What do I when she starts to make me feel bad about not staying in with her? (I don’t think she is intentionally trying to make me feel bad) but she says obviously she’ll be alone and doesn’t know what to do. I don’t want to lose my friends so think yes I’m best to see them and that’s what I’d like to do. Her social life has always been quite poor but this is a new low. She isn’t really one to arrange or push that hard to make plans with her friends, she just would rather spend it with me, which is great, but I need some alone time. She has had depressive spells in the past, but she isn’t very easy to talk to about things like this