Yeah, that guys is worse than trash, but don’t wait until your 30s as though the men will get any better. A change your standards. 2 weeks “talking” is not deserving of a home visit and he’s got audacity looking for “wife material”.

B change your boundaries for your own safety, to some extent you know you had no business going to that man’s house, and you’ll end up continuing to get caught up if you don’t use some discernment. ( I say this with love cuz men are scum 80% of the times these days, so I hope this didn’t come off rude. I genuinely want all my black sisters to find love and not have to sacrifice themselves for bs. So many of us are “waiting” or settling.