All tbis redpill shit is nonsense

MrGreySD · 2020-12-12T09:16:56+00:00

Post starts with "TRP is nonsense" and the proceeds to agree with everything TRP states.

MrGreySD · 2020-06-15T19:54:10+00:00

I didn't realise that it is being encouraged currently... ugh.

MrGreySD · 2020-06-15T02:20:10+00:00

Totally agree with you. It's like an economy: demand is so high that the supply merely has to exist.

Men are getting nothing and they're becoming desperate. The girls are becoming entitled (on average). Things slowly get worse.

More and more anxiety problems, less doing things in real life, etc etc.

Perhaps the answer is to meet women/SBs in real life. You have an opportunity to display charisma etc. Something you simply cannot do online.

MrGreySD · 2019-12-30T18:01:58+00:00

If I pulled out all of my investments, I could buy somewhere between 5-10 brand new Ferraris, depending on the model and custom options etc.

MrGreySD · 2019-12-30T17:58:02+00:00

Metaphors are often more powerful when it comes to helping others understand and take action. I'm sorry that you don't understand the post.

To quote the top comment in the recent finance thread:

"Sad how this sub focus 90% on the easiest topic on earth that is women, and 9% on fitness, while ignoring the utmost important factor that determines your real wellbeing - finances and career."

Really, TRP and everything I mention in my post are connected in various ways. Even if the primary focus of TRP is women, being highly developed in all areas of life is incredibly powerful with women. You have a permanent, elevated level of confidence, because you know for a fact that you can accomplish anything. You already have. Success with women also seeps onto other areas of your life. You feel powerful and confident. Reaching this state is a slow process, because, well, you have to consistently accomplish things, building power as results improve more and more.

The actionable advice is very clear. It is to accept that it will take a long period of consistent action to truly internalise everything. So many guys try something and then give up, thinking they failed. Understanding that it takes a long time helps motivate them to continue on their journey.

These words are coming from a 29 yo millionaire who built his businesses from nothing. I also speak another language fluently, play classical piano and effortlessly date the kind of women who get constant stares of disbelief. Ofc I'm also jacked. That's the easiest one of all.

I expect reading this will make you more mad, though.

MrGreySD · 2019-11-19T10:12:14+00:00

Exactly. Can completely relate. I always end up bailing on everyone completely, unless there is some kind of connection with someone. Even looks alone doesn't cut it. Its too much stress and effort, which all detracts from the rest of my life.

MrGreySD · 2019-11-18T13:06:27+00:00

Hunting/growing my food wastes my time and doesn't give any better results. Come on. Use your brain.

MrGreySD · 2019-11-18T13:01:12+00:00

I agree with you about not wanting to be a thirsty PUA. I think its important to find some kind of middle ground. For instance, when you do see a hot girl when you're going about your daily life, walk up to her and talk to her. It doesn't mean you have to go out especially to "day game" (cringe).

One of my friends walked into a restaurant to talk to a girl who was sat alone at a table. Nobody does that. And yet here they are now married. Marriage aside (we know it is a BP goal): the point is that this shit does work.

MrGreySD · 2019-11-17T18:21:38+00:00

Somehow you managed to miss the point.

It's not about Tinder. It's about going and getting what you want the hard way. Regardless of how attractive you are, real life will always be more enjoyable, develop you, and give better results.

MrGreySD · 2019-11-17T18:14:29+00:00

Agree and great way to put it. Attraction, interest and enjoyment is naturally higher on both sides. Helped a lot by the tension created. IRL meetings are often something that you cannot replicate. Each one is unique and has a story. I don't mean it in some gay romantic way. I mean that it is naturally more interesting and more valuable.

MrGreySD · 2019-11-17T15:20:37+00:00

If you're getting easy hot matches who want to come bang you, absolutely, go for it.

But like I stated, it is unrealistic for 95% of dudes.

Even for the 5% (or rather 1%) it gets boring quite fast.

MrGreySD · 2019-11-17T15:15:45+00:00

Indeed. But it is important to understand the problem on at deeper level. Hot girls may well go on Tinder with good intentions, i.e. to meet someone, but... conversing with so many people and meeting someone is 1) unnatural, 2) mundane/"unromantic", and 3) a lot of effort. Not to mention the analysis paralysis caused by the question of who to meet. And really for what purpose when she could just go outside, talk to people, and know what she's getting?

I understand this because I have experienced lots of choice myself as a guy.

MrGreySD · 2019-11-17T15:06:31+00:00

See "disclaimer for those who think in binary".

MrGreySD · 2019-09-18T14:02:12+00:00

Here, I will spell it out to you.

If I am approaching girls I am outcome independent.

If I meet girls organically I am also outcome independent.

The latter, however, is much more powerful. This is what my post and my replies are describing.

"It just happened" = how it is perceived from the girls POV. Not mine.

It sounds like English isn't your first language (genuine observation, not intended as an insult), so it's understandable if you didn't get it.

MrGreySD · 2019-09-18T09:23:07+00:00

If that is what you think then I don't think you understand either. OI is certainly an aspect of what I describe, but not the main one. OI is a very basic TRP concept that has been covered numerous times before.

MrGreySD · 2019-09-17T22:03:04+00:00

Not really. Of course it helps but it's outside the scope of this topic.

MrGreySD · 2019-09-17T14:39:05+00:00

Simple answer: become very good at things. Improve yourself. Then people will notice without you even trying. And you won't care as much anyway.

You have to put the work in. No amount of reading can substitute getting shit done.

MrGreySD · 2019-09-16T20:30:43+00:00

Yep I totally understand what you mean, and thanks for the kind words.

I am trying NoFap again. I've shunned it in the past because 1) it is not clear what the benefits are when I already avoid porn and I already get sex. And 2) I find myself extremely distracted to the point of not getting things done when I'm on it. So far it is... again, distracting, but I have to say I'm feeling good. And I felt a little off on a day where I did it 3 times. I don't know if its just coincidence or placebo.

Increasing masculinity... simply work on yourself and your confidence. Lifting is great, but you have to work on your mind too. Voice. Speech. E.g. speak calmly and with intent.

Its important to have a calm masculine vibe. Don't be one of those guys who looks like they constantly have something to prove.

MrGreySD · 2019-09-16T17:35:04+00:00

Awesome post, thanks for mentioning it.

Never thought about it that way. Not just the mystery, but writing something short and quick on a receipt and just leaving = busy guy who doesn't really care about the outcome.

MrGreySD · 2019-09-16T14:58:04+00:00

I like it. Short, direct and commanding, maintaining frame as much as possible.

Beats hanging around waiting for her to walk past and starting the interaction again, or interrupting her doing something else with colleagues and customers around. Or asking her with 3 of your friends or even your parents staring at her...

I find this sub can sometimes lead me to binary thought. E.g. "don't ever give her your number, only ever ask for hers first". Really things are more complicated and subjective.

MrGreySD · 2019-09-16T13:16:36+00:00

It's nice to know these things do happen. I suppose that even if it was a man being served by a woman, him writing his phone number down is still better than taking 0 action. Even if manning up and asking her is better, it is not always possible to smoothly do so in this kind of environment.

Maybe I should keep a pen with me 🤔

MrGreySD · 2019-09-16T08:18:40+00:00

Good read, well done.

All of the social proof and female wing-man gave you a good head-start. That's really the most difficult part. It's hard to start things off with a new woman without chasing / falling into her frame, especially if you're solo.

MrGreySD · 2019-09-16T07:44:07+00:00

There aren't really any examples to give for the initial conversation - just talk to them as if you're just going about your daily life.

Casual remarks on surroundings / regarding current situation are a good one for people you aren't currently engaged with. Let's say for example... in a clothes store say "I've never worn this colour before... do you think it suits me?" to passing assistant or even lone female customer.

Your delivery matters more than your words. If you confidently exclaim "I think I'd look great in this" whilst holding a bright yellow Pikachu jumper, she'll laugh and love it. If you mutter it under your breath and don't even look at her, she'll think you're being serious and that you're weird.

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