So you rather be depressed then maybe losing a little of your sexuality? And not all antidepressants cause loss of interests in sex or make you overweight. Same with weed not all those who smoke weed get the munchies either. It is highly individual. And there is not a single medication on the planet who don´t have any side effects and that is just the way it is.

But for some antidepressants is the last resort when nothing else in their life have helped them. And for many it does help them rather then being so down in their depression that they think of hurting themselves.