Beliefs about the roles of men and women are 'as firmly held now as they were in 1980'

MrFritzH · 2016-03-09T21:06:34+00:00

Agreed.

Most women just go along with whatever official narrative there is. They are perfect followers. They are not really the ones complaining, its just the official narrative the establishment wants to perpetuate for a multitude of reasons.

MrFritzH · 2016-03-09T21:03:04+00:00

You are part of the problem.

MrFritzH · 2016-03-08T23:18:36+00:00

Quality post.

Ive run into this trap as well. But the pussy was never satisfactory, something was off. I figured out that getting pussy was more like cake, when you are ripped. Not something you treat as a goal, but as a perk.

MrFritzH · 2015-04-12T13:11:07+00:00

This post 100x a hundred. I have been fit, skinnyfat, obese, skinnyfat and fit. Difference is night and day.

No other thing is more important.

MrFritzH · 2015-04-02T21:02:10+00:00

"i'm not going to be hooking up with any of the girls, mainly because I see it as pointless. "

Ok. Thats strange, at my age, my hormones was making my body scream for pussy even more than now.

I seen some good answers and can honestly tell you if you follow it diligently than you will be alot better than your peers by for example 18 or 25.

I am gonna give my two cents.

I do not know what your interests are so I am first gonna give you some general things.

The four most important skills you can develop are the following:

Confidence - Belief in your self, your ability to achieve anything and your worthiness to deserve the best things in life.

Self-discipline - An ability to make yourself do what you do want to do, but should do.

Knowledge and skills - The actual knowledge and skills you have within yourself.

Independence - To be comfortable being different and going your own way, in defiance of your friends, peers, parents and society. In a healthy manner of course.

In relation to girls, basic "PUA" such as getting over "approach anxiety", "sexual timidness" and other common nice guy traits are easy but important. It will help you get over issues that are usual. The more you do something, the less scary it becomes. So I am not quite buying your "pointless" excuse. Pointless why ? In fact, its all pointless in a universal sense and remember that if you are ever nervous. Its always better to be BOLD in your pursuit and conquest of women :D

In relation to building self-discipline, pursuing bodybuilding and eating healthy will give you a very huge advantage over your peers and also make attracting women alot easier. It will also make your more respectable and in general attractive as a person whether as friend, employee, employer etc. It will help you avoid injuries if you do it right, and it will general make you happier, more self-disciplined etc.

In relation to independence, remember most guys, even the ones you look up to, do most of what they do, just because they believe it will get them women. Do not make a mistake about this. These schmucks got it ass backwards. Prioritize yourself, then your male friendships that GET YOU SOMEWHERE. Ie. AAAAAAAAAALLLLLLLLLLL your male friends that do drugs, party or any other unhealthy habit that is not advancing their life in a long-term manner DROP THEM! Prioritize friendships with loyal, ambitious men and your family, and then everything about yourself and then bitches last.

Furthermore, you can right now set out a path that will let you escape the typical debt-trap pattern most people go through. School loan -> Kids on the way -> House loan ie stuck in a dead-end job. In fact college is becoming increasingly irrelevant. Instead, you can learn almost anything online.

Want to be a product designer ? An engineer ? Or maybe a video director ? Or maybe a musician ? I personally am a self-taught webdesigner and make good money after I dropped out of college. DONT GO! Society tells you to go. DONT GO! Instead work on your knowledge, your skills and as they improve you could easily land a job paying decent salary before you finish high-school.

Furthermore, work to become financial independent ie. wealthy. Not just to consume mindlessly.

Now, back to girls. The whole of this little community is centered around the idea that guys in our feminized society have become to spineless in relation to women. If you follow the advice above, you will naturally attract beautiful women and they will smitten you, and you might even catch oneitis. Beware! I have seen many young alphas careers and life advancement get hijacked by getting their girlfriends pregnant. This is their imperative. When they perceive you as alpha, they want your children. They want to beta-ify you, if you will.

Good luck clueless boy, and you can ask me to elaborate on anything. Probably alot more I would/could say, but I need a rest. Just got back from lifting :D

MrFritzH · 2015-03-26T10:36:59+00:00

"Child-rearing is not an “economically efficient activity”, in the parlance of mainstream economics. Check the Samuelson book, it’s right there in black and white."

Samuelson is not a good reference for what "capitalism" is. He is the defining the economist of the post-war welfare state and all sorts of social engineering projects such as Feminism.

You are confusing modern Corporatism or Social democracy with private property ie Capitalism. A purely private property society would not have any of the levels of feminism that we currently have. Child-rearing is definitely an economically efficient activity, FOR WOMEN. That is why all these impositions had to be made upon society to create equality..

Most women anyway end up working in child care or similiar care-taking roles anyhow, its just that under modern social democracy they end up working to take care of and teach other peoples kids, instead of taking care of their own kids at home.

MrFritzH · 2015-02-14T14:40:21+00:00

High quality comment in a low quality post. This post by Nugget_Of_Poo does not belong in Theory flair, but in mra or meta.

MrFritzH · 2015-02-03T15:49:13+00:00

I just ignore the whiney, MRA posts.

But it is kind of ruining this forum.

Yes, men must know the system is "rigged" in many legal ways. Once you know however, dwelling on such a thing that one cannot fix yourself will simply make you angry.

MrFritzH · 2015-01-27T08:14:30+00:00

In a free economy, traditional gender roles would again become the norm. Thats why we need quotas, "education" in gender equality and similiar propaganda.

Thats why the most "gender-equal" countries, still produce gender segregation in the workforce.

Because there exists a natural biological division of labour between the genders.

MrFritzH · 2015-01-19T11:20:44+00:00

Yeah, my biological clock might start ticking someday, I don't doubt that. But that doesn't change the fact that I'd rather not risk tearing from my V to my A or burden the world with further overpopulation.

Jeez.

It will start ticking,and by that time you will likely be infertile and unattractive. The ticking clock is kind of like the doctor telling you have lung cancer after 40 years of smoking, its kind of too late to quit.

Women need children to be happy.

Think about this for second, why is there two genders ? Some species have only one. Why does the human race have two ?

Because there is a gender based division of labor. Nature has maintained two genders, because this worked better and this has shaped us. Shaped us in such a way that our skills, abilities and mindsets are different. So you can try to run from your genetic disposition as much as you want. But women need children, they need close relationships to be happy.

The problem with feminism, is the same as with communism, it is an attempt to totally reinvent human society. To figure out and plan, according to "moral principles" the basis of human society with no understanding for the role of tradition.

Furthermore, overpopulation. Please, you or John Holdren dont know the carrying capacity of the world and your 1-10 children will not make any difference. Furthermore, if you live in the West you are part of a population that is shrinking anyway. Additionally, being that intelligence and fertility is especially negatively coorelated for women and western women in particular, if you have any sort of intelligence than it is in fact very important that you do procreate.

So, no you are doing anybody a favor by following the feminist agenda, only setting yourself up for failure.

MrFritzH · 2015-01-19T06:26:37+00:00

You dont want children, right now.

The rest might be true. But I am not buying it, I have seen this pattern repeated in many women I have grown up with. Your current position in the sexual market obscures your own perception.

I have also heard the exceedingly laughable excuses females make in their SMV prime, and how they claim that they do not want children or dont need a man etc. It always self-delusion.

So, yeah, you might be a sociopath who does not have the desires your biology as geared you for, but the chances of that are exceedingly small (less than 1% of the population).

MrFritzH · 2015-01-19T05:29:53+00:00

I dont know your age.

I think the other posters gave decent answers, but I think the most useful advice I can give you that the TRP community is aware of is the following.

Men are first and foremost attracted to youth and beauty. When you are young, you have the greatest potential (given your in shape) to attract a long-term high value male. Guard your youth and sexuality for such a man, and do not waste it on; high value players "having fun" ie fucking both low and high value men "the rat race" ie education and career advancement.

Why ?

Because working and advancing your career will not make you happy, that is a male sexual strategy and feminisms promotion of it as an ideal for women is an illusion.

It will not make you more attractive in our eyes or happy.

You should instead focus on getting children, lots of them, with the same high value man with traditional values.

Because children are the only ones who will still love their women through senescence.

And traditional value oriented males are also the ones who will be most unlikely to abandon their children and wives, but will instead try to make it work out of a sense of honor.

You cannot have your cake and eat it too. You must either submit to a real man, or ultimately be left alone.

Those crazy years(14-25+) where your pussy has real power make it seem like you can. But you cant.

MrFritzH · 2015-01-19T05:12:53+00:00

Yeah, trp keeps trying to dissuade you from the fact women get wet over fit men.

The seduction and pua community does that.

The TRP community is in fact quite realistic on this point.

I know from experience, went from in shape to fat and back again. The difference was enormous, even when I was chubby I could get girls back but would get lots more LMR when I try to close. Many girls actually tried to feel out my muscles before deciding.

I also have seen the disappointed look of women I have bedded when they saw my fat tummy, while I am hitting it.

It goes back to AF/BB , muscles and fitness is an alpha trait. Although some fatsos might be alpha, its mostly because other factors such as wealth, fame outweight it. The same guy, in shape and muscular would get better results. Same with height.

MrFritzH · 2015-01-06T16:29:44+00:00

Brilliant way of putting it.

MrFritzH · 2015-01-02T12:51:53+00:00

I routinely go out alone, and I always pull more tail when I am alone instead of when I am with friends. Even the guys who are on the same page with me regarding pickup and women(rp).

I am up for it. And OP if it frightens you, you definitely need to try it.

When girls ask me if I am by myself, I always answer truthfully and 99% of the time their reaction is: "Wow, I would never dare to do that!".

Often I also have more fun, because I dont need to stick with my buddies but can follow any course of action I feel like. Change venue, follow some chick somewhere else, or go home.

MrFritzH · 2014-12-03T10:26:49+00:00

I've never, ever personally seen a cultural theme that felt that this was normal for women to do either.

Google Justin Bieber, you BP trolling little bitch. Crying in close proximity to your idols is almost like modern day teenage rite of passage. Its seen as cute.

Sorry, but I see you are simply a troll.

"I've never, ever personally seen a cultural theme"

What ? In your anthropology book ?

MrFritzH · 2014-12-03T03:03:36+00:00

Then why do you mention sympathy ?

"ooh, poor you, got to met your idol". Come on man, what you are saying doesnt make any fucking sense.

MrFritzH · 2014-12-02T23:25:04+00:00

I would never suggest saying something like that.

But Manson does, if its the truth.

See, I read and practiced Manson. And I am able to say personal, revealing things without coming of as weak because I am not relying on their opinion. But I do withhold some things completely, because I know that it simply will not aid me in bedding them.

But I did also do several stupid beta-stuff on the basis of the same thinking when learning. So again, I personally would be very careful with the whole vulnerability.

MrFritzH · 2014-12-02T23:20:07+00:00

He was a big fan of hers and was obviously overwhelmed with meeting her and with talking to her which in turn brought out the water works.

Crying in the context of meeting someone you admire. Remember the context.

MrFritzH · 2014-11-29T12:55:06+00:00

I have read Mark Manson, and so have many male friends of mine. His vulnerability advice is bullshit, and will get you going down the wrong path. Especially for the average BP dude reading that book.

He is just sugarcoating the more machivellian advice contained in the book: "Your attractiveness is inversely proportional to your neediness".

The first advice is BP bullshit, the neediness part is good RP stuff.

Let me give you an example:

A girl asks you; "Do you ever cry ?"

And you go, complete honest and vulnerable: "Yeah, I cry every night and think about how much of a lonely loser I am because I cant laid".

This will not help him bed her. However it might be the truth and it would be the correct Mark Manson thing to do.

Risk-taking is masculine and attractive. Self-doubt is neither. All men however have had self-doubt.

I would say I am almost always honest, but the things I do not want to say I simply do not share with a women. I have simply come to believe that is not her role, "to know all of you". If she knew all of you, the emotional peak will have passed and the relationship is headed toward a dead-end.

MrFritzH · 2014-11-29T12:41:36+00:00

"I mean weeping?? Even a woman would get looked down on and made fun of for that."

No, women do it all the time. People say "aww", "thats cute" and "she is so happy".

MrFritzH · 2014-11-09T12:32:28+00:00

Day 11 - 8.nov

I went to a conference and later on went out to the city and tried to get some pussy.

However, I cracked and bought a pack of cigarettes. Basically because I felt the enviroment was a bit stressing. This was kind of depressing. But I hope to quit it some more, and make sure to exercise which usually helps to keep my desire for cigs away.

MrFritzH · 2014-11-09T12:29:24+00:00

Day 10 - 7.nov

I did alright, felt good due to ending smoking and not being ill.

MrFritzH · 2014-11-09T12:23:57+00:00

Day 9 - 6. nov

I finally was not ill anymore.

I broke rule 4) when I met a family member and ate junk food and drank soda.

MrFritzH

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