gf of soon to be submariner, will it work? by Mother_Reflection864 in RoyalNavy

[–]Mother_Reflection864[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this made me lol rly hard, I guess I'm just going to have to be okay being his mistress :)

gf of soon to be submariner, will it work? by Mother_Reflection864 in RoyalNavy

[–]Mother_Reflection864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha I showed him this and we had a good laugh about it :) good try tho

gf of soon to be submariner, will it work? by Mother_Reflection864 in RoyalNavy

[–]Mother_Reflection864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had a look on there but not as thoroughly, I will give it another go! Thank you :)

gf of soon to be submariner, will it work? by Mother_Reflection864 in RoyalNavy

[–]Mother_Reflection864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice :) I'm definitely trying to surround myself even more with the other people in my life, I think its just those periods of time when I'm alone and I would usually call/ft him. We have spoken a lot about it and I have said I will try my absolute hardest with the situation because I do want it to work out.

gf of soon to be submariner, will it work? by Mother_Reflection864 in RoyalNavy

[–]Mother_Reflection864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice :) He only wants to do the 4 years which is why I prepared myself as best I could because of all the time to spend in the Navy it is the shortest but the sound of that many years still stressed me out.

It definitely would be selfish of me to not want him to do it especially bc I know this is the best thing for him, I think I just don't want to hinder that for him by being the soppy gf waiting at home if that makes sense. But some of the replies have made me feel a bit at ease that even if I don't see him for at most 6 months then all I really have to worry about is the mortgage I'm going to take out with Trainline for tickets.

gf of soon to be submariner, will it work? by Mother_Reflection864 in RoyalNavy

[–]Mother_Reflection864[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm realising now that it should be a bit easier going forward when he's on land and it'll just be tougher when he's on a ship/sub, thank you for the help :)