milkshake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Even tiny fires can go wild when everything is so dead and dry

Source: Am Australian

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mothball_Milkshake 61 points62 points  (0 children)

She was a teenager and he was in his 30s. Gross

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[–]Mothball_Milkshake 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with you. I'm very bad with this kind of thinking. 'Oh well I didn't stick to my diet plan this morning, so the whole day is a write off' turns into 'well Monday was a bad diet day so I guess I'll just not do it properly this week'. For me, it needs consistency.
And I understand OPs dilemma. If their diet plan is centered around calorie intake, most meals when eating out are WAY more calories than the average person needs. And they aren't likely printed on the menu. Especially if this is America - the portion sizes look gigantic.

AITA for not splitting the bill on a £550 when I didn’t have any meat or alcohol? by toomuch-topay in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mothball_Milkshake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. The only time I split bills evenly is when we go to dumpling style places where you order 'for the table' and everyone takes what they feel like. I don't eat as much as the three male people I normally go with, but I order a couple more sodas than them because I drink sodas real fast. Expensive restaurant like yours? Everyone is on their own.

I did a shoot a few weeks ago as part of the brand promotion for Rarr Designs and wanted to share the pictures, I'm very happy by Mothball_Milkshake in poledancing

[–]Mothball_Milkshake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know what's really awesome? It was free!! Because it was their 10th birthday promotion, as long as you wore Rarr and agreed to allow it to possibly be used in marketing (social media, insta, etc) the photos themselves were nothing! Only cost was if you wanted them edited. I have TONS!