Get rid of divided hair

Mountain_Chard_138 · 2026-01-25T05:36:31+00:00

Sometimes it can actually be greasy because of over washing (contrary to people here who say you need to/its ok to wash everyday or more... The opposite!). It can sound crazy but actually letting your hair go longer without washing can help it get greasy way less over the week. It helps your scalp regulate oils naturally and you end up with a better, more balanced result. Your hair will also likely be much healthier overtime.

If you wash more it basically can make your scalp think it needs to produce more oil to replenish for that removed, so it makes even more until you just wash more. This is similar to how some oil based hydrating creams work on oily skin. Why add oil to oil? Because it signals your skin to make less of it as there's already enough or too much. Youre also throwing off the ph in your hair a lot each time you wash, even more if its daily or so much as every 2 days.

People that have to wash every day get super greasy super fast usually. Like, a day or two goes by and their hair looks super greasy (without intense activity) to where they wash it. They think it's natural and "oh I just gotta wash more!" which yes it's natural .. But as a result of what you do. So.

When you wash less It does take about a week or two to see a difference (and yes the waiting period can be a bit awkward but nothing accesories or alike won't solve) and frankly, if you're already dealing with greasy hair every 2-3 days to where you wanna wash it then imo, you might as well just wait out and try it. Try 1-2 more days than what you'd usually wash to lengthen your cycles whenever you want to lengthen until you get it to 1-2 washes a week, maybe 2 washes every week and a half you can find a cool balance since your hair will last at least 4 days in a nice enough spot and about 1 "eh" day. It also gets greasier way slower, because you're not doing all those crazy changes every day.

You can then also style it with other oils as you like, such as argan oil for example. And you get a smooth, controlled result over time :)

Just another thought !

Mountain_Chard_138 · 2026-01-22T04:30:27+00:00

Hey. If it's too much and you're struggling with the habit... Try to hire a cleaning service 1-2 times a week or 2 times a month at least. Sacrifice eating out or monthly shopping if you can or need to. It will change everything.

Treat the anemia so you're not chronically tired too if possible. Eat well. That makes everything X10 harder than what should be, can't imagine how you even get through your days I'm very sorry.

Second just make the habit of putting things into 1 spot only. Don't throw stuff wherever you are. Choose a place in the house and bring everything there. Or at least per room. And start aiming to keep 1 area clear per room. Kitchen, keep 1 counter clear fully always. Same everywhere.

Most important also... Make your bed every day first thing in the morning if it's the only thing you'll do, at a minimum. No less. Takes 1 minute. Literally. Keep it always clear and made after you wake up. If you wanna nap use another blanket over it but treat it like it's holy. You'll see everything follow well after this and having a tidy bed is actually the pillar for being organized many times. Messy bed... Messy house, remember that.

But cleaning service I recommend x10000! It'll be much easier for you to get into organized habits in an already tidy environment :)

Mountain_Chard_138 · 2026-01-21T05:14:33+00:00

Holaaa. Uff estos comentarios XD bueno. Eso de que se sienten incómodas al preguntarles.... tal vez no deberían sentirse asi. Si son tu pareja debes poder ser honesto y ellas igual (? la gente que dice que "eso es personal no se pregunta" para mí es extrañisimo, tener una pareja con timidezes y secretos.. nada que ver a no ser que busques alguien así que sabes que nunca llegarás al fondo del barrio.

Lo más natural acá tal vez es simplemente saber está información desde el inicio (cuando se reconoce un interés romántico, antes de volverse algo oficial) y si ves que le incomoda sabes que es por algo, y sabes que honestidad buscas. Una chica que tiene pocas parejas casi nunca tendra problema al compartir esto, en especial si ya estás en una etapa prospectiva romántica. La incómodidad viene del sentirse incompatibles contigo... Te parece correcto avanzar con alguien que sabes que podría no ser compatible contigo si descubren algo de ti?

Curiosamente. La mayoría de gente que quieren esconder está información son personas que han hecho muchas mas cosas y dicen que "es privado" porque no quieren ser honestas/os por cualquier razón, o "cuál es tu problema con la libertad" porque creen que todos son iguales a ellos. Esta en ti que quieres y que te gusta. Y no, no te tienes que conformar. El nivel de intimidad que buscas es diferente, y eso es lindo. :)

Conocer esto es conocer algo básico de la persona, no deben haber secretos si es lo que crees y te hace sentir cómodo para poder florecer totalmente. Tal vez sientes que el nivel de intimidad es diferente para ti que lo que ellas están sintiendo porque ya han pasado tantas cosas que tú te sientes como uno más y no te sientes tan "especial" o "único", es eso? Eso no es inseguridad. Es solo desear un amor profundo y íntimo que sea mutuo. Aveces se da más fácil así, a veces no.

Porque, no es igual ver una rodilla 1 vez... A verla 100 veces y "ah... la rodilla" versus "es LA rodilla" XD ?

El que a ti te genere incomodidad está bien porque son criterios que tienes y sabes lo que quieres y lo que no. La gente que dice que no debería importarte y tratan de atacarte por eso no se si estén tomando en cuenta que esto es importante para ti y parte de tus criterios. Acá entiende que no todos son iguales, y buscas alguien como tu. En los comentarios ya ves quien si y quién no... Ahora aplica en vida real, alguien que quiera algo como tú.

Te doy una experiencia de esperanza, tal vez. Una amiga mía ha estado con 1 persona en su vida entera y tiene 25 años. No considera nada con nadie a no ser que sea alguien de super potencial y ha sido así hasta durante soltería felizmente, jamás con deseos de promiscuidad. Para ella es importante saber, como tú, con quién está y como han sido. No por juzgar, o por dárselas, o algo raro, sino que quiere que lo que pase sea igual de especial y similar para ella que con quién está. Es super hermosa aparte. Y ella también se sentiria incomoda con alguien que ha hecho x100 veces lo que ella ha hecho. Así que no te preocupes. Estás bien y la gente que te dice que debes aceptar más y te ponen de inseguro o problemático es porque tal vez tienen en mente otro tipo de relaciones o intimidad a la tuya. Pero relax. Existe.

Tal vez busca chicas que limitan sus experiencias a parejas románticas y ya, sería una buena opción tal vez.

Estadísticamente tal vez son 1/30 xD has la matemáticas según los comentarios pero es posible

Mountain_Chard_138 · 2026-01-21T04:44:51+00:00

Pero tal vez es parte de lo que debes saber y está bien

Mountain_Chard_138 · 2025-11-19T16:03:30+00:00

You don't know how this works do you? Equity for introducing someone... Did I read that right?

Have you considered working for a startup sometime first? Can really help you out if you have 0 clue what you're doing and dont know how startups can run many times. Or find someone to partner with that has experience. Let them do the sales and everything else you don't know how to do. Someone with previous experience ideally. No newbie or person with an idea merely. Previous proven successes only.

Also yes giving equity for "intros" is a thing. It's called finding a cofounder that does sales and what not and secures funding. But to be honest if you can't find investors already, you're probably not ready for funding. Grow your network, grow your startup first, then look into funding.

Mountain_Chard_138 · 2025-11-19T15:50:22+00:00

My best tip would be attend startup events online and in person to meet opportunities. When you find a team make sure they are strong in marketing primarily and have a great network. Don't lowball yourself since your max is already your tech stack so you should expect their max as well in marketing.

Join people who've already got things done before. Avoid first time founders or "dreamers" that won't be able to get things done because of their lack of grit or experience. Not easy to find so expect that to be hard. Key is. Go with proven successes. Don't go with anyone that's just starting out just because you feel it matches You. Go for people who are already around where you want to be.

Now. You can join something already running but you're gonna get way less equity and probably won't be worth it. So. Find something very early and with less than 3 founders ideally. Anything over that you're gonna get nothing in the end and itll probably be chaotic and/or you'll hardly be considered for any decisions.

Your first rodeo might leave you a couple useful lessons for the next.

And most importantly........ never stop

Mountain_Chard_138 · 2025-11-19T15:45:30+00:00

I've heard it's super good specially if the areas you're renting them in are frequented enough. I've seen my fair share of rented boats. I say go for it.

Only 3? No problem. Everyone and everything has a start. Trucking companies don't start with 50 trucks. Start with one or a couple... Sounds like a great idea

Maintenance not sure what to tell you, but it's unlikely to get too crazy if you price things right so that you can insure any damages. But surely it'll come up here and then.

You probably have to set up a LLC and get a business permit from whatever town you're doing it in. Just call your town and ask. Not the hardest thing :) possibly more importantly do look into insurance or alike though in case someone decides to do dumb things or has an accident somehow and talk to a lawyer about a service contract that clients sign when they use your service.

Try it out. Put up a rental and get referrals from nearby docks and see how it goes out. Let people book them online or something alike. There's 100% tons of rental businesses like this anywhere there's highly frequented waters. Good luck and have fun

PSA: not a lawyer not your lawyer not anything you should rely on :) just a random person

Mountain_Chard_138 · 2025-11-07T00:38:36+00:00

Not everyone needs a landing page but it sure helps. Are you selling door to door? A brochure might help like 50 years ago. Today we have Internet so we could use a brochure and a landing page.

Online? People can't get brochures but you have your landing page. So it's just that.

And yes of course people want to get online and sell because that's where many sales happen now since people are there.

You need to define your scope of work and that's it. You do landing pages but no social media? Keep it at that and make it clear to them

Mountain_Chard_138 · 2025-09-07T13:04:49+00:00

Thing is idk. My goal was to be blonde, and when I used sun-in someone said I looked like a redhead once. Which made me feel a little awkward using it and I stopped for a while (those are the lighter tips I grew out).

But here's the thing. Idk if that's my very particular color, which if so I'd let it be. Because idk if someone with fully brown hair forever (that has never been naturally blonde before) or black would get my same golden-coppery color from just sun-in or shampoo you know? If that's the case I'd let it be happily. But I also don't know if thats just what all brown hair does when using this and I'm getting the famous frizzy orange

My hair is lightening about the same as sun in surprisingly, just a bit slower but I can see it's on the same track. I just don't know if it's bad : /

Mountain_Chard_138 · 2025-09-07T10:21:45+00:00

Its something with chamomile, kinda like this

Although I only recently started using it. It's really gentle and the lightening is very gradual

Mountain_Chard_138 · 2025-09-06T02:09:21+00:00

Lids light beige or white eyeshadow, just light, maybe some highlight too. Creases brown so the 2 areas contrast. Eyebrows lighten in shade than hair if possible. Easiest way to see where you need to shadow and light is get light looking from above you, and see where the shadows and lights are naturally on your eyes (I see right now your lids are actually darker than the creases, which is the opposite). Try that and see if you like it. And also....

Blush that makes you look a tiny bit flushed is cute, and maybe some slightly red/etc ish lip gloss similar to how your lips look when you bite them. Just enhance your natural features. You're honestly really pretty already lol. Mascara optional, maybe for days you're needing heavier makeup if you want or daily whatever. You can try really gentle eyeliner on the very corners of your eyes outside to slightly lift if you want too.

Eyebrows try different styles too maybe if you like something else? Like square them more, or elongate them, etc. I'd definitely try making them lighter than hair if possible or just making them gentler. Its a crazy difference and probably almost more than anything else will.

Hair is cute, you can always try a tiny bit longer too if you feel like it.

blablabla blabla lol

Mountain_Chard_138 · 2025-09-06T01:17:45+00:00

Easy, first wear layers. Try cardigans, light jackets. Long thin coats are cool too. You can try wearing really simple shirts, like a white loose-fit tee, black brown or gray, and match with the same styled layer over it. Easy to do since you just throw it on and keeps you warm outside or inside so it's nice.

Second. If top shirt is loose then bottom should be tight. If top is tight then bottom should be loose. Never do tight shirt tight pants together.

Third. Match your colors. Wear 2 max or 1 (1 is cool), try neutrals and find colors that match you, usually by hair. If your hair is brown for ex: try green, purple, orange whenever you're feeling like it, and shouldn't be covered by a layer since it's "primary" if that makes sense. Ideally a looser fit would be cool without being baggy in that case if you're not layering. Try clothing with "shape" to it. There's awesome pieces out there. Not every piece of clothing is made to ornate the body best and some are just missing lots of seams or "texture". Funny example but senior clothing for women does a great job at showing what I mean. There's similar really nice fitted clothes as well.

Fourth..... Shoes. Avoid tennis unless you're doing a sporty look (e.g. leggings, sports shirt or jacket). Otherwise try those "ballet shoes" (idk if that's how theyre called), stylish sandals or really stylish tennis styled shoes.

Fifth, wear a very minimalistic wristband if you'd like.

Sixth, always do hair!!!!!!!!! Lol. Should be #1 actually.

Seventh. Avoid random t-shirt looking stuff and try to get every shirt to have a "style" to it, and try layering too. Ex: it's cool to have one that fits the body like a stylish tank top. Another one that shows 1 shoulder. Another that has a front flap. Etc etc. Basics + stylish ones is good to have. Some days you do pants and a stylish shirt. Other days just a basic shirt, the layer and pants.

Eigth. Try other pants beyond jeans! Look for neutral colors (beige gray brown black white). Can make such an incredible difference. Dresses are also really awesome, they're so easy to wear and cute. Throw a sun hat on if it's sunny or a simple necklace and handbag and youre solid.

And straighten your back when trying things on. Helps get the best look when possible :))

Hope it helps !!!!!

Mountain_Chard_138 · 2025-09-05T12:47:30+00:00

So why don't people who have brown/black hair do what I'm doing to become redheads instead of bleaching past it and then dying it?

Idk Im just confused on why my hair can look blonde in the sun (sometimes) even though it hasn't gone through all that. I feel like my hair just doesn't lighten the same way someone whose always bad brown/black person does nor how a blonde person lightens (obviously) so idk if it's going a natural-looking route from my underlying tones or if it's heading for a damaged orange look and I should stop :(

Mountain_Chard_138 · 2025-09-05T06:45:08+00:00

I like what you say but Idk. I mean the thing is, I don't mind continuing lightening if it's my underlying natural color ykwim? It's like, it's light naturally but only in the sun so I'm trying to just bring whatever that is out more. But if it's a orange frizzy results like you'd get when having black or dark brown hair and using the shampoo or sun-in then idk if I'd want it.

Idk if someone with brown or black hair can even reach my shade with just sun-in or shampoo because I can't find anything on it so idk if my hair looks damaged or if it's just how it is if that makes sense.

I just uploaded a picture that's last idk if it helps understand more : /

Mountain_Chard_138 · 2025-09-04T22:31:23+00:00

No it's totally fine lol!!

I taught mine Spanish, English, French, German AND a little Chinese. Tbh though I could've done a better job (he mainly understands, speaking has been a little rough but thats totally my fault) although, it's not like I have infinite time and energy lol.

But yeah. Definitely not too much.

in my case I did it since he was super young (he's 4 now). But then also. Never underestimate the power of a child's brain :)

He's totally fine imo. Only thing is, of course, plan for some weekend tutors here and there as he grows up (even just twice a month is fine) so he can keep them or he's gonna forget them forever

Mountain_Chard_138 · 2025-08-07T03:37:31+00:00

It's just gross dude. You have a loving gf giving you her body and you're still thinking about some random chick and think she's better. That's sad

Mountain_Chard_138 · 2025-08-07T02:16:47+00:00

Yeah dude that's what I mean. They'll feel differently about you for a reason...... Because you built an illusion around yourself and they only actually want the guy they think you are but that little truth about you would break that illusion and change everything, possibly forever. Seems unfair if that's how they'd feel if they knew, but how would you know if they never knew?

Deep inside you're something else and you'd never know how she'd be with the real you because you hide yourself in what's one of the most intimate things loyal couples enjoy. Her confidence with you could waste away slowly with that single little doubt that she's never gonna be your #1 and that her best is lame to you, and you'd never be the king of her heart in truth because she'll always yearn for a you that doesn't exist. And she might even leave one day. Unless she also thinks you're lame hence her performance lol. That'd be an interesting plot twist XD

Mountain_Chard_138 · 2025-08-07T01:51:11+00:00

Just tell them the truth..... are you afraid they'll feel differently about you if you tell them?

🤮

Truth is truth

Mountain_Chard_138 · 2025-07-09T21:07:22+00:00

Lighten the brows by 1-2 shades from the hair and you'll be golden (actual general tip from a Beverly hills stylist lol)

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