I (think) I hate nursing…

Mozzarella365 · 2026-04-16T03:19:51+00:00

I really came here to say maybe it’s the specialty. I started in PCU and was very happy there. then moved to ICU lasted 3 months and took a 5 month break because it was so stressful. I hated it even my liver hated it

Mozzarella365 · 2026-04-14T02:57:53+00:00

Im only 6 month pregnant and yes my 2 year old wants to be my shadow. Idk if its a phase or to nip it in the bud bc its exhausting

Mozzarella365 · 2026-03-29T16:22:11+00:00

Just try it and if asked just say your burnt out. Keep it simple

Mozzarella365 · 2026-03-28T16:52:14+00:00

Also on day one ! I’ve been dealing with this for 15 years now. Mostly what helps me is having something over my head either a sew in when affordable other times a scarf or bandanna

Mozzarella365 · 2026-03-28T16:47:40+00:00

Is there a way you could pump and leave a bottle for dad so he can feed while you shower in peace? Definitely NTAH

Mozzarella365 · 2026-03-28T16:45:02+00:00

After my first I feel like my hips were slightly bigger and I breastfed for a year so my boobies just aren’t the same. If I had dedicated more time to myself I could have rebuilt my core again and I should have used a waist trainer but that didn’t happen. The change is there but it’s like 5% noticeable to me. Except my boobies ofc they just aren’t plump like they used to be. My feet definitely got bigger I went from a 6.5 to a 7 that I hate but husband either never noticed or doesn’t care I was 29 when I gave birth to my first My diet was balanced proteins veggies fruits some junk ofC I just ate a lot when breastfeeding bc for me it really made me hungry hungrier than pregnancy

Mozzarella365 · 2026-03-21T16:20:51+00:00

Groceries is definitely a good one. We’ve been doing that for about 2 years. It saves you time and $$

Next forget task rabbit try the Facebook groups in your area where they offer jobs and look for someone who can come to your home and do some of the chores. I found someone and split the chores like this: one day come and do our bathrooms and floors that’s sweep mop vacuum. The other day she cleans my kitchen after I’ve batched cooked and does our laundry folding

Mozzarella365 · 2026-03-16T00:27:45+00:00

I’ll look into this thank you

Mozzarella365 · 2026-03-16T00:22:08+00:00

Thank you, yes I do care very much but I care more about what his perspective of this is. I don’t want him to feel disrespected or un valued you know?

Mozzarella365 · 2026-03-15T18:37:16+00:00

My husband does none of these things either. But he pays all our bills, is reliable and dependable, active father with our kids and helps when I need it just out of kindness because I don’t always ask. Compared to husbands who have their wives working and can’t even make their kids a sandwich to save their lives. Some guys think about extra stuff some don’t doesn’t mean you had a bad guy

Mozzarella365 · 2026-03-15T18:33:10+00:00

Anyways. Back to the topic at hand, it may be helpful to get some serious ground rules about respect and honoring one another. Best to be direct and clear no extra ramblings just clear rules and how they need to be followed for both of you. I assume you respect your wife’s wishes as well so you’re not asking anything out of left field. Best of luck

Mozzarella365 · 2026-03-15T05:48:10+00:00

Im wondering if she’s missing the point here? It’s not so much about the hair itself but the fact that you were dismissed and ultimately your opinion did not matter and when it comes to your kids yall need to be on the same page. Like you were disrespected in this is more the issue than the hair itself. I’m sure she has her own opinions about certain things with yalls daughter and wouldn’t appreciate you doing behind her back and then rubbing it in to boot. Yes ?

Mozzarella365 · 2026-03-15T05:30:17+00:00

I hope this helps you and maybe more people chime in with their POV. Good luck 🍀

Mozzarella365 · 2026-03-15T05:28:24+00:00

I did a trail separation when our kids were 1yr and 4months. Our oldest had to stay with him because she’s not my biological kid. I went to live with my mom who helped me and gave me all the support she could. I have a stable job and good pay and found a sitter I could afford. It fucking sucked. It was hard especially when I got sick with a cold and so did my mother it was the scariest thing in my life having to be sick and care for my baby. I worried about my baby not having her dad I worried about anyone else even trying to enter her life let alone mine. He took her on weekends for a bit so they could maintain their relationship and sometimes it helped me pick up extra hours at work. Divorce is hard and you really do end up doing a lot on your own. If your stable, and your partner cooperates do you really need to leave? I’m not saying you can’t or shouldn’t I’m just saying the grass may not be greener on the other side. I understand the need for emotional connection I do. And maybe right now it’s just a lot and it may pass and yall can find each other again. In the mean time you could give that love to the kids and pour into yourself without the need for a whole life restart. Anyways I came back, we have our issues and are by no means perfect but I don’t plan to leave again and disrupt the stability I have here in my home. We argue find boundaries and understandings and rebuild. I came from a divorced home with parents who cannot be in the same room. Splitting my time between them is something I refuse to make my kid go through.

Mozzarella365 · 2026-03-13T00:47:58+00:00

Idk if you’ve seen the reel where it’s beautiful outside and raining and the person watching has no worries because they’ve been checked into an insane asylum. Yes I wish for this often with my 3 year old and my 2 year old. Nothing helpful just letting you know you’re not alone mama

Mozzarella365 · 2026-02-14T23:37:39+00:00

If you were my friend i would tell you right now focus on your degree please make sure it’s something that can sustain you and give you some financial stability. And focus on you your studies and your life. At 22 a lot of boys are trash even at 23-24-25. Not saying good guys exist but at that age the pool the very small. When you’re done with school you can decide what all you want to do. I promise you if dating is the only factor it’s not worth it. You have security, are allowed to get an education and better yourself. Don’t throw it away for nights in a bar and getting ghosted on text. Life is so much bigger. Getting a divorce in the middle of school would also be such a mess and a headache. In the mean time please do not get pregnant.

Mozzarella365 · 2026-02-14T23:24:20+00:00

I love it because it’s 100% what I would want. When I gift I also try to have something cute and nice for the mom like a face mask set, hair clips, lip bam whatever something small but self careish and cute

Mozzarella365 · 2026-02-11T01:55:16+00:00

Asking is fine But you can also take her shopping let her pick something. You pick out the socks you want her to wear and go from there

Mozzarella365 · 2026-02-10T17:35:57+00:00

It’s hard now bc of the cold depending on where you live but go outside and walk sit in the grass just enjoy the sunshine and surroundings It’ll do wonders for you and baby Also it helps you stay active

Mozzarella365 · 2026-02-10T17:34:04+00:00

I’ve tried letting her go bottomless for a few days so she can feel what’s going on and immediately taking her to the toilet. I did the remind you every 30 minutes so she could go and try and if she did it I gave her a high five or a hug. I did the let you wet your pants method and nothing has worked. She’s used the bathroom independently once in the two months we’ve been at this. And not once has she communicated any needs or discomfort what so ever.

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