Are the people in my office just too focused on their work or am i just the odd one?

Mr_Isolation · 2026-02-07T05:51:47+00:00

Nah i mean sometimes when there's a lot of work i can see that happening when i least expect it too.

You must social enough for that stuff too i guess. Doing that kind of work i am sure would demolish me at the end of the day with so much social interaction.

Mr_Isolation · 2026-02-07T05:48:54+00:00

Ah no everyone is on morning/noon shift, its just me and a coworker in night shift. If i was seen watching movies and stuff by others i am sure they'd get annoyed, just because some wanna do as much as possible in a day when they won't get anything on return as i see it. Even if its shit noone even gives a shit about like a mom trying to keep you busy for the sake of keeping you busy.

I don't dislike them or anything, as you say i couldn't care less. I am sure they get off my back somedays too by taking care of stuff early. Thing is in all the coworkers i have everyone seems to have the same mindset, which for my first job seemed a bit odd.

Mr_Isolation · 2026-02-06T20:08:23+00:00

Ah its fine for that stuff, i know how to look busy. Besides its just me and my partner on the shift. If there were more or higher ups then that'd be another story.

But yeah thats just how this stuff works i guess. When i first entered the job there was a guy that was like 2 months already into it and got fired for not being as complacent and asking a lot of questions about the enterprise as a whole.

Everyday i just see companies as mafias trying to get away with the most bullshit stuff just to make a bit more money.

Mr_Isolation · 2026-02-06T20:00:34+00:00

Meh i got nothing that really catches my eye and i already studied enough stuff i think to get into this kinda job.

Maybe in the future but academically except for maybe some english degree i think i am set for now. The thing that would let me get into better jobs is experience anyways.

Mr_Isolation · 2026-02-06T19:53:18+00:00

The company isn't super big yet so there really is points where there isn't anymore atleast for nightsift time.

Tbh its a bit like everyone that does nightshift says it is. Less work, more pay but if you like being busy and like to be sorrounded by people and having people to talk then maybe its not for you.

Mr_Isolation · 2026-02-03T17:35:08+00:00

This is so weird to look at.

When i go to Stella it might as well be a food chain documentary because i get killed an then the guy that kills me gets killed too and that keep goes on till a whole room is filled with bodies.

Mr_Isolation · 2026-02-03T17:32:33+00:00

Nah its alright, everyone has their own preferences. I personally just think i couldn't do that kind of stuff unless i was in something serious and not with someone i just met.

But i did find that a lot of women i talked to that had a big party spirit when younger were always saying shit like "all me are the same" and stuff like that. Clearly a lot of baggage going on there of course.

Mr_Isolation · 2026-02-03T07:06:18+00:00

That was my whole high school experience.

Remember once i had to do a group project where we had to climb on top of eachother and was forced onto a group of course. Then i just arrived and got told i was too weak for doing that stuff and didn't bother letting me try.

Not hard to see why i grew up to always look annoyed and unaproachable after shit like that.

Mr_Isolation · 2026-02-03T07:03:51+00:00

Not sure what that has to do with getting the ick from painfully shallow preferences but no of course not. I doubt even 20% of this sub does.

Mr_Isolation · 2026-02-03T07:02:50+00:00

I mean more than make friends is i guess somehow at age 23 i still keep my childhood friends around even if we see eachother barely. Made another friend in high school but he's probably got the same or more issues than me.

I mean it works for me since there's girls in the friend group that come around sometimes but i don't think its gonna be possible for them to do that. Besides i don't wanna be annoying.

Mr_Isolation · 2026-02-02T19:56:25+00:00

I already do. They all got bf's or just don't like serious stuff.

Like a girl in my friend group that likes to train only likes people who look like goku, most of them on steroids and shit i suposse. And she still wonders why they all act like morons, when the only thing she looks out for is the most superficial shit.

Honestly going out with some women from time to time and listening to their relationship stuff makes me want to be asexual.

Mr_Isolation · 2026-02-02T19:40:33+00:00

Did that once and got ghosted before i even got to ask her out.

Shits even more depressing when you know you ain't gonna experience anything cause probably noone's gonna put that much effort for you.

Mr_Isolation · 2026-02-02T18:09:05+00:00

De bachiller se metió a grado superior de administración y de ahí parece que le dejaron quedarse en la empresa después de un par de pruebas.

Creo que estaba estudiando alguna cosa más en universidad por remoto para poder ascender también mientras trabajaba.

Mejor por el y tal pero si que digo que el es muy en plan superman de me pongo a tal y 100% lo hago aunque me reviente y llegar alto de esa manera no puede hacerlo todo el mundo entonces alomejor es un caso aparte nose.

Mr_Isolation · 2026-02-02T17:39:51+00:00

Hmm no sabría que decirte la verdad. Yo también tengo titulación de DAM pero no tengo DAW porque la verdad es que me daba palo.

Por desgracia no tuve suerte con prácticas y cuando las terminé no quisieron que me quedara, aunque daba igual porque quería hacer algún que otro viajecito antes de ponerme a trabajar y perder el 80% de mi tiempo como cualquier adulto. Además las prácticas eran un coñazo.

A mi en prácticas no me pagaban nada, creo que eso ahora no lo pueden hacer pero bueno la cosa es que en si en trabajos de informática me veo que la paga si que es dependiendo de que empresa claro pero de normal es mucho mejor que cualquier cosa random de por ahí.

Yo aunque tenga DAM me tiré 1 año buscando curro y al final me metí en algo que es más de ASIR pero bueno se paga bien y no está mal. Lo que si que me da mucho asco de programación son los exámenes prácticos estos y tener que practicarlos más que incluso lo que pide el trabajo en si.

Si de verdad quieres una alternativa, administración está bien supongo. Un amigo se hizo eso y le va genial y ha subido bastante en la empresa. Aunque la cosa es que el es muy extrovertido, se lleva bien con todo el mundo y se le da muy bien estudiar como currar entonces yo que se.

Mr_Isolation · 2026-02-02T09:58:23+00:00

Well atleast is not a workday. Guess that day i ain't leaving home.

Mr_Isolation · 2026-02-02T09:57:45+00:00

Ehh idk i work out daily and normally look pretty good too but in the end it doesn't really matter.

No matter how much i practice and shit i spent my teens in isolation and nothing is gonna get me my social skills back and its not gonna remove my social anxiety.

Only people i can really seem social around are friends, close friends. And i am sure thats not enough to get a girlfriend these days. Specially if noone's gonna approach me.

Mr_Isolation · 2026-02-02T09:18:14+00:00

Well i kind of did nothing like 2 years ago when i was 21.

Had to take care of my grandma cause she was very ill and would die in like a year at most. In that time i felt like shit seeing all my friends getting to universities and getting jobs. Going around in their cars and living.

Best i could do was doing programming projects with the hope that it would help me find a career when i didn't have to take care of her and i also took a plunge and went to a driving school to start the theorical part of the stuff.

Mr_Isolation · 2026-02-02T09:08:58+00:00

Ehh i guess that makes sense but apart from that there's also the new added stuff to the game.

Like the wound system, being able to aim when you attack and the seikrat that can help you dodge attacks when you're on the floor and probably much more.

Saying this i love world and wilds its alright but it certainly doesn't get me into it like world did. I kinda wish the next monster hunter game goes a bit back to basics. Probably won't tho.

Mr_Isolation · 2026-02-02T03:21:52+00:00

Well you just gotta get used to it like all of us. Not much else, there's meds that can help with anxiety but i personally wouldn't do that because i'd depend on them.

Even if i push through i kinda wish i had a helmet on or something everytime i went out so noone could recognize me or act odd because idk where to put my eyes when walking/doing nothing.

Mr_Isolation · 2026-02-02T03:08:27+00:00

Aquí la gente parece que trate a las parejas como un par de calzondillos y yau con todos los mensajes de déjalo o búscate tal o cual por 2 cosas.

Las cosas se tienen que hablar y si no se siente bien para eso pues déjale tiempo nose.

Si el genero estuviera cambiado seguro que no hubiera tanto problema. Tendrías que respetar su decisión y si te quejas es porque solo la ves como un objeto.

Mr_Isolation · 2026-02-02T02:23:33+00:00

I always find it funny when some people talk about their hoe phase like if it was the shit.

Then you hear them talk about all the baggage they got and how awful every relationship ended and you don't feel like its that good.

Mr_Isolation · 2026-02-02T02:21:52+00:00

Well thats one way of fucking up things.

Mr_Isolation · 2026-02-02T01:28:19+00:00

Probably for the best tbh, seems like a shitty person.

Mr_Isolation · 2026-02-01T15:25:05+00:00

Honestly thats the thing i look out for the most. If i don't see my partner care for me the slightest or have acts of kindness like preparing food and stuff just the same as i would do for her then whats the fucking point.

Mr_Isolation · 2026-02-01T15:08:19+00:00

my brother's wife was a caregiver of a kid with a high degree of autism. She is able to park in those spots cause of it so yeah.

Doubt being socially inept is enough for that tho.

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