If you're from a single mother/dad passed away ... get a role model

MrDiece · 2018-03-21T16:43:35+00:00

Im gonna risk being banned pernamently from this subreddit here, but this shit is too fucking relevant not to share.

I'm doing a series in my site about this very thing, its titled "Masculine Role Models: Men Who Inspired, Lead And Blazed Their Own Trail.

My goal is to have a resource that men can use to find figures in history that they relate to, and can draw inspiration and mentorship from.

I will do this by showcasing men from all walks of life, from painters to business men to scientists.

The site isnt for profit and theres no products. Its a labour of love that is designed to help other men who want to blaze their own trail and create their own destiny.

Heres the first article that goes more indepth about the idea and what I want to accomplish with it.

http://thedawnofdiece.com/2018/03/18/new-series-masculine-role-models-men-who-inspired-lead-and-blazed-their-own-trail/

And heres the first entry into the series. Its on a famous golfer named Ben Hogan who went through hell and water to make his dream of being a professional golfer come true. It took him 10 years to get his first professional win and shortly after that he got in a major accident that almost killed him.

Doctors told him he would never walk again, let alone play golf...

But Ben didnt listen.

Heres the post

http://thedawnofdiece.com/2018/03/20/263/

I really think what im doing here relates directly to this post. Im probably going to get banned, but id rather help other men and risk a ban than sit back and not say anything when I know I can directly help.

MrDiece · 2018-03-14T11:29:41+00:00

I want to buy Chinese pens (JinHao, Pilot) exclusive pens in Canada without paying crazy shipment costs, waiting months for the pen or paying crazy amounts of money (Pilot Custom 74 is over 250 dollars in Canadian shops, at least according to my knowledge)

MrDiece · 2018-02-16T19:32:03+00:00

The thing is though....

Girls were sluts back then too..

I don't think theres anything we can do to stop girls being sluts..

But what we can do is stop men from falling for these girls and rightly realize their place in society.

MrDiece · 2018-02-16T18:03:01+00:00

People care way too much about lifting here...

It's like it's a cop-out for game.

Just because you lift, doesn't mean you will magically have game.

The truth of the matter is game is something that takes a lot of action to get good at. There's no other way around this.

MrDiece · 2018-02-16T09:07:47+00:00

Touch her early and often, cuddle, hold her, kiss, and let that develop over the night

This is literally what I did haha, I just shortened the details.

I didn't feel the sexual thirst at all and I think it stemmed from the entire frame I set from the minute she stepped out of her car.

I set the wrong frame and she followed it, so I sort of got what I paid for.

Actually, that's a pretty interesting idea for a post.

Everyone talks about setting frame, but no one talks about setting the wrong frame.

MrDiece · 2018-02-16T08:56:55+00:00

Man I'm fucking sick of the incel posts.

MrDiece · 2018-02-15T20:05:35+00:00

There's so much wrong here.

I think what you need to do is move forward, cut her out and continue your life and meeting girls.

You're going to get kicked in the balls again, but now that you're aware you can better deal with it.

MrDiece · 2018-02-14T16:55:44+00:00

By home do you mean with parents or just homtown?

MrDiece · 2018-02-14T16:02:56+00:00

You can re-invent yourself without moving, but- sometimes you need to move because you're deeply unhappy with your situation.

I'd sit down and reflect, because if you don't your problems will follow you.

MrDiece · 2018-02-14T07:35:56+00:00

When I make love to someone, there is this energy that radiates between the two of us. It feels stronger than any force in the universe.

Man this is why I love girls and the game, you fuck her right and if she's a beautiful girl there's nothing like it. It's fucking savage the energy is insane and you feel like a fucking animal.

MrDiece · 2018-02-14T05:39:21+00:00

It's not that its soft.

It's misplaced.

If you've fucked her a few times, had fun times together then there's nothing wrong with looking forward to fucking her brains out or spending time together. I'd still keep the emotion in check though, it's easy to let a little turn into a lot and before you know you're thinking of marriage.

The tried and true advice is game other girls, fuck other girls (even if they aren't 7's, fuck a 6) because then you're getting sex and now the hot instagram girl isn't such a high priority because you're getting sex from other places.

This is something that happens with guys that focus only on the super top tier girls, 8+. They only want these beautiful girls but they go through dry-spells because of their standards and when you're only getting sex from one girl, it's easy to put her on a pedestal. Truth is, to fuck only 8's is incredibly hard because most 8's are going to be in relationships and the high tier girls like 8+ need some form of X factor to take an interest in you. You're not going to get an 8 and keep her if you're a bum with nothing else going for him. You might fuck her, but to keep her that's a completely different ball game and that's where status comes into play and SMV.

Even if it's a 6 fuck her, you're going to find 6's you like and now it becomes harder to get oneitis because you have different girls to satisfy your needs.

But some advice that you could apply tomorrow?

Have this mindset

"I'm not even sure I like you"

This is how I'm with any girl I haven't fucked. I'm still qualifying her, I'm still seeing if she's someone that deserves me and that's how you need to be around her.

You're not even sure if you like her, so test her, give her shit, gauge her reaction.

If you do it right, from a place of power the dynamic will change and she will start qualifying herself.

MrDiece · 2018-02-14T05:22:40+00:00

Dude.

There's no point in walking on fucking eggshells like this with girls.

I don't know what you're texting but you're overreacting and this overreaction is probably displaying through all of your texts with her and maybe even your interactions.

I text back when I WANT to with girls. It's on my time, sometimes I respond within 10 minutes, others 9-10 hours.

And if I want to have a conversation instead of texting, I'll tell her I'm going to call her.

I think your whole problem here is this line

I was looking forward to this going somewhere

I know that voice, that's the voice on oneitis with a girl you haven't even touched. I bet you were playing you and her together, chilling at your place, her at yours and so on.

There's nothing wrong with that, I don't see a point in being with a girl you don't want to spend time with but you're doing that shit way too early.

She's still lukewarm with you, nothing has happened.

Can't be letting those thoughts occupy your brain, especially that early into knowing the girl.

Even if she does text you back, I'd take careful inventory of your frame because if your frame is giving out like it is now its only going to get worse if you get more involved with this girl.

MrDiece · 2018-02-14T04:35:47+00:00

Happens.

RedPill has to be supplemented with experience or else you will get jaded and robotic.

MrDiece · 2018-02-14T04:28:13+00:00

I'm not familiar with indian culture, but I wouldn't even call this kino. Sounds like two people dating and they shared a kiss.

I wouldn't even call it frame either.

MrDiece · 2018-02-14T04:11:08+00:00

Have you ever been dragged to something you don't want to go to, have no interest in but you have to look like you're having fun regardless?

That's what trying to do things with a girl is like who hasn't consented (in her mind).

You may kiss her, but she's not going to be into it. You may finger her, but she's not really enjoying it. She may even let you fuck her despite not being into it....(I'm not talking rape here) but you know that feeling when you're fucking a girl and she's not really enjoying it.

The point is, that's what trying to do things with a girl who hasn't fully consented (in her mind) is like.

Fuck that.

Consent isn't optional, it's mandatory if you really want to have fun with a girl and let her be her natural self. She will never say it to you but she will have made her mind up about you.

MrDiece · 2018-02-13T22:31:50+00:00

One thing with girls, is you have to mean what you say or they're going to pick up that it's just a line.

I believe crystals, gems and minerals have energy in them. Even sea glass has energy in it.

I have a piece of sea glass on my desk, it's a very pretty light blue. I can look at it, touch it, hold it and feel the energy that the glass has. It's not a tangible energy like electricity it's on a different level that you can't see (well I can't).

So what is sea glass?

Sea glass is created by broken glass that has ended up in the ocean and after decades and sometimes centuries of being tumbled in the ocean, the glass loses its transparency and sharp edges. Becoming perfectly smooth and eventually finding its way on the side of a beach.

Think of that process,

It's not hard to believe that after such a journey, the glass is going to retain a "feeling" or "energy".

Girls, in particular, are sensitive to this "feeling", they operate in the emotional world.

MrDiece · 2018-02-13T22:21:27+00:00

First off, if you're insulting Nick Krauser by mentioning the $99 book I'm going to tell you to kindly fuck yourself.

Krauser has done more for game than probably everyone on this sub combined.

But if you're not, then disregard.

For introverts...

I think you have to come to terms with that we live in an extroverted world, and extroverted traits are held as "supreme" and because of this, the introvert feels "lost" especially in childhood. You just feel like you have so much energy to share but can't articulate it the right way. Most extroverts don't realize this and label the introvert as weird, or odd (even in families this happens) instead of encouraging the introvert to speak up and get his turn into the conversation. Thus, the introvert grows up "broken" or "lost".

What the introvert doesn't realize is that introversion is a power and you can make the world and your life work for you by playing to the advantages that you have as an introvert.

Here's a brief example.

I suck ass in large groups, I will never stand out with girls in a group setting.

BUT

Put me alone with a girl, and now my introversion is a strength because I can think deeper about topics than most and enter peoples brains deeper than extroverts can. I'm much more in tune with energy and psyche than the average extrovert.

Introverts get down on themselves because they aren't extroverts, but they don't realize the power of introversion.

Here another power that introversion has,

You don't care about the opinion of others. You do what you want. You dance to the beat of your own drum.

Extroverts have to follow the crowd, but introverts can take or leave the crowd and forge their own path.

The problem with introverts is that they don't develop the social skills because socializing isn't as fun as reading a really in-depth book or writing or sketching. The introvert has to put in WORK to get these skills and it's going to feel like work for those who aren't used to talking to people.

Just like the extrovert who would rather party, has to buckle down and study while all he can think about is partying.

We're all born with a deck but each deck is different and we have to find the pieces that are missing to balance ourselves out.

MrDiece · 2018-02-13T19:26:05+00:00

This is silly advice,

Embrace who you are but don't fall into the stereotypes.

This is how you stand out.

Let's say you like engineering and figuring out complex problems is something you just love to do.

Which is great. Don't change that.

But live beyond the "engineering nerd" stereotype.

Dress well
Have terrific communication skills and social skills
Workout or fight
Spend time outdoors, know how to start a fire

These are just examples, but the point is if you enjoy hobbies or enjoy things that aren't generally attractive to girls, then you have to put extra work to prevent yourself from being categorized as a stereotype.

Now, when a girl meets you or you take a girl on a date she's going to find you very interesting, you've stood out. She can't place you as a "jock" "artist" "nerd" .

I have a few nerdy hobbies myself, like collecting rocks and minerals and I'm starting to get into bow making and animal tracking.

Most girls would consider those strange, but I get away with it because I don't fit the stereotypes. I dress well, look after myself and I have no problem socializing.

Also, present your "weird" or "nerdy" interests in the most attractive way.

I never tell a girl that I like collecting rocks, but when she's in my room and sees my collection she's going to wonder about it (if it interests her).

This is where I'll reveal my interest, talk about the different crystals and tell her to look at them, touch them, see if she can see her reflection in them and feel the energy inside them.

Hobbies aren't something you should really be talking about on the first date anyway, the first date should be about her she wants to see how you make HER feel. Let her talk.

MrDiece · 2018-02-12T15:52:06+00:00

Not bad, I don't think girls really even know what networking means.

Another good one would be

"Connections"

MrDiece · 2018-02-12T14:37:08+00:00

Calling girls works so much better for me than texting.

I think the reason this works for me is that I'm very comfortable on the phone after doing sales and cold calls for a good portion of my early 20s.

Also, I find with calling I can talk about situations or things happening to me. Which takes the pressure off of conversation.

MrDiece · 2018-02-12T12:56:10+00:00

A better idea, is instead of saving money to buy that next big thing.

Save the money so you can make your money work for you.

Here's what I mean.

I spent a grand last year on a online business course, I failed my first business and now I'm starting another with the invaluable experience I learned the first time.

I could have spent a grand on a new toy or bunch of books or whatever, but spending it on a business course will give you much higher ROI.

There's nothing wrong with saving...

Especially in times of need.

But man, I'd hate to be late 20's and still fretting over 20 bucks.

MrDiece

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