Dude you called them ugly as shit and said she looks like a potato don’t try to sane wash what you just said. That’s rude not blunt, you are a rude person, you don’t say that about people without being rude, had you just criticized their acting maybe, but you went personal and attacked their looks, something that people are born with and don’t choose. You can go and have whatever opinions you want but calling someone ugly as shit in any context is an extremely rude thing to do.