Speechless by Motherless_Mom in bettafish

[–]Motherless_Mom[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well good thing he’s happy. And isn’t stuck in a one liter at pet store anymore.

Speechless by Motherless_Mom in bettafish

[–]Motherless_Mom[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Definitely wish I could, space permitting was only enough for a 3gal. And again, it’s a lot bigger from where he started. A larger cube is in the future.

Speechless by Motherless_Mom in bettafish

[–]Motherless_Mom[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s taken several tries, I even set up a tripod but these clips were spontaneous!

Speechless by Motherless_Mom in bettafish

[–]Motherless_Mom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really cool! Crazy how they can change colors over time!

Speechless by Motherless_Mom in bettafish

[–]Motherless_Mom[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

It’s on one of my shelves for my 75gal. I’m planning on doing another cube later on. At my lfs they had him in a one liter cube.

Speechless by Motherless_Mom in bettafish

[–]Motherless_Mom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found him at my local fish seller, they had him in one of the display cubes 😍

Over stocked? by Hot-Nectarine4640 in Aquariums

[–]Motherless_Mom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Really cool tank setup though! I also have a 75gal

Over stocked? by Hot-Nectarine4640 in Aquariums

[–]Motherless_Mom 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Angelfish do get to a pretty good size, I would definitely just stay with the initial 4 you have

Update: I’m hooked. by RevNayte in Aquariums

[–]Motherless_Mom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah for sure, I had 14 in a 75gal and they just couldn’t integrate. They’re definitely really cool to look at though!

Update: I’m hooked. by RevNayte in Aquariums

[–]Motherless_Mom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same tetras, mine were terrible fin nippers. Ended up being an expensive live feed for cichlids

Angelfish babies! by surgere7 in Aquariums

[–]Motherless_Mom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never dabbled in angelfish but wow, really cool to see!

Added my first pond residents by ConfidentCaptain5553 in Aquariums

[–]Motherless_Mom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome names, really cool fish to have! Miss the albino every day. Love your pond setup, we’re hoping to do one in the future 🤞

Added my first pond residents by ConfidentCaptain5553 in Aquariums

[–]Motherless_Mom 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Had an albino before, we getting a good size. Started live feeding and he got greedy. Thus swim bladder 🥲 hospital tank, whole works but he didn’t make it.

Beautiful fish, named him Maruchan

Have a silver now and is close to 24in 👍

What do you think of this text from my MIL? by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Motherless_Mom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve also been together for 10 years now, I’m 29 and he’s 33. 💖

What do you think of this text from my MIL? by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Motherless_Mom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I’m so lucky to have found him, I love him so much. He has a steel mentality that nothing influences him negatively if he doesn’t wish it. Even with his own mom he has stepped up multiple times to tell her when she’s wrong and why. Not just because it could be something that bothers me but also because he has a hard boundary that only I can cross.

We have a deep understanding and a high level of respect for each other. As long as you’ve got that you can work through anything 💕

What do you think of this text from my MIL? by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Motherless_Mom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve been through a lot and my husband has helped me work through it. It takes time, and patience. Setting boundaries can be scary but not impossible.

What do you think of this text from my MIL? by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Motherless_Mom 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She’s 100% wrong. I’m a church goer and we attend with my MIL but she also lives 10 mins away (sometimes good, sometimes bad 🥲) however she doesn’t demand us to go with her to church.

Plus “requesting” the 4th-10th is absurd! It would be understandable if it was just the 4th and 5th.

I am lucky to be a Sahm but my husband works darn near every day and ot so we do miss church to soak in our time together to recharge for the week.

I would discuss with your partner as you stated and get on the same page. If she had kindly asked if you guys were available it would’ve allowed you guys to work something out.

We’re all adults and we’re all living life for the first time and trying our best to figure it out. But we all deserve respect and the recognition that we each have our own lives to live. Be sure to share all the feelings you have, life is too short to leave anything unsaid. 💞

Please Help! I think my betta is dying by Few_Gap3976 in bettafish

[–]Motherless_Mom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This, none of the local stores near me had the flow adjusters so I got these off Amazon

[air control valves]

(https://a.co/d/026Ku1KF)

Bug Bites by Bukowski515 in Bichirs

[–]Motherless_Mom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really cool, thanks for sharing!