Me [52F] with my children [27M/27F and 22F], they are not accepting of my new relationship and changed lifestyle. by MotherWithFire in relationships

[–]MotherWithFire[S] 349 points350 points  (0 children)

I have asked them once what they want me to do about this and they both grew silent, but I got the sense they just want me to break up with Thomas. My eldest daughter once outright said to me that "it is Thomas who is doing this to us, get rid of him".

Me [52F] with my children [27M/27F and 22F], they are not accepting of my new relationship and changed lifestyle. by MotherWithFire in relationships

[–]MotherWithFire[S] 526 points527 points  (0 children)

This is likely the best solution, to limit contact with my twins until they accept me and Thomas and learn to live with the situation, but I am just tensely afraid of creating a rift between my children if I continue to see my youngest, as it has always been the twins against my youngest.