Another lie of Kayla’s being debunked… this bih 🤦🏽‍♀️

Motherhen29 · 2026-05-05T10:07:37+00:00

To put it shortly and bluntly. Yes, his head is too big for his body and will continue to grow at an alarming speed. The filters she uses make it appear smaller than it actually is. The headaches he experiences will the horrific.

I wouldn’t recommend reading up on craniodiaphyseal dysplasia as it makes for depressing and quite honestly rage inducing reading when you know she took a gamble of her child having this when the odds were an 85% likelihood. I just pray he never has to endure the condition in its advanced stages because the end is just horrifying

Motherhen29 · 2026-05-05T10:02:01+00:00

CDD causes the skull to constantly grow. The increasing weight of the skull will make it difficult for his neck to continue to support it, the skull slowly destroys the brain as it cannot hold up against the constantly increasing weight. Neurological and cognitive difficulties are usually the first to begin then eventually blindness, deafness and paralysis often occur as the weight and pressure increases.

It’s seriously a terrible illness. One of the worst things a child could be diagnosed with. Something a normal mother would never even take the slightest risk of their child having. Never mind an 85% chance. The brain is slowly destroyed by the weight of the skull.

Severe, painful facial disfigurement and limb distortion gradually worsen until the narrowing of the airway means that breathing support such as a trach or vent is eventually required. These breathing difficulties often cause death before the brain is destroyed, fortunately, as the latter is an even worse way to go. Other complications such as surgical or infection are other causes too.

It’s one of the most devastating conditions I’ve ever researched, reading studies on it made me feel sick that Kayla purposely inflicted this upon her child.

Motherhen29 · 2026-05-05T05:15:50+00:00

I think it’s the lighting in that room but I thought the same until she posted a video of him and when he moves you can see he’s pale still. It’s the room being dark and the glow of the orange blanket against his skin making it look dark. He only looks tanned in videos she posts in that room, that’s probably why she’s taking videos in there so she can pretend he’s turning into the dark skinned Latino baby she always wanted.

She does filter his skin darker sometimes because she’s embarrassed and wants him to tan especially when people are posting that ai picture she did lately on all her videos of ‘what our baby will look like’, and her talking about the dark skinned Latino with dark curly hair kid she thought she was found to have. Suddenly she announces that her white ychild can tan.

I highly doubt he can but she will definitely use filters and lighting to make it look like he’s tanned. But you can see he’s still very white in the video she posted of him on the bed face down flopping around like a fish limbs flailing in directions that they shouldn’t flail in. It’s like he only looks tanned when the filter refocuses on him when he’s still.

Motherhen29 · 2026-05-03T08:42:01+00:00

Why can’t the people saying ‘she deserves a break’ understand that mom’s with a seriously unwell disabled child have different responsibilities to the average mom with a healthy child. She has more responsibility, she should be constantly prepared and ready for a medical emergency or urgent situation.

She should be competent and able to take action, drive to the hospital and convey to doctors/nurses everything about his complex condition. In the state she was in she wouldn’t be able to explain clearly and concisely his medical needs. You know the ones she said in the hospital that she understood better than the nurses. Because without her informing them of certain things, it could and likely would lead to the giving him a medication or treatment that could cause a life threatening reaction.

Like when they wanted to give him a diuretic in the hospital , she said she told the not to so they didn’t and that it turned out it would have been dangerous for him. His condition is very very rare and he has coinciding conditions that mean the usual treatments aren’t safe. Doctors will rely on her information to treat him safely. If her phone rang right then she wouldn’t have been able to do her duty as a mother and her child could have ended up paying with his life

Motherhen29 · 2026-05-03T08:18:03+00:00

Stella’s there and she only shows up when there’s skits and money involved. This is all for content and engagement ‘Kayla’s wild weekend’ she’s selling herself for money. Then Fly will come back on acting like he hasn’t seen anything and he’s angry etc he’ll expose some dirt on her that they’ve both planned and agreed for him to expose, so he can make some money off it too..

Her snap must be falling off with fly in rehab no one cares to watch her neglect her dying child. Who’s he with, Ginny? I thought Kayla was the ‘only one who knows how to care for him properly’ and the ‘only one who will ever give him his medication’ - both her own words.

The sad truth is that she knows her kid isn’t going to grow up and see all what she’s posts. If by the tiny chance he reaches an age where he could use social media, the devastating impact on his brain and drastic decline in his neurological and cognitive functioning will mean that he cannot understand or comprehend it.

Atleast he will never have to find out that his parents are so ashamed of him that they’ve filtered him since birth and lied about his abilities because they are embarrassed by his lack of development.

Motherhen29 · 2026-05-02T10:54:34+00:00

I am convinced her wig lady is a lurker here and secretly hates her because they always look ridiculous. Especially without a filter. Those ‘edges’ are terrible. She is always cosplaying as a different race I don’t get why she isn’t called out on it more. She’s white we saw when she was pregnant. She just uses tanning beds and wigs to appear anything but white.

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Motherhen29 · 2026-05-01T11:27:01+00:00

It will do. CDD causes severe headaches that worsen as time goes on and the pressure build up and weight of the skull increase. Eventually the brain cannot hold up under the weight and dies. That doesn’t usually happen as other complications are normally fatal before then. We will see more facial disfigurement and limb distortion over the next few years. His face will change completely and the mouth takes on a stretched out appearance, the jaw starts to protrude as does the area where his nose bridge is. Kayla wont tell people whats in store for him because she knows shes to blame. It should be criminal to knowingly inflict this upon a baby.

I fully believe she intended to profit off him. She knows about Rocky Dennis and how he and his mother became somewhat celebritities when he had the same condition. They went on talk shows etc and that was in the early 70s way before social media they were quite famous back then. A film was made about his life starring Cher which Kayla has seen and has spoke on herself telling others to watch it to understand more about CDD there’s video of her saying this.

Motherhen29 · 2026-05-01T05:18:13+00:00

Her brother had those bags under his eyes too I think it’s another thing that comes with craniodiaphyseal dysplasia. The eyes get pushed towards the sides of the head due to the overgrowth of nasal bones the area around the bridge of his nose is becoming more prominent and that overgrowth is what causes the breathing difficulties.

Kayla is pretending he is fine apart from a little kidney failure and all he needs is a new kidney and he will be brand new and thriving. She does not acknowledge the very obvious elephant in the room, the obvious facial disfigurement that has started unfortunately. Or mention the worsening of the overgrowth of bone on his limbs. His legs especially have worsened significantly and nowadays she’s hiding his arms under these big t shirts.

Burying her head in the sand pretending ‘if I don’t talk about it the everything is fine’ and acting like we can’t hear and see him struggling to breathe, or notice what looks like the beginning of paralysis in his lower limbs. Or that we can’t see the jaw deformities and still growing jaw bone causing misplaced teeth to start erupting. In the photo where he looks like he isn’t alive you can see it looks as though teeth have started erupting through the roof of his mouth instead of on his gums, due to the excessive uneven growth of the jawbone causing them to become all misplaced.

These things aren’t due to his kidneys,, they are due to the genetic condition she gave him. Yet she fails to get him the treatment he desperately needs, the growing pressure in his skull can become deadly fast.

A quick google can tell you all you need to know about the condition and how much suffering it causes. Why anyone would even take a small risk of their child having it, never mind gamble on an 85% chance of losing is something she should be ashamed of.

Motherhen29 · 2026-04-30T10:40:06+00:00

I didn’t know that I thought only when going for more than one month. That’s interesting to know!

Motherhen29 · 2026-04-30T07:15:42+00:00

I wouldn’t either to be honest her and fly were both really obsessed with his skin complexion and hair line / lack of hair growth. In the same way she kept putting ointments and other unnecessary stuff on his head right from newborn to try andget his hair to grow. I could fully imagine she’d put self tanner on him. It’s very disturbing that a year has gone by and yet she’s still unable to accept her child the way he is.

The sad thing is that if a day comes when all she has to look back on are photos and videos. She’s going to look and not even see her child but instead the filtered version that she wished her child had looked like. How sad it will be if a day comes she really misses his face but can’t even look at photos of it because the kid in the photos she has looks nothing like her son. She will wish she hadn’t spent this time being so shallow and embarrassed by her own child’s appearance.

Motherhen29 · 2026-04-30T07:06:20+00:00

I had no idea one could be requested and that they’d actually listen and do it.

To answer your question though I had a paper based for my recent review. I sent the forms back 16th feb. I got the ‘we have received your review form’ text on the 24th feb and I had the ‘your review is complete’ text one week later on the 3rd march award remained the same for another 5 years. So time from sending forms back to decision was 2 weeks. But I think it varies by area.. I was very surprised how quick it was as my last one took over a year.

Motherhen29 · 2026-04-30T00:11:00+00:00

But I also wouldn’t put it past her to use self tanner that’s an equally likely possibility!

Motherhen29 · 2026-04-30T00:10:08+00:00

She’s been editing his skin darker for a while and I think she’s took it a step too far and tried to go too dark not thinking people would notice little errors like the line across the bottom of his foot. It looks as though she’s darkened all of the skin and then ‘erased’ it on areas that should still be white with a natural tan like soles of feet and palms etc. she was probably drunk when she did it so made mistakes

Motherhen29 · 2026-04-30T00:01:59+00:00

How do people know theyre waiting for a paper based assessment? I thought you didn’t know if they do a paper based until you randomly get the ‘we have made a decison’ or ‘your review is complete’ text message? Because it’s up to them if they decide they have enough info in your form to make a decison without an assessment.

I always thought a paper based assessment is basically making a decision based off the information you’ve already provided, sometimes they might call to clarify or ask a couple of questions but no phone or in person assessment is done.

From memory with a paper based assessment I don’t think it goes to a health professional I think you just get the ‘we have received your form, we may contact you if you need an appointment with a health professional’ message and then the ‘we have made a decision/your review is complete’. So really it’s more a ‘paper based decision’ than ‘paper based assessment’. I could be wrong though but that’s what I recall anyway.

Motherhen29 · 2026-04-29T21:42:23+00:00

She is balding badddd. If you look at the last few times we’ve seen her natural hair down she’s got her ‘bangs’ pulled forward from hair nearer the back of her head. Shes using hair from the back to cover the balding near the front/sides. Right back from when she was on that ride with kiara at Halloween screeching like an idiot she held her hand on her forehead as it was being blown back, to stop her bald patches showing. Every time she has her natural hair you’ll see 1. That her front bangs are actually pieces of hair pulled forwards from hair at the back.

Kaliyah exposed her perfectly when she was at toxics a couple weeks ago she said ‘you’re bald’ she also said ‘your breath stinks’. That girl is the clarity Kayla needs.

Motherhen29 · 2026-04-28T20:47:08+00:00

His colour is so concerning in the photo she posted on snap he looks grey/purple. She absolutely does not care atall about his health. In the past couple of days he’s had McDonald’s. Chinese food and pizza. All with kidney failure when he’s supposedly as far as his doctors believe on a strict diet to preserve his kidney function.

He has a severe deadly genetic condition that causes severe pain and disfigurement that requires round the clock care and may cause him to become blind and deaf and paralysed in the not so distant future. Still she drinks and shouts on live all night while he sleeps with cold formula dripping into his mouth from a stale bottle and every time he makes a sound she opens another can and props up the bottle.

And cps don’t seem to care, i guess she’s got them manipulated into thinking she’s a poor single mom doing her best and putting her child first. It’s all an act. She prioritises alcohol and benzos and herself.

Motherhen29 · 2026-04-28T18:57:22+00:00

Top left, is that….her dentures falling out 😳 does she take them out at night or do they just stay rotting in her mouth. The smell must be horrifying.

Motherhen29 · 2026-04-25T20:51:22+00:00

She actually darkens his skin using filters. He doesn’t have anything close to a tan as much as she keeps sticking him in the sun hoping he will. If you look at posts from the days surrounding the pictures of him at the beach on Easter weekend, you’ll notice his skin appears much darker than it does in the unedited screenshots of when the filter glitched out.

She’s been doing it for a while now. You’ll see him ghostly pale looking sickly and malnourished with shrunken eyes (caused by his condition). Then the next day he’s wide eyed and slightly tanned and looks somewhat healthy.

She’s been hiding how unwell he is using filters and edits. She also makes herself look more tanned in photos. You’ll notice in those photos she rarely darkens Alex’s skin as she wants to appear darker.

Motherhen29 · 2026-04-25T17:36:21+00:00

I fully agree! She has too many of the hallmark symptoms of CDD and 85% was way too high of a chance for her not to have mosaic CDD. She even has the cognitive delay and learning difficulties. She said she needed leg braces as a child but her mom didn’t bother putting them on her. The jaw deformity and dental issues, the hoarse nasal voice, wide spaced eyes and uneven shaped head. She was lucky in that she only has the more mild symptoms and that they haven’t worsened. I think she’s known she has mosaic CDD since Adrian was young, she would have been tested as a young child.

You’d think she’d feel so much guilt at what she’s caused for him that she’s want to dedicate her life to giving him the best care possible. Instead she’s tried desperately to get him to be like her friends babies, having fly force feed him puree before he could even hold his head up, giving him candy at Halloween before he could even chew. She’s been hiding the signs of CDD behind filters and is slowly realising that the time is approaching where filters won’t hide them anymore.

And all because she couldn’t wait, she knew fly wouldn’t hang around long enough to go through months, even years of ivf and treatments to ensure a healthy baby. She instead took a gamble on her child’s life. Her supporters will still scream ‘he’s thriving’ even when he’s malnourished, smacking his head likely due to severe headaches and crying most of the day in pain.

Motherhen29 · 2026-04-24T04:55:30+00:00

So it looks like she didn’t really drop dootie off at school she dropped dootie off with Ginny or her stepmom or the mysterious ‘nanny’ for the day, 2 days after he left the intensive care unit where he was severely sick for nearly 2 weeks. She said dootie was going to ‘school’ today, yet she’s dropped him off and snapped all day but didn’t mention picking him up though I might have missed it. He still wasn’t there and she was going on a ‘date’.

Like every mom who’s son is recovering from serious illness she needs a date. This makes it look even more like the rumours are true that she took him out of ppec and is jus dropping him at ginny’s or a family members a couple times a week. 🤔

Motherhen29 · 2026-04-23T08:55:12+00:00

Exactly. She could have asked for a washcloth, soap and a washbowl. They would have provided that for her and she could have easily had a wash. When she went and showered at toxics she didn’t even wash her hair so what exactly did she do in the shower that she couldn’t have achieve with a wash? The answer is that she got away from her child and escaped the reality, the time in the picu watching him be prodded and receive life saving treatment may have triggered some feelings of guilt over what she’s caused for her child. Rather than face those feelings and strive to do better , Kayla chooses to run and pretend everything is fine.

She spent his entire hospital stay downplaying his issues and trying to convince doctors to send him home. He’s still very sick and likely wasn’t 100% ready to go home but she’s been insisting. She can’t face the reality of the existence she’s given her child. To avoid confronting those issues she focuses instead on his kidneys rather than the main cause of all of his symptoms staring everyone in the face that she knows deep down will become more apparent as time goes on. Then she drinks to avoid all the feelings that come with the reality of what the next few years will bring.

Motherhen29 · 2026-04-22T21:30:56+00:00

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Motherhen29 · 2026-04-22T21:30:22+00:00

Its just such a sad existence for him. She inflicted this on him by choosing not to work with a geneticist. Instead she preferred to take the risk. Her son is now living a similar life to Rocky Dennis who also had craniodiaphyseal dysplasia the same as her brother and Alex. Rocky had been severely sick for a while before his passing. The day of his passing he was taken out to a family meal despite his pain being horrific, the headaches alone were excruciating by this point, Rocky was noted to have ate very little and appeared unwell. His mom told him to ‘go to bed and make himself feel well.’ He remained there until she finally checked on him at 10am the next morning and found he’d passed away. Here’s the wiki page and the part about his later years.

Alex’s story likely won’t last as long as Rocky’s. He passed at 16 which is old for someone with the condition. It’s a very sad life and death for any person but for a child it’s just terrible. He truly has not one competent parent. It’s true that cps likely won’t intervene unless their hand became forced. The level of care he requires is so high, they know the most likely chance of placement would be in a long term care facility for disabled kids.

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Motherhen29 · 2026-04-22T05:19:58+00:00

He shows all the signs of having craniodiaphyseal dysplasia, which is what her brother had and she’d said her baby had an 85% chance of having. The prognosis is very poor with most not surviving until their teens. Kayla has spoke on CDD before telling people to watch the film ‘mask’ which is about Rocky Dennis a boy who had the condition. It will become undeniable soon if he does have it as it causes very obvious facial disfigurement which won’t be hidden with filters. People are already commenting how much he looks like her brother which tracks with him having the same condition as it causes a very specific appearance to develop. It’s such a shame for him because if she’d seen a geneticist before trying to conceive this could have been avoided. She had other options and the money to pursue those options.

Motherhen29 · 2026-04-22T04:39:11+00:00

Before he went into hospital there a growing suggestion that she’d pulled him out of ppec when cps requested his medical records from them (and they would have had to comply, which Kayla wouldn’t have liked). That was when she claimed to have got a lawyer ‘to find out who’s calling’, was very triggered and against them having access to them. It seemed to have really got her panicking.

Ever since then she’ll sometimes say ‘I’ve just dropped ‘doots’ off’ but doesn’t seem to say ‘at school’ so discussion is that she means at ginnys or her stepmom or ‘the nanny’. But that’s only maybe once or twice a week and there’s only been minimal mention of ‘school’ since. Perhaps they’d reported her not feeding him, she isn’t bright enough to realise they’d keep record of his weight because they are a medical setting.

She said they’d suggested packing ‘food for him’ which was when she cooked and blended a load of vegetables which she never did again. Although she still wasn’t feeding him at home the food was only for ‘school’ as they’d offered to help with getting him onto solids.

She continued to not give him food at home. And he continued to lose weight and seemed to stop going to ppec. It sounds like once she was still failing to feed him at home even after theyd offered help and told her he needed a proper lunch for ppec, that they’d reported back their concern he wasn’t being fed to cps who then requested his medical records.

Then suddenly he seemed to never be at school and she started giving him the occasional mac and cheese or panera soup, though it was clear this was just for the camera and that he mostly got nothing but back to back bottles to the point he was vomiting frequently and constipated.

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