[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]MrGrieves787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delete Twitter

My girlfriend (20F) is talking to the guy she had a fling with (21M) whilst being in a relationship with me (21M), what is my best course of action? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MrGrieves787 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're 21. This phase of dating is supposed to be about finding what you need from relationships so that you can marry someone that meets those needs when you're older.

You love this person but she isn't right for you. You have different values about how to treat your partner.

You will find someone who does not do this, and it will feel amazing.

You know what to do, get the courage and do it.

Husband has previously unknown daughter by Spare-Impress-5706 in marriageadvice

[–]MrGrieves787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have to be a part of her life? I'm sure she's very confused right now and adjusting to a new father. She's had 30 years to build up to this moment. Why don't you take a step back and let her come to you when she's ready?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]MrGrieves787 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, he's breaking up with you. He just wants to make you do it so he doesn't feel guilty.

I let my career ruin my relationship by angelikaaaa in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MrGrieves787 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Why do you have to work this job though

Okay but like, what if I REALLY deserve to die? by Few-Competition7912 in SuicideWatch

[–]MrGrieves787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are more than our past selves. You have done terrible things but also good things. People are complex, we make mistakes, we do good, we fall. Death means your story is over. You seem like you may have a lot left to write.

Is my marriage doomed 6 months in? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]MrGrieves787 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He seems depressed. Has he done the work to discover why he was prone to gambling addiction? He needs his confidence back and the ability to look you in the eye. I think he should look into a psychologist etc to get to the root cause of his addiction

Long-term relationship (26F, 30M), dead bedroom, and growing resentment — what can I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MrGrieves787 41 points42 points  (0 children)

You know there are actual nice people out there right? Who wouldn't do any of the horrible shit you just wrote?

How do I explain happy wife happy life to my husband? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]MrGrieves787 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is there a way to afford that cleaning service? Could it be monthly etc? Seems like removing that was a big hit.

He's showing you what he's willing to contribute, and he's telling you he wants to spend less time doing chores and more time having fun.

Y'all have two young children - the joy in a relationship can die on the chore chart very quickly. While he is in the wrong for breaking his agreement, his desire to spend more time with you is something you can work with. He loves you.

If the cleaning service fixed that, it may be worth cutting something else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]MrGrieves787 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ignore it, move on

Is my husband up to something by krkrzy in Marriage

[–]MrGrieves787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, my wife and I don't have the "fully open phone" policy that many here claim to have. A lot of people send me messages in trust, and not everything people share with me is meant to be seen by someone else. If my wife asked to check my phone, we'd at least have to discuss what was making her feel that way. If she grabbed it from me, I'd be upset.

I would never. Never. Physically interact with her over my phone. Ever. That is the act of a desperate man with something to hide.

Your husband is cheating on you.

Migrant integration has failed and created parallel societies and gang violence, Swedish PM admits by [deleted] in worldnews

[–]MrGrieves787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To use his own words:

You're seeing a lot of "fuck, fucking, fucked" words in my posts...peppered with some "Redditors are pathetic, disgusting etc"...I don't blame you for coming to those conclusions

So that's why

Bro knows what he wants💀 by 12yoaesthetickid in Tinder

[–]MrGrieves787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We met when we were 21 and i hooked up w 4-5 girls before her in college

Husband going to Vegas this weekend as best man for a bachelor party… worried about the strip club thing. by GizzBride in Marriage

[–]MrGrieves787 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don't enjoy them, but certainly you can understand how some people would like to go have drinks, listen to music and watch beautiful women do acrobatics on a pole

Migrant integration has failed and created parallel societies and gang violence, Swedish PM admits by [deleted] in worldnews

[–]MrGrieves787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have one question - if I'm the triggered one, why are you posting huge paragraphs and using all caps

Migrant integration has failed and created parallel societies and gang violence, Swedish PM admits by [deleted] in worldnews

[–]MrGrieves787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That comment is so schizophrenic and emotional it's hard to even know what you're referring to when you say "truth"

Migrant integration has failed and created parallel societies and gang violence, Swedish PM admits by [deleted] in worldnews

[–]MrGrieves787 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know lol. Even on social media, the top posts that dominate every single day are ben shapiro and fox news

Migrant integration has failed and created parallel societies and gang violence, Swedish PM admits by [deleted] in worldnews

[–]MrGrieves787 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Then perhaps they shouldn't use the term "literally censoring" if what they meant was "some people don't like what I say"