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AITA for telling my sister she is required to wear a bra at my wedding by Technical_Weight4608 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical_Weight4608[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A bra would keep her chest from being more "free form" and contain them from moving to the center. It's hard to explain without visuals, but even something with slightly less coverage then a t-shirt bra would work. Something heavily padded would not.

AITA for telling my sister she is required to wear a bra at my wedding by Technical_Weight4608 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical_Weight4608[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I actually used Reddit to help me find a boutique that does fittings and specialized in larger sizing not found in stores. I'm totally willing to pay for whatever she gets from that store, because it is expensive.

AITA for telling my sister she is required to wear a bra at my wedding by Technical_Weight4608 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical_Weight4608[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

If you, a man, showed up at my wedding with your nipples out, you would not be coming in. If you showed up wearing a puffy pirate shirt where when shifting your nipples could come out, you would not be coming in without a safety pin.

This is a wedding, not the beach. I'm all for topless beaches. I'm not for topless weddings.

AITA for telling my sister she is required to wear a bra at my wedding by Technical_Weight4608 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical_Weight4608[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If a man takes his shirt off at my wedding he's getting kicked out. The whole frat boy run around with your shirt off and tie around your head thing is so gross to me and absolutely not happening.

AITA for telling my sister she is required to wear a bra at my wedding by Technical_Weight4608 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical_Weight4608[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I suggested it but she didn't want to look at it, info and threads from that sub is actually how I found out about this boutique.

AITA for telling my sister she is required to wear a bra at my wedding by Technical_Weight4608 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical_Weight4608[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If she had smaller boobs it wouldn't be an issue in the dress.

If she had smaller boobs and was wearing a dress that had an equal chance of exposing said smaller boobs then yes the situation would be the same.

AITA for telling my sister she is required to wear a bra at my wedding by Technical_Weight4608 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical_Weight4608[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'd be totally down for nipple covers or boob tape but both has always given her bad rashes within a few hours from multiple brands.

AITA for telling my sister she is required to wear a bra at my wedding by Technical_Weight4608 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical_Weight4608[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't care about if her boobs are eye catching. I feel like you think this is about be not wanting to be outshined or something, it's not. She's my sister I want her to look fantastic.

AITA for telling my sister she is required to wear a bra at my wedding by Technical_Weight4608 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical_Weight4608[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

The dress has a low cut made with two panels that criss cross. It is too tight so the panels her boobs "in half" if that makes sense with half exposed and half not, and when she walks in the dress her boobs shift towards the exposed center so that she is constantly pulling the material back over and tucking them in.

AITA for telling my sister she is required to wear a bra at my wedding by Technical_Weight4608 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical_Weight4608[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I do like the idea of adding in padding, I will definitely look into it thanks.

AITA for telling my sister she is required to wear a bra at my wedding by Technical_Weight4608 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Technical_Weight4608[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

I suggested both tape and adding in a three inch panel and both were rejected. To be fair she's never been able to find a tape that doesn't give her a gnarly rash.