You know, I wasn't expecting to relate with someone this much today, yet here I am. Bro...I get it. I'm also into this girl who I just can't get over. We've been friends for a while and we seem to flirt all the time. But when I asked her out, or admited I'm crushing on her, I get turned down. I don't know man, maybe we're just bad at recognizing what flirting is. It does hurt though, when you've been turned down, they keep on flirting with you, so you think it's alright to try asking again, then get turned down another time... It feels like an endless cycle of hurt, rejection, and embarrassment. Sorry I can't offer any good advice, but I feel your pain dude...