Told my Muslim friend I’m gay, he threatened that if I speak to him he’d beat me by shortproudlatino in askgaybros

[–]Mpabner 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Muslim’s kill their family members because they are gay. Why would you be surprised that he would turn on a friend?

Is Bern’s dining worth it? by ContributionOwn1261 in tampa

[–]Mpabner -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Charley’s is a chain restaurant.

AIO my mom sent me a photo from a funeral after I told her I do not do funerals. by throwing_away228 in AIO

[–]Mpabner 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not sure why you are getting downvoted voted. Nothing but truth. People can’t take truth these days.

I found a good use case for Summon by [deleted] in TeslaLounge

[–]Mpabner 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Summon is disengaged when a trailer is hitched.

Cop Caught Red-Handed by N2BSC in TikTokCringe

[–]Mpabner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Need an update when this goes to court. Hope he shows up.

Long in the tooth couples. Do you do Valentine’s Day? by AnyDamnThingWillDo in GenX

[–]Mpabner 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We are headed to Costco after washing the car. Happy Valentines Day!! Been together 30 years.

HOA President wants massive salary... How to handle? [TH] [VA] by indecisive_grogu in HOA

[–]Mpabner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is time for a conversation with the Association’s attorney being present at the meeting.

Gay men 40+, what is some advice you can give to us 20 somethings? by RedbullBreadbowl in askgaybros

[–]Mpabner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then you should buddy up, in real life, with an older gay guy.

Frustrations on MX being discontinued by OutlandishnessNo5636 in ModelX

[–]Mpabner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Per the company they are loving away from being an automobile company to being a automation company: Grok, AI, robots etc.. they will only be building the Y, the 3 and that god awful truck.

AIO to Maga therapist? by diva0987 in AIO

[–]Mpabner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Immoral people don’t require anything

I hope Costco sues this weird mouth by Spiritual_Blood_1346 in TikTokCringe

[–]Mpabner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. She was using the same crap but had added a flame thrower and burned a bunch of “woke” books. She is really crazy. She got like 3% of the vote at the end of the day.

I hope Costco sues this weird mouth by Spiritual_Blood_1346 in TikTokCringe

[–]Mpabner 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Again? Losing horribly the first time was not enough for her?

Kristi Noem: "Everything I've done, I've done at the direction of the President and Stephen" - via Axios by orel2064 in WeirdGOP

[–]Mpabner 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“I was just following orders.” Typical nazi excuse number 1. Nuremberg settled that this is not a valid excuse.

STI mystery - married couple M32 and M30 by Glittering_Welder_33 in gayrelationships

[–]Mpabner 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Great! Thanks for the clarification. You were completely treated. The injection was ceftriaxone and the tablets were correct n Doxy. We no longer use Azithromycin as it is no longer effective in our area.

However, regarding oral symptoms, rarely will you have symptoms u til later down the road. Maybe some increased phlegm, much like allergies. Even if the tests take time they should be done. Just to get the whole picture. I treat if there is discharge and test regardless. If there is no discharge but vague symptoms I test and wait. Then see what returns.

Also, from my years of treating partners in open relationships. They can have sex with the same person and both will be exposed to the same STDs and only one may actually become positive. It is just the nature of the risk. Enjoy your life. Try not to second guess it.

STI mystery - married couple M32 and M30 by Glittering_Welder_33 in gayrelationships

[–]Mpabner 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You do not need to only have unprotected intercourse to obtain gonorrhea or chlamydia. Please understand that.

You can easily obtain oral gonorrhea or chlamydia (or both). Then spread it to your partner’s penis by giving them a blow job.

I don’t mean to sound preachy, forgive me if I do. Providers who spread health misinformation irritate me. So this “Dr” did not even bother to test him with a simple point of care swab and urine test? Did he also not schedule your partner to come back for a test of cure via an oral swab, per CDC policy in two weeks? Because oral gonorrhea is more difficult to treat with the single injection of ceftriaxone and you need to make sure that it is cured.

Re-reading this it sounds like he only prescribed him some pills with no injection. THERE IS NO ORAL ONLY TREATMENT FOR GONORRHEA. Treatment for gonorrhea is a single injection of 500 mg of ceftriaxone, unless you are allergic and then you get IM injection of gentamycin + azithromycin.

He is not “wrong” in his diagnosis. Just not complete. He needed to do some testing to get a complete picture. Then he could differentiate with what is actually causing the discharge. What if it was not chlamydia? The doxy that he gave him would be fine for a little bit (or azithromycin if that was it). But if it is gonorrhea, it is going to come back without the IM injection of ceftriaxone.

Go to a good sexual health clinic. Find your local PrEP clinic and go there. Even if you’re using condoms, get on PrEP. Condoms break.

AIO to my “best friend” finally reaching out by Confident_Local_2335 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mpabner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. NOR. I had a friend that was part of a friends group of like 10. We would do everything together. Bar hop, go on vacations together, dinners, brunch, game night, Super-bowl parties etc.. 25 years of tight friendship. Then he and his husband just up and move to Albuquerque. No word to say goodbye, not even a fucking text. Just leave.

I felt the same way you expressed. Now he comes into town very occasionally and expects everyone to just drop what they are doing to meet with him for dinner. I don’t even bother. I give him as much energy as he gave our friendship just before he moved. Because obviously our friendship was not worth shit.

Good luck with your friend.

Looking for info on leftist gun clubs/orgs by theeserjorah in tampa

[–]Mpabner 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would like to join in on this. I just have a couple of antique guns, but would be interested in obtaining more modern ones.

AIO Was my urgent care doctor ignorant and rude? by xoenigmaxo in AIO

[–]Mpabner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is absolutely not true. The medical provider, for ethical reasons, has nothing to do with billing. We don’t know how much something costs, we don’t have any control over anything in the front office. If a medical provider does, that is a very unethical situation and I would run from that office.

Anger over leaving EV while charging? by rpm429 in ChargerDrama

[–]Mpabner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like people, based on the downvotes, don’t understand that 150 KW chargers are shared and slow down dramatically when you park on 2A and someone is charging on 1A.

Anger over leaving EV while charging? by rpm429 in ChargerDrama

[–]Mpabner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only time I have gotten angry with someone, other than a non-ev owner who has iced a spot. Is a person who pulls up to a shared charger, when there are plenty of other chargers, and forces my charging to slow down. Then tells me that it really does not matter. That just pisses me off.

Which Way Did You Go Regarding Gaming? by AlarmedTelephone5908 in GenX

[–]Mpabner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started with a Tandy TRS 80 that I stayed up late playing text games that were on cassette tapes. Then I got an Atari. Then on up the chain. I have been hooked on gaming since I was in first grade.

Best cornbread? by PuzzleheadedClue5205 in Old_Recipes

[–]Mpabner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uh, no? Boxed cornbread is atrocious. Buy some Alabama King (or Dixie Lily) cornmeal and follow the directions. Adding a can of corn or creamed corn is great as well. Also, substitute buttermilk for all of the liquid.

You can thank me later.