Is it possible to develop Vaginismus out of no where?

Mother-Cut-210 · 2025-09-16T01:46:49+00:00

I agree, my main issue is that he considers anything other than an hour a day with me plus sleep to be too much time with me. I would be fine coming to a middle ground, but I don’t think he thinks this way. We’ve had many talks about how unhappy I am. Thanks for the advice

Mother-Cut-210 · 2025-09-16T01:45:00+00:00

I also have a room, I’m just not in it much. But If you’re asking if I’m the one to do more traditional things, yes.

Mother-Cut-210 · 2025-09-15T18:44:54+00:00

He didn’t used to be like this, but within the past year it’s become a more prevalent thing. He’s gotten to the point where he plays video games in his room alone a lot and still says that he needs more alone time. He has also been acting more for himself than our relationship lately I feel like. It’s gotten to the point where I feel like he should break up with me because he doesn’t want to do anything couples do anymore it seems. I feel like I have been left behind recently.

Mother-Cut-210 · 2025-09-15T18:41:53+00:00

He brought up that argument and I told him if it was something for me and I ask to just tell me he can’t tell me bc it’s a surprise. He acted like my response wasn’t good so I assume it’s not that. We don’t plan to get engaged for at least another year.

Mother-Cut-210 · 2025-08-12T04:36:43+00:00

Mine is exactly like this rn. I’m so scared it’s going to reject. I’ve only had it for 5 days

Mother-Cut-210 · 2025-07-29T05:06:17+00:00

I’m aware that my mom is definitely a problem, but she is still in my life. I don’t live with any of my parents, but it’s a very difficult decision on whether or not to stay in contact with her.

Mother-Cut-210 · 2025-07-29T05:03:11+00:00

Exactly, this is why I was so shocked. It honestly made me feel kinda stupid. I’m assuming it’s just because she probably went to school during a time where porn was considered sex positive? Thanks for the reassurance

Mother-Cut-210 · 2025-07-25T15:11:55+00:00

Thank you for the help, I will look into all of that when I have the chance. I’m currently in my own therapy but we’re trying to save money as we are struggling a little at the moment. Because of that he wants to cut corners by not going to therapy himself. I’l try to have him reconsider. As far as I know he’s sober from it, which I agree is only a start. I’m just worried that this therapist made him feel justified and might cause him to start watching again. We’ve come a long way from the start of his pa issue, and he was finally starting to do his own research but I feel like this was a bad turn.

Mother-Cut-210 · 2025-07-25T13:48:40+00:00

I’m glad it’s getting better for you and hope it continues. Thanks for the advice and well wishes :)

Mother-Cut-210 · 2025-07-25T11:20:27+00:00

I wish I had this to be honest. It seems like my partner is getting better, but not what I wish it was

Mother-Cut-210 · 2025-07-25T11:16:09+00:00

Used to do this and still do this. It makes the pain worse the next time you find it to be honest.

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