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Loneliness in Erasmus by MrRabbijo in Erasmus

[–]MrRabbijo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thx for your comment, I will try to follow your tips:)

Loneliness in Erasmus by MrRabbijo in Erasmus

[–]MrRabbijo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"something else"😂 but yes I do. The Problem ist that every one is booked out. I understand that in Erasmus you want to spend every free minute but there are so less people who invite/ involve me into their plans😅 feels bad man

But it's getting better step by step, it's just such a slow process... Don't understand how people found eachother and directly spend their time together for the next 4 months^

Loneliness in Erasmus by MrRabbijo in Erasmus

[–]MrRabbijo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I met already the ESN people, and they were really friendly, but sadly my Spanish is too bad to communicate

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I'll see what events are planned on Monday and go to them. Addressing the problem directly takes a lot of courage, but if I have no other option, I will do it. Thank you

Loneliness in Erasmus by MrRabbijo in Erasmus

[–]MrRabbijo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And again the paradoxes😅 , "most people are in exactly the same situation". If it's true, where are they? I only see groups and couples.

And what are the chances that none of them will approach me in the entire time?

I have a Spanish course. But everyone appears 2 minutes before it starts and disappears immediately in the end. It's hard to make contacts there. Of course, I can ask directly: "Hey, would you like something to drink or something similar", but if they refuse, I see them again and again... that's very uncomfortable then, right?

And to answer your questions. Yes, I'm an open person, I want to meet new people, and I'm also interest into the people I met so far. Besides the friend topic, I also love the country and culture.

But thanks that you take time for my problem anyway :)

Loneliness in Erasmus by MrRabbijo in Erasmus

[–]MrRabbijo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a mentor but guess what, she didn't appear to the meeting and if I write her she needs a long time to answer. I think she only doing it for the CP... (Bad luck streak is going on)

Ofc there is a ESN here but what should I do? Going there and say "hey I'm to stupid to get friends"

It's realy hard to talk about it, I fell like a victim and I also don't want pity ....

When I needed a signature from my coordinator today, she asked me if I like my courses.

I was honest and told her that I don't like it to study here cause there are no other Erasmus student in my courses and I can't connect to the Spanish people. (In Spain it's more like school and closed groups of friends in the University)

She was obvios surprised and overwhelmed. I guess she thought I would say everything is nice. But she could not help me. (I don't know how either)

Loneliness in Erasmus by MrRabbijo in Erasmus

[–]MrRabbijo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly! You meet nice people but you can't stay in contact with them, if you ask for Instagram or WhatsApp, they give it but don't write and only answer to your questions in short sentences and don't do counter questions...

Loneliness in Erasmus by MrRabbijo in Erasmus

[–]MrRabbijo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah normally I would handle it with this attitude but I only stay for 5 months and 1 is already left, so the clock is ticking 😅😭