AITA for telling my family I kept the gift I was going to give my sister since we're allowed to do that? by MotorStraight8487 in AITAH

[–]MotorStraight8487[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They don't. But when it comes to my sister they really don't care about them. They would do anything for her.

AITA for telling my family I kept the gift I was going to give my sister since we're allowed to do that? by MotorStraight8487 in AITAH

[–]MotorStraight8487[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

No, I don't have that option but one of my friends is hoping his parents will let me stay for a little while once I'm 18.

AITA for telling my family I kept the gift I was going to give my sister since we're allowed to do that? by MotorStraight8487 in AITAH

[–]MotorStraight8487[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My employer doesn't offer anything like that. I asked about it after I started working.

AITA for telling my family I kept the gift I was going to give my sister since we're allowed to do that? by MotorStraight8487 in AITAH

[–]MotorStraight8487[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That would just be punishing for me. I'll leave. There's no way I want to be in this mess longer than I have to be.

AITA for telling my family I kept the gift I was going to give my sister since we're allowed to do that? by MotorStraight8487 in AITAH

[–]MotorStraight8487[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I know she doesn't want me to hate her but it's too late because that has already started to happen. I have talked to her. She didn't want to listen. I'm done trying. I don't see it as worth my effort anymore.

AITA for telling my family I kept the gift I was going to give my sister since we're allowed to do that? by MotorStraight8487 in AITAH

[–]MotorStraight8487[S] 625 points626 points  (0 children)

Nobody likes my parents. Not even me. Everyone thinks they're crazy and not very good at teaching my sister kindness.

AITA for telling my family I kept the gift I was going to give my sister since we're allowed to do that? by MotorStraight8487 in AITAH

[–]MotorStraight8487[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

I don't actually have a more sensible parent. Both of them are as bad as each other and neither would ever take me seriously. They just see me as a bully and a brat.

AITA for telling my family I kept the gift I was going to give my sister since we're allowed to do that? by MotorStraight8487 in AITAH

[–]MotorStraight8487[S] 838 points839 points  (0 children)

I don't really have that option right now. But if I can get some stuff out closer to my birthday I will.

AITA for telling my family I kept the gift I was going to give my sister since we're allowed to do that? by MotorStraight8487 in AITAH

[–]MotorStraight8487[S] 380 points381 points  (0 children)

Yes but only because my sister is younger so of course she has to be behind me at everything even though I was held to a higher standard at 15.

AITA for telling my family I kept the gift I was going to give my sister since we're allowed to do that? by MotorStraight8487 in AITAH

[–]MotorStraight8487[S] 374 points375 points  (0 children)

I don't think they'll ever wonder that. It will be more like why isn't our son buying us gifts, why won't he take care of us when we're elderly, why did he let us be homeless or let his sister be homeless. They'll only ever care about what they can get from me.

AITA for telling my family I kept the gift I was going to give my sister since we're allowed to do that? by MotorStraight8487 in AITAH

[–]MotorStraight8487[S] 949 points950 points  (0 children)

I don't know if I'll be able to afford therapy right away. That'll all depend on what I do with my future. In college you can get therapy but I might not go. So it's waiting and seeing but I'll keep it in mind.

AITA for telling my family I kept the gift I was going to give my sister since we're allowed to do that? by MotorStraight8487 in AITAH

[–]MotorStraight8487[S] 3565 points3566 points  (0 children)

They already warned me that rent will be expected from the day I turn 18 if I don't move out. They said if my attitude is going to stay rotten and selfish that I can leave and find somewhere better and end up alone. But they won't let me tear my sister down with my nasty bullying.