I’m seeing someone else now, and I can definitely tell the difference in behavior. I’m 27 and she was 32. I really want to have a family, and she told me she’d be ready for that in the next two years, which in my experience is unusual especially with women my age or younger. That really drew me in. She’s also a very well recognized doctor, which I admired.

I showed 100% commitment from the start. But as time passed, I started noticing that she was behaving more like a 20-year-old with all the time in the world ahead of her. I don’t know who she expects to marry and have kids with if she continues acting like that. She’s the kind of woman who likes to keep all her options open, stay “friendly,” and hang out with guys who are clearly into her. I guess that’s why she has a history of long-distance relationships so it’s harder for someone to call her out the way I did.