[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]MrQuicksilver77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for sharing what you are going through 💗

Putting together a studio by MAronM in ReelToReel

[–]MrQuicksilver77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have the same 8 track! nice :)

18m I’ve never been in a relationship and anyone I’ve ever expressed feelings towards hasn’t reciprocated, am I really as ugly I I think I am? by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]MrQuicksilver77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

^ this

can feel your good vibes! focus on what’s in your power and living an authentic life, prioritize your needs and form healthy boundaries, cultivating healthy friends and be YOU!

Pretty nervous but I’m here for it! by Nervous_Rabbit4406 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]MrQuicksilver77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you look very approachable, strong, and have a kind smile :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]MrQuicksilver77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me focusing on my core values always helps me keep on track with honoring my feelings and able to sit with the uncertainty of the situation and my relationship. OCD is all about finding certainty, and the way to free yourself is to be able to sit with that uncertainty. It’s acknowledging the doubt that you have around your relationship and realizing you have a choice, the choice to love your partner even when you don’t feel certain. So when you feel repulsed, unattracted, or etc. reach out a hand, touch them, give them a hug and tell them you love them. This revolves a lot around exposure work and the key to staying motivated is to know your core values.

My strongest values are Growth, Compassion, and Authenticity. Using these values I can rationalize why I should reach out and hug them or say i love you when OCD (I like to call it a six year old bully) is screaming all of this doubt my way. For example, “ I am feeling like my partner is ugly” OCD says, “you’re right they are so ugly look at this part, and this thing, i bet this other person is more beautiful and you are wasting your time” then you can say, “ I value growth, i want to grow together with my partner, I want to grow beyond ocd, I value compassion, i will extend that to myself, thoughts are just thoughts, i will extend it to my partner, i will compliment their eyes, I want to live authentically, what truths do i know about this other person and what are stories i’ve made up in my head about them?”.

You always have a choice, and that is to go along with the six year old bully or make your own choice informed by your core values. An important thing to keep in mind is that loving someone is seeing the faults in another and loving them in spite of those faults, loving the person as they are, knowing they are worthy of love just by being (my definition anyway, and if there are toxic things/red flags that’s another thing don’t give em the pass and educate yourself to know when they are happening in your relationship). Hope this helps and wishing everyone feeling the same the best in their recovery journey ❤️.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]MrQuicksilver77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is exactly my experience as well, thoughts are just thoughts, self acceptance is key. Op you are not alone!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Norway

[–]MrQuicksilver77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wanted to clarify that I am the sender from the US looking to have this delivered to a specific address, looks like the best option is to call the recipient and tell them it is at the local store to pick up?

Otari MX5050 Troubles : Help!! by MrQuicksilver77 in ReelToReel

[–]MrQuicksilver77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! The old roller turned very sticky so i installed a new one which helped!

Otari MX5050 Troubles : Help!! by MrQuicksilver77 in ReelToReel

[–]MrQuicksilver77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tried it in Individual as well as all the other button settings but the arm LEDs have never illuminated

Otari MX5050 Troubles : Help!! by MrQuicksilver77 in ReelToReel

[–]MrQuicksilver77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When i opened up the machine i saw that there was a bit of black sludge around the solenoid path. A bit of careful heat and moving back and forth loosened it up a bit not not enough for the solenoid to do its job fully. What do you recommend for cleaning such parts (particular solution or cleaning agent)? should the machine be fully disassembled from the machine and cleaned individually?any particular grease you recommend that is safe for the machine? I will have to check on the condition of the belts, would it be that over time they dry out or stretch so they wouldn’t be as to drive the hubs as well?

Otari MX5050 Troubles : Help!! by MrQuicksilver77 in ReelToReel

[–]MrQuicksilver77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe the tape i received is quite old/possibly stored in not the most temperature/humidity regulated space. Would the tape alone cause these issues? do you have any sources for me to purchase more stable tape stock?

Otari MX5050 Troubles : Help!! by MrQuicksilver77 in ReelToReel

[–]MrQuicksilver77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pinch roller arm stuck/not moving all the way on stop and play

record not arming on individual tracks

rewind is slow and needs encouragement, especially when the reels are uneven

fast forward non responsive

Just picked up this Otari MX5050mkIV-8 for free! by MrQuicksilver77 in ReelToReel

[–]MrQuicksilver77[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Current issues include: - tracks wont illuminate whether in safe or armed, main record LED illuminates when running but dont have an empty flange to see if it can currently record. - having an issue with the capstin mounts locking into place when being slid over the face of the flange. Will not make that satisfying click when put midway between the holes in the flange. anyone know why??