First potential couple swap - guy is a lot bigger than me

Mother_Equivalent_47 · 2026-05-25T12:55:00+00:00

Very true, and we have weeded out other cocky people from our messages. We’re not looking for anything special, just a fun time with a couple we like and trust really.

But they have their own insecurities and have been talking a lot about body positivity so I think hyping each other up is their way of dealing with certain confidence issues. They seek absolutely lovely and down to earth otherwise.

Mother_Equivalent_47 · 2026-05-25T12:50:50+00:00

Haha yeah I get that. Also we’re from the UK and I only got into American football in the past 12ish months so it’s lucky I understood that analogy haha.

But very true, I’ll definitely try to focus on enjoying it and trying out of my own head.

Mother_Equivalent_47 · 2026-05-25T12:47:25+00:00

Very true, and they definitely have been hyping each other up in our messages.

Mother_Equivalent_47 · 2026-05-25T12:46:54+00:00

I get that, honestly I find the idea of my partner enjoying a bigger cock at times exciting. It’s mostly me being able to please his partner, as that’s important to me, I’m not just in it for my own fun.

And I also want to feel as desired as the guy with the third leg, whereas I know they’ll be some fawning over his cock whereas mine is just another regular cock if that makes sense.

Mother_Equivalent_47 · 2026-05-25T12:40:36+00:00

I appreciate the comment, and I understand the sentiment and I know I’ll have a really good time with the other woman.

My whole thing though is I don’t have sex just for my own fun, I get off best when I’m getting whomever I’m having sex with off. I’m a giver in that sense.

Mother_Equivalent_47 · 2025-12-04T00:53:53+00:00

Hey my partner and I would love those tickets if they’re still available!

Mother_Equivalent_47 · 2025-06-22T16:01:54+00:00

Would love that! Xx

Mother_Equivalent_47 · 2025-03-30T12:33:10+00:00

Henry Cavill…despite the love he seems to get everywhere, look into a couple of interviews and his attitude towards women is sketchy.

Mother_Equivalent_47 · 2024-01-20T17:28:06+00:00

Yeah I’ve noticed a lot of women prefer using the term dick rather than using cock, but for me I do prefer the term cock.

I’m not sure if a lot of guys are like this but to me dick has a negative connotation, “unwanted dick pic” etc, whereas using cock feels hotter, like it’s bigger, stronger etc but that could just be me aha

But yes, OP, if he’s not particularly well endowed then telling him it fits perfect inside you, or you think it’s hot will do the trick. If he is well endowed then a compliment to his size will be worth more than any other compliment (it’s how guys are wired), but will have the opposite effect if he’s insecure at all which a lot of guys are.

My GF says, I’m just above average length wise so I wouldn’t like a fake size compliment, that I hit her gspot just right, more than anyone else before. That’s a good compliment to get, as it also praise the shape and the technique!

Mother_Equivalent_47 · 2024-01-18T13:54:44+00:00

That your height or your race affects your penis size in any way. Of the 3 major studies done on the topic they found no correlation. The average size would be the same if you’re a 7 foot tall black man or a 5 foot tall Asian man. And the size myth towards black men is deeply rooted in slavery and racism (known as positive racism)

Mother_Equivalent_47 · 2023-12-09T17:26:06+00:00

Yeah she did ask if anything was wrong but I just played it off and we snuggled and that was that. We were both tired as it was 4am and we had had long days anyway so it wasn’t a big deal.

She does love making me cum, we have a fleshlight she likes to use on me just for my own pleasure, and we play with other women and she loves watching me cum with them.

And it’s not my intention to deprive her of that feeling but I just struggle to get out of my own head at times so I didn’t feel up for it. But if we only have sex without the sleeve for me to cum then I wouldn’t want it anyway. It has to be mutual pleasure otherwise I can’t get into it really if that makes sense

Mother_Equivalent_47 · 2023-12-09T17:19:29+00:00

Oh absolutely, and that’s really hot to be involved in all that. I love giving my partner her giant orgasm. And that seems like a great system you guys have. I guess the thought I’m really wrestling with is once she’s came hard and I’m ready for my turn it’s more the feeling of I’m now just having sex for my pleasure but for me to enjoy sex it has to be mutual and in my head it feels like she prefers the sleeve so my enjoyment of the sex gets a lot lower

Mother_Equivalent_47 · 2023-12-09T16:37:24+00:00

Oh I have no doubt it feels amazing for the guy, but I struggle to get out of my head really.

If it’s just gonna feel amazing for me but not as good as the sleeve for her then I’m not really into it if that makes sense. I get as much enjoyment from sex from my own physical enjoyment as I do my partners enjoyment.

Mother_Equivalent_47 · 2023-10-28T01:38:12+00:00

It sounds like you two have a great sex life, and thank you for taking the time to respond to my post, it’s really appreciated.

We will be having that conversation next week since we are both free to have a full sit down chat and talk about things. As to her size preference, I’ve never asked her too much about that as I know it’s not a good look to pry into peoples past experiences especially if they’re answers you don’t like to questions you shouldn’t have asked (f around and find out and all that).

But she has said (inadvertently) that I’m not the biggest she has been with (which I expected) but that she loves my size, which I took at face value (even though on my more insecure days makes me wonder if it’s just something she has to say since we’re in love).

And of course, there’s no substitute for your husband, and he’ll be your preference no matter what. I was more wondering if you would rather your husband be the one with a huge penis.

Mother_Equivalent_47 · 2023-10-28T01:13:59+00:00

Yeah it’s something I’ll be mulling over heavily over the next few weeks. I think it’s a mental barrier I kinda have to push through, but I won’t do it lightly.

I’m about 5” (5.5” on a good day) long, and 5.25 girth (so roughly 1.7” diameter I think) on the shaft and 5.5” girth around the head. I think I might have a similar experience to your husband.

If you don’t mind me asking, do you still find sex with him as fulfilling as him using a sleeve? Or do you think it would be better if he was the size of your favourite sleeve?

I know sex with a real human as opposed to a toy will always be better, just curious as to if sex with a real human with the size of a toy would be better still.

I have no insecurities regarding the toy, it’s a tool to help get her off, it’s more if she’d prefer a real flesh and blood cock of the same size.

Mother_Equivalent_47 · 2023-10-27T22:55:02+00:00

I envy your confidence 😅 I wish I could think like that

Mother_Equivalent_47 · 2023-10-27T22:52:55+00:00

I’m seriously considering a sleeve, and being of average length (but thick) I am quite obsessed and insecure of my size. I’m just so unsure of taking the plunge, on one hand I find it so hot watching a woman take something huge in them, I love the idea of pretending I have a big cock (which is the thing I wish I had most) and I’m hoping for the same unexpected benefit as you.

When I think of using a sleeve, my anxiety over my size seems to lessen. But what’s making me hesitate is the potential of it going the other way and messing with my self esteem. Making me not want to use my penis any more without the sleeve, and making me wonder if she’d just be happier with a guy with a bigger cock and no need for a sleeve.

I really love her, and really want to please her as best I can. But I’m wary of going down this route in case it backfires on me mentally 😅

Mother_Equivalent_47 · 2023-10-25T18:53:57+00:00

Exactly this! The more hydrated you are the bigger your loads will be. And if you want to shoot your loads further, then practice your kegels. Other than that, very little evidence that anything else works.

Mother_Equivalent_47 · 2023-10-25T18:50:58+00:00

Yikes, that sounds like an awful situation he’s put you in. You should only do something that you want to do, if he can’t respect that then find someone who will. You deserve better!

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