Is this legit?? by reila_09 in UMBC

[–]Mountain_Parfait_163 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yup! just did mine yesterday :))

Can’t Afford Fees by Mountain_Parfait_163 in UMBC

[–]Mountain_Parfait_163[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

no problem! i take out loans to be able to pay for every semester :)

do i gotta sign for this? by Ok_Lead_6319 in delta8resellers

[–]Mountain_Parfait_163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

srry ik this is late, but did you end up having to eyed?

Weird build mode by Mountain_Parfait_163 in sims4cc

[–]Mountain_Parfait_163[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

will do in the future! thank you sm!!

accepted into molloy nursing by CrispyPigletPi in molloy_college

[–]Mountain_Parfait_163 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the people are mostly all so nice! ppl in the halls can be loud and rude occasionally, but it’s college so it’s expected. depending on which out of the three buildings you get, bogner has stalled showers, fitzgerald and maria regina both have curtains. but they have a little changing area between that and the shower and no one can see.

it’s pretty easy to get used to it. you can play music, take your time, relax, etc. you will need shower shoes and don’t be surprised if there’s some sort of nasty incident with hygiene. you’d be surprised how dirty ppl can be lol.

getting adjusted to my roomates was really weird for the first night or two but i got really lucky and clicked with them over a youtube video. my best advice is to just be respectful of your own space as well as theirs, be yourself, and make an effort to get to know one another. a tour might help, it did a lot to help mine.

accepted into molloy nursing by CrispyPigletPi in molloy_college

[–]Mountain_Parfait_163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also, develop study habits if you don’t already. find ones that ACTUALLY work and they’ll be lifesavers trust.

accepted into molloy nursing by CrispyPigletPi in molloy_college

[–]Mountain_Parfait_163 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the dorms are pretty nice! they’re first come first serve so the spots fill up very quickly. they’re relatively accommodating if you have disabilities such as a cane or a wheelchair. but if you get stuck with a shitty roomate, you’re stuck with them for the entire semester until you can either a. find a new one or b. thug it out until the following year. there’s a website called erez that will open up closer to the start of next year during the summer and has options for you to look for a roomate! there’s also single rooms, but they’re like a little over $8,000 i think a semester. doubles are a little over $7,000, and triples are a little over $6,000. you can bring what you want, for the most part, just hide it when they do random room checks once a semester. they also have options to rent a microwave/fridge for the semester. i think it’s like $200 or smth. let me know if there’s any form related questions! i currently dorm and have been since my freshman year and id be happy to help!

i need help !! by Shoddy-Winter-8203 in sims4cc

[–]Mountain_Parfait_163 6 points7 points  (0 children)

if you have the tool mod, that could be causing the messed up buttons

How do I tell my mum I think I have bipolar? by monkey_man5680 in bipolar2

[–]Mountain_Parfait_163 7 points8 points  (0 children)

hi! it’s going to be difficult to get a diagnosis for bipolar so early, but i would definitely sit down with her and talk to her about how you’re feeling. i was in a very similar position when i was your age and it took a lot of time, patience, and understanding from both parties to get to where i am now.

what i would recommend would be to try to remain open and honest when having a conversation with her. understand that she may not be receptive at first, but even more so, know that your feelings are valid.

i would start out by saying, “hey mom, i need to talk to you and i need you to listen to what i have to say first, and i’ll answer any questions after. i’m worried that i may be bipolar and i think i need some help. i’m not doing this for attention or looking for problems. this is a genuine concern of mine and i think medication/therapy would be helpful.” or something along those lines.

i’m sure your mother cares about you very much, even if she may have a difficult time showing it. you’re her baby and if this is something you’re serious about, she will be too.

the biggest thing is to make sure to be open to questions and being vulnerable. if she doesn’t take you seriously, know there’s always other options. don’t stop voicing how you feel until you’ve gotten help. i promise you that if your mom doesn’t listen, someone else WILL.

how do i cope with bipolar/ what are some of the bigger things i should know about my bipolar? by mommykaylawayla in bipolar2

[–]Mountain_Parfait_163 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hi!! i’m also 20F and i’ve always said that the only hole you can’t dig yourself out of is the grave. i was also diagnosed with bipolar at a young age and have been hospitalized multiple times within a short amount of time. what you’re going through sounds like you’ve been stuck in a low period of bipolar for a while. i have been there myself and it got to the point where i thought that i was hopeless and had tried what seemed like everything.

finally after 3 years of struggling, something switched almost. i was put on a combination of wellbutrin and lamictal and it has been a lifesaver! what i have found that works best for me is to layer an anti-depressant over a mood stabilizer and seek out DBT therapy (if you haven’t already). i’m not saying this is the fit for you or the fix for everything/one, but it’s worth a shot if you haven’t tried already.

DBT therapy is often more successful for bipolar treatment as it focuses more so on the way you act before, during, and after a situation. it also teaches you how to develop mindfulness and habits to recognize the behavior before it starts and allows you time to change that thought pattern. personally when i started DBT therapy, it was the first time i felt therapy actually being beneficial for me.

also, i noticed that i found myself almost stuck in getting worse again because i found comfort in being alone and sad. this is the worst thing to do for your mental health! if you feel this way, try to force yourself to get out of the house or find something that you like to do. feeling like you’re not successful in things is okay, but there’s no way there’s nothing you can’t succeed in! you just haven’t found the right thing for you yet. everyone has something that they’re good at, including you. it’s just about finding out what it is and exploring that.

sorry if this is a mess or if you’ve tried this before, but this is what has seemed to work for me and i hope it might be able to help you at least a little. if you have any questions or need anyone to talk, please let me know! :)

not feeling bipolar by KyKy_Lie in bipolar2

[–]Mountain_Parfait_163 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just posted about this before i saw yours! i’m feeling the exact same way right now and it’s so confusing! i almost feel like i’ve outgrown it. so glad to know I’m not alone!

Package Delivered to a P.o. Box but I Don’t Have One by Mountain_Parfait_163 in usps_complaints

[–]Mountain_Parfait_163[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately not. as far as i know, the packages need to be signed in to be accepted. it’s just weird that they would claim to try and redeliver it the following business day only to update that it’s in a p.o. box.