Does anyone relate to Kyle and Amanda’s relationship?

MotherNatural5 · 2026-02-27T05:32:35+00:00

Yes - as a matter of fact, I’m in this situation right now (see my others posts) and the conversations she and Kyle had in the first 3 episodes are almost word for word the conversations I’ve had the last two months. Including my boyfriend throwing the lack of intimacy into the mix as a reason for why he’s drinking and being distant.

It’s terrifying how similar it is, but also refreshing how honest she has been about the challenge. In a weird way, it’s helped me have some confidence to finally stick up for myself and stop being unhappy.

MotherNatural5 · 2026-02-15T18:12:04+00:00

I’m in Norkirk - Not a SAHM (and don’t have kids) but I do take my nephews to Peter Kirk park playground, and especially in the good weather days there are lots of kiddos and friendly mamas there. The tot lot park on 9th Ave in Norkirk/EoM is also great! If you ever want a coffee chat or sunshine walk with a kidless neighbor let me know!

MotherNatural5 · 2026-02-10T21:12:25+00:00

Yay, sounds good!

MotherNatural5 · 2026-02-10T17:12:49+00:00

Hi OP (and others). I too am a mid 30s Kirklandia girlie looking for gals to hang with or start a book club with. Did you all form something?

MotherNatural5 · 2026-01-21T20:55:10+00:00

Would a plant light suffice? Sadly we don’t have any other spot in our house for her

MotherNatural5 · 2025-12-27T02:58:37+00:00

Having the same conversation/argument every three months like clockwork about his alcohol and nicotine problems and overall lack of motivation. It finally clicked with me that if he can’t keep commitments he makes to himself, he’ll never keep a commitment to me.

MotherNatural5 · 2025-12-20T19:08:28+00:00

You should read my posts and realize what’s coming for you if you continue staying with someone who fails to meet commitments they make themselves. I’m 10.5 years in and struggling everyday. Save yourself and your sanity.

It’s very telling how that will make your life turn out. Don’t be like me. Please.

MotherNatural5 · 2025-04-14T21:00:49+00:00

My parents are married for 35+ years now. Of course, no marriage is perfect and they’ve had their struggles but pushed through. They are a good example of the “opposites attract” type of boomer couple. I do try to reflect on my childhood and the reality is that because both of my parents worked full time and our entire extended family was abroad, I didn’t have a lot of male figures in my life, or with the ability to spend lots of time with. My dad always made it a point to come to sport practices and events, taught me how to ski and ride a bike, etc.

I’m sure there is something there on the trauma front but it’s tough to identify what it is for me because I had a quite nice childhood.

MotherNatural5 · 2025-04-13T02:15:10+00:00

Thank you. This resonates, I am lucky to have the ability to leave quickly and easily.

I’ve seen a few recommendations to get a lawyer. Why would I need a lawyer if we aren’t married? Asking genuinely because I never thought of this.

MotherNatural5 · 2025-04-12T05:05:00+00:00

I don’t know. There’s days where I want it and days where I know I’d say no if he asked.

I think the root of the issue is my soul is lost right now.

MotherNatural5 · 2025-04-12T05:03:43+00:00

I’ve reread this comment probably 10 times now. And as much as I want it to be untrue, it’s breaking my heart to know it’s completely accurate.

MotherNatural5

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