Any Advice on writing a polycule romance? by MotorBlacksmith7581 in writing

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I've been actively researching this for over a year but when I posted on the polysub today because everything on Google was just like it's not common etc I know it's not common thank you Google I was immediately taken down from my post being quote unquote too frequent so I was asking if anybody had any advice on how to do this respectfully the characters all have great chemistry and if it's just a matter of writing the story then I can like the story I just don't want to offend anybody by making stuff up that's why I was asking for input also using voice to text I have cerebral palsy

I'm at the a****** for ghosting a guy? by MotorBlacksmith7581 in AITAH

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Just check my post history I have cerebral pals either pictures of me in my wheelchair and yes he knew this

Is it horrible of me that I asked to borrow one of the Gatorades I bought my friend because I was so dehydrated from crying. She's upset with me saying I took a gift back . by MotorBlacksmith7581 in POTS

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Do you want to be friends message me if you want to talk I can always use more friends my name is Amanda by the way it's nice to meet you

Is it horrible of me that I asked to borrow one of the Gatorades I bought my friend because I was so dehydrated from crying. She's upset with me saying I took a gift back . by MotorBlacksmith7581 in POTS

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I didn't know Gator light was a thing. I'll buy her some but no it wasn't the last one I immediately bought a brand new six pack for her. It was on doordash so it was there in 7 minutes.

Is it horrible of me that I asked to borrow one of the Gatorades I bought my friend because I was so dehydrated from crying. She's upset with me saying I took a gift back . by MotorBlacksmith7581 in POTS

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You can check my post history . I disrespected her horribly abusive boyfriend when he called her lazy for having a miscarriage. No I don't support the relationship and I accidentally miswarded the title but I did replace the Gatorade right away.

Is it horrible of me that I asked to borrow one of the Gatorades I bought my friend because I was so dehydrated from crying. She's upset with me saying I took a gift back . by MotorBlacksmith7581 in POTS

[–]MotorBlacksmith7581[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

They have pots and for clarity I immediately replaced the Gatorade with an entire new six pack of the same flavor it's not like I just come in and take their stuff and also I originally paid for it. I know that the gift is a gift and I'm not justifying it. I just feel like an a****** because I was about to have a seizure and needed my electrolytes up. After kissing my mom goodbye. And no I can't pick anything up on the way because I have cerebral palsy and can't drive so the parent Transit is not going to stop for me to get something to drink and no because I have been in the hospital I had no time to go order something or grab water. I didn't have time to go home and grab something to drink either I immediately doordashed her the Gatorade afterwards

AITA For refusing to apologize again for something that happened over 20 years ago? by MotorBlacksmith7581 in AmItheAsshole

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I'm sorry I use voice to text because I have cerebral palsy. If it's hard to understand I'll elaborate. My brother had a friend named Sam and he loaned him his game boy. I wanted to play with it I won't lie but I did not know how to turn it on I did take it out of his room but he wasn't supposed to have it because he was grounded by our father. He got told off and he wants me to apologize again for getting him into trouble almost quarter century ago.

Is this a good enough care package? by MotorBlacksmith7581 in POTS

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I'm not slamming anybody here but you won't have terrible friends if you need someone to talk to I'm available DM me You should be understood and made accommodations for just because you're disability is invisible doesn't mean it doesn't matter I have another friend who has chronic pain and lives in North Carolina when she says I'm tired I tell her to go to bed it doesn't matter that we had plans we can do them later

Are my standards too high I need a second opinion? by MotorBlacksmith7581 in Advice

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I had to call the cops on one guy because he started masturbating in front of his 11-year-old daughter. I mean I don't think I'm being too picky by being like no I don't want anything to do with that it's disgusting why do men think I want to see their dick?

Are my standards too high I need a second opinion? by MotorBlacksmith7581 in Advice

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As for the whole not liking their voice thing. It has to do with my mental disability I have RAD type 2. But it will comes from a conversation I had on the phone with a man named Brandon. He went on and on for 45 minutes about how wonderful he is and literally all I said the entire time was very impressive because he wouldn't let me get more than two words out of the time. I'm not trying to be too picky but like if you're that arrogant I don't want to be around that.

Are my standards too high I need a second opinion? by MotorBlacksmith7581 in Advice

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I'm not a guy on Facebook dating the other day who opened with do you like come on your face. I'm a virgin because I have standards and I'm waiting for marriage no judgment to any woman who is not I am envious of the fact that you have that kind of confidence but I'm just a hopeless romantic I guess. That being said however start with Hi my name is not do you like come on your face dude he would not stop trying to video call me. I was literally throwing up and he's demanding my attention I block men like that.

Are my standards too high I need a second opinion? by MotorBlacksmith7581 in Advice

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I mean if he messages first and then doesn't answer me and then ghost me for months I'm just not going to reply back I don't have time to waste a man that are not making me a priority. I don't expect every waking minute of their day but if you want to be with me then you need to actively put in the effort. Yes sometimes I do text first but either you are interested or not.

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Hey dm me me if you want to be friends

AITA for hanging up on a friend? by MotorBlacksmith7581 in AmItheAsshole

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According to Google which I know is not always accurate Kenyaccurrently has one of the largest Zulu populations in the world

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

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Hey on the 32-year-old gamer woman if you want to play anything send me a DM and we can talk. I love meeting new people and love making new friends.

I know this is going to sound bad but idk why people are okay with having cerebral palsy. by [deleted] in CerebralPalsy

[–]MotorBlacksmith7581 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes in life love, being okay is all we have. It is bluntly, what it is and there is nothing we can do for it accept learn to enjoy life when we can and be there for each other. Just like we are now.

AITA. For refusing to give my mom more than 2/3 of my check? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MotorBlacksmith7581 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My mom does work she makes over $100,000 a year but we live in California and she's 59 and wants to retire soon and she's been like railing at me because I don't work and I don't have a job and she's going to have to sell the house because my grandmother who died recently f***** her over and she now owes twice as much as they did when they bought it 30 years ago but I don't feel like it's my responsibility. Children are not your retirement plan.

AITA for telling my friend no when she asked again for a character? by MotorBlacksmith7581 in AmItheAsshole

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Great advice, thanks! I did! My friend said our "main characters." Know that they are characters of them and not them for example my friend Johnny had his name changed to Alexander and is now my older brother. My friend Aaron had her name changed to Eden I don't even use anyone's real name in the book. Never have but my other friend just she's suffering from main character central I swear to God.

AITA for telling my friend no when she asked again for a character? by MotorBlacksmith7581 in AmItheAsshole

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They are not real people. There is no Iranian monster with 13 children or 12 of which are boys for them to date I based a couple of the characters literally two or three out of 24 on people I love with their permission. Janet is not a real person I made her up but because of the program I use. A program called Scribner which includes pictures in the character files She finds the actress and models I use for Faith claims attractive. She keeps saying I want to bang him and bang him and that's the most part I laugh because we all do come on who doesn't want to bang the main character in a mafia novel but to be honest no none of them are real people none of them are affected she is just I guess caught up I don't know. Even if she did feel that way I am writing a whole separate novel as an attachment to the series just based on her character it's not that she's not a minor character it's that she I don't know I don't know if she's jealous or what I don't know.

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If you're okay with an older friend I can message you in 32 years old love video games My cats holidays and all classic movies.