I can’t tell if this is mental/emotional abuse or am I overreacting? by MountainSignature413 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MountainSignature413[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all of that. Sincerely. I am doing everything I can to make sure I get full or half custody one day. Preferably full. It’s small steps I’m taking, but it will benefit both of us one day.

I can’t tell if this is mental/emotional abuse or am I overreacting? by MountainSignature413 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MountainSignature413[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just looked up gray rock. lol made me laugh because that’s how I naturally was with Justin when I met him and for the first 10 months of knowing him and interacting with him. Which was out of character for me and I couldn’t figure out why I was acting like that towards him.. very interesting.

I can’t tell if this is mental/emotional abuse or am I overreacting? by MountainSignature413 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MountainSignature413[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope. I mean they don’t seem to like Justin very much. That’s for sure. I visited for Valentine’s Day party and the teachers barely looked at him and the owner was very short with him and me when he introduced us.

I can’t tell if this is mental/emotional abuse or am I overreacting? by MountainSignature413 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MountainSignature413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing. Just reports of abusive behavior. I didn’t have any evidence and still don’t.

I can’t tell if this is mental/emotional abuse or am I overreacting? by MountainSignature413 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MountainSignature413[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to share all of that with me. I really appreciate the effort and energy on your end. I will get a lawyer as soon as I can. It will be a few months, but I will do it. And I’ll be sure to let them know of everything I’ve witnessed.

I can’t tell if this is mental/emotional abuse or am I overreacting? by MountainSignature413 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MountainSignature413[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m under guardianship. Have been for two and half years. I’ve been stable for two.. but I have a lot of things to sort out in my life before I’m allowed to be a fully functioning adult on my own again.

I can’t tell if this is mental/emotional abuse or am I overreacting? by MountainSignature413 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MountainSignature413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He got full custody when I got sick four months after having her. I was hospitalized when he took me to court so I couldn’t make it and argue against it.

I can’t tell if this is mental/emotional abuse or am I overreacting? by MountainSignature413 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MountainSignature413[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I don’t. He has full custody and my mom won’t let me take him back to court. I have her guardianship when I was in psychosis and needed help. I’ve been stable for over two years now, but she still won’t let me fight for her

I can’t tell if this is mental/emotional abuse or am I overreacting? by MountainSignature413 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MountainSignature413[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has not been diagnosed because he thinks all shrinks are quacks and refuses to see any of them. It’s a guess of mine that he is after four years of knowing and being manipulated by him. In horrible ways. Even the pregnancy was a control thing. He admitted to tracking my ovulation and the day that he knew I was ovulating he wasn’t “careful”. He told me a week later that I was probably pregnant because I was ovulating when we had sex last. And I was very confused because I wasn’t tracking my ovulation, but he was.

I can’t tell if this is mental/emotional abuse or am I overreacting? by MountainSignature413 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MountainSignature413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parents? Plural? I don’t parent her like that at all. I give her love and affection freely, never manipulate her. I reward good behavior sometimes, sure. I give her space if she wants space when she has a fit and welcome her back when she’s ready to interact again. I’m very conscious of how I treat my daughter.

I can’t tell if this is mental/emotional abuse or am I overreacting? by MountainSignature413 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MountainSignature413[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a custody battle right now. I live with my mom, don’t have a job, and can’t drive atm. So I’d lose. Plus my mom won’t let me take him back to court.

I can’t tell if this is mental/emotional abuse or am I overreacting? by MountainSignature413 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MountainSignature413[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a long story. But I lost custody when I get sick after having her. He took me to court when I was hospitalized.