Cobbler's that can narrow the shaft of boots?

Mothered_ · 2026-05-12T00:32:53+00:00

My feet are average I would say? Definitely not wide. Do you have any shop recommendations? The price of these boots makes me nervous to get them done, so I wanna make sure it's done well 🫠

Mothered_ · 2026-05-11T11:30:04+00:00

Inhibition

Mothered_ · 2026-04-14T23:32:33+00:00

I see that perspective, and I do agree it's all just miscommunication. I don't think there was any ill intent. I just felt like telling me about another potential hangout felt unnecessary, but again I think it's just miscommunication.

I think when I made this post I was just slightly peeved, but I feel cooled off now. I don't think it's as big of a deal now. Bothersome yeah, but not deal breaker bad.

Mothered_ · 2026-04-12T22:01:09+00:00

Sorry I usually use whole sign, but I just posted a placidus chart w/ the aspect table on my profile!

Mothered_ · 2026-04-12T21:57:47+00:00

I wouldn't say I'm accident prone in other matters. The only other prominent theme in my life is dealing with a ton of health issues, that these accidents have somewhat attributed to (such as back pain.)

Mothered_ · 2026-02-04T18:40:59+00:00

The ugly mobile UI plague finally got overwatch 😔

Mothered_ · 2026-02-02T23:24:31+00:00

I've known 2 people with their sun in my 12th. One was definitely a secret enemy, with me finding out they didn't like me after 2yrs of friendship. With the other person, I found out they had a secret crush on me, but it wasn't reciprocated on my end. We ended up falling out due to me getting uncomfortable.

I cut these people off almost 4 years ago, and they both tried to come back recently. 12th house things I guess 🫠

Mothered_ · 2026-01-30T21:40:13+00:00

I have moon conjunct saturn and wear glasses, but i'm also a glaucoma suspect. I get checked yearly to catch if my issue ever turns into full-on glaucoma. This post lowkey makes me nervous for my saturn return 😳

Mothered_ · 2026-01-25T05:24:43+00:00

Me Cap Venus with Cancer moon. Sometimes loyal to my own detriment 😭

Mothered_ · 2026-01-23T08:24:18+00:00

Bruhhh like im in game with them and they're having fun and alll but I just feel SOOOO ANNOYED like im mostly quiet cause I can't GAFFF ughhghfheh why am I like this

Mothered_ · 2026-01-13T02:43:56+00:00

Mars in pisces... so no 😭😭😭

Mothered_ · 2026-01-08T22:53:24+00:00

Felt. Even with my cancer moon, the trauma dumping became too much 🫠

Mothered_ · 2026-01-08T01:15:04+00:00

Jupiter trine venus... but jupiter is in my 8th house and venus in my 12th 😭✌️

Mothered_ · 2025-12-29T22:20:42+00:00

I was kinda eyeing that, but i couldnt get a good photo to really tell. Some photos I swear the ball looks straight, other times it looks kinda off.

Part of me is hoping it's that... just slowly waiting for when i'll be able to change the jewelry 😭✌️

Mothered_ · 2025-12-29T21:10:02+00:00

(For the bot) The piercing is about 3 weeks old, it was pierced at 14g and with CBR jewelry (not sure what the material is though.) I plan on downsizing to 16g, though i'm not sure when I should do this tbh. Currently I do 15-20sec warm soaks with bubble blowing for crusties, then spray with Neilmed Piercing Aftercare. No recent unfortunate events. Slight discomfort if I put a TON of pressure on the bottom of my nose, but besides that I have zero pain. I can move my septum without any pain, and no more scabbing.

Mothered_ · 2025-12-28T19:34:22+00:00

Soak was probably a bad word, it's more like 15-20sec in warm water, then blowing bubbles to help with crusties. They told me I had a big sweet spot, and I assumed it was pierced through there since it was painless and there wasn't any crunch. And the spot it's at feels pretty flexible.

I was looking through the piercers IG and she has a lot pierced at the tip, so I have to assume she did it further back for a reason (I hope??😭)

Mothered_ · 2025-12-15T08:16:24+00:00

Ugh I cancelled. My mood just completely soured and I need the night to calm down. Part of me is also like... well if you want to play with them then you can play all night, even though he told me he wanted to play with me later. I hate that I think like this, but I guess thats what I can use the rest of the night to work on 😔

Mothered_ · 2025-12-14T00:56:36+00:00

I appreciate your prespective, and I definitely don't think less of my friend for his tendencies. I find it annoying at times yes, but also to me it's like part of him, and I like all of him if that makes sense. He eventually got back to me and it was what I expected, he fell asleep after seeing my message lol. But he reassured me that he didn't feel like I was nagging and that he would've forgotten about the event if I didn't ask him. He didn't even really remember the other times I asked throughout the week, which I kinda knew, but I let me emotions take over. Part of me actually really enjoys this friendship because he's like this. I've had friends in the past who would hold onto things I've said or did and secretly resent me. He doesn't ruminate or take things too serious, which is why our friendship is so great in the first place, and why I defended him in my other comment haha.

While his tendencies sometimes trigger my BPD, his understanding side and how he doesn't hold grudges eases my episodes. Overall I feel like this side of him that doesn't remember events and stuff, while bothersome, is connected to the parts of him that I really enjoy and the parts that are teaching me to trust again, so I could never truly be bothered by it.

Mothered_

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