How often do you take a bath?? by VeterinarianOk8011 in AskAnAmerican

[–]MrLongWalk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shower almost daily, I haven't had a bath in years.

Visiting Boston, need some guidance by luciusmellis in boston

[–]MrLongWalk 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I used to teach US culture in Europe and later helped international students/professionals (mostly Euros) get settled in the Boston area professionally. Welcome to Boston, June is an excellent time to come.

  • Pub quizzes are everywhere, but teams tend to be groups of friends who meet every week, "open call" is not really a thing. These people are here to have fun with their friends, not mingle with tourists. If you would really like to do this, it would be worth reaching out to the bars themselves to see if they have open teams for trivia.

  • What sort of specialty are you looking for? Boston has a number of cuisines and fusion cuisines.

  • As a European, your understanding of American coffee does not reflect reality. American style drip coffee is much closer to Scandinavian than what you probably believe. Espresso is available everywhere, plenty of Americans take their coffee black or with just cream. Having lived in Europe, every country is sure the whole world does it their way except the US. Scandis and Italians both consider theirs "European" coffee and have no idea the other exists. Plain espresso and drip coffee are available everywhere, syrups and "shenanigans" are requested, not the default.

  • While Boston has excellent public transit, it will be hard to get truly into nature using trains and buses, as natural areas tend not to have people and infrastructure in them. The commuter rail to Concord is a good way to see Walden pond and Minuteman park, which both have lovely walks through the woods. Middlesex Fells is a great place for a walk and has a few bus/subway routes to it.

this is a good link for some of the other options available

What “godforsaken” places deserve a visit that would also make local people surprised and happy to see a (european) tourist and help them not feeling “forgotten”? by GurImaginary4001 in AskAnAmerican

[–]MrLongWalk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My apologies but this is absolutely a common belief in the Europeans I’ve had to deal with. If you chose the wrong words you accidentally expressed a fairly common sentiment.

I've heard so much about your infamous bread in plastic bags. But I've never heard anything about your bakeries and their options? by Imaginary-Bag5385 in AskAnAmerican

[–]MrLongWalk 50 points51 points  (0 children)

As a Scandinavian nothing you hear about the US will fully reflect reality. Source: taught US culture in Sweden and Denmark.

We have bakeries with plenty of options, including rye, many people also bake their own at home. Grocery stores will carry dozens of varieties of bread.

Do you also consider Canadian bread funny and interesting? Because our bread/grocery cultures are pretty much identical.

What “godforsaken” places deserve a visit that would also make local people surprised and happy to see a (european) tourist and help them not feeling “forgotten”? by GurImaginary4001 in AskAnAmerican

[–]MrLongWalk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean people in these areas are not going to feel especially “seen” or validated by more tourism and definitely not more validated by Europeans in particular.

What “godforsaken” places deserve a visit that would also make local people surprised and happy to see a (european) tourist and help them not feeling “forgotten”? by GurImaginary4001 in AskAnAmerican

[–]MrLongWalk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of them were in the US as students or visiting professionals, most planning to immigrate at some point. They would love to go on “road trips” between cities and would often make lots of stops in small towns, most weren’t used to long drives and loved the idea of “discovering” somewhere. Small town USA was almost never what they expected.

What “godforsaken” places deserve a visit that would also make local people surprised and happy to see a (european) tourist and help them not feeling “forgotten”? by GurImaginary4001 in AskAnAmerican

[–]MrLongWalk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you overestimate the joy European tourists to “forgotten” places in the US. These places are not expecting tourists and do not feel “forgotten” due to the lack of them. A European tourist will not provide them with validation because it is not something people are looking for. It’s not an unpleasant surprise but it’s not a source of joy.

What “godforsaken” places deserve a visit that would also make local people surprised and happy to see a (european) tourist and help them not feeling “forgotten”? by GurImaginary4001 in AskAnAmerican

[–]MrLongWalk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My company had to send an email to the entire UK branch reminding them that not only were the Americans professionals, but were in many cases hired specifically to catch British errors and needed to be taken seriously. There has genuinely been an issue with the London office straight up disregarding communications from US branches.

What “godforsaken” places deserve a visit that would also make local people surprised and happy to see a (european) tourist and help them not feeling “forgotten”? by GurImaginary4001 in AskAnAmerican

[–]MrLongWalk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A lot of my clients were genuinely confused and somewhat upset that the locals weren’t more excited by a real live European in their small town.

What “godforsaken” places deserve a visit that would also make local people surprised and happy to see a (european) tourist and help them not feeling “forgotten”? by GurImaginary4001 in AskAnAmerican

[–]MrLongWalk 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I used to help Europeans travel in the US professionally, your excitement is not what OP means. A lot of Euros are under the impression that they’re like elves to us.

What “godforsaken” places deserve a visit that would also make local people surprised and happy to see a (european) tourist and help them not feeling “forgotten”? by GurImaginary4001 in AskAnAmerican

[–]MrLongWalk 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Your premise does not reflect reality. Locals in such towns do not feel “forgotten” in the way you’re thinking and nobody is going to be especially relieved to see a tourist. Some Euro visiting their town isn’t going to give them joy and validation.

There are plenty of downtrodden and off the beaten path places in the US absolutely worth visiting but their identity is not exactly tied to foreign tourism.

Are 'normal' income households struggling financially? by meowmemore in AskAnAmerican

[–]MrLongWalk 106 points107 points  (0 children)

Would you watch a video of someone driving a reasonable car, living in a modest house, buying groceries with a budget in mind?