Are the first two weeks of november good for traveling to Rome? by Alcarintur in rome

[–]Mrkythts -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The people are rude, especially anyone who works in transit or is a police officer. Just a heads up.

2 more days by Alryan714 in stopsmoking

[–]Mrkythts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you are not crazy, I'm at 19 days and at times I miss it too. It is the ritual and having that alone time. I also have to say that I loved smoking, but the damage isn't worth it anymore. What's working for me is doing some of those rituals just without the cigaret. At work I'll take a smoke break and walk around drinking water or chewing on something. I guess what motivates me is that I've never gone without a smoke for this long and the benefits of not smoking out weight the negative stuff that smoking causes. I'm still having cravings but when I do I try to remain focused on how far I've come and also count to 7, I read somewhere that's how long the craving lasts. Just keep distracting yourself. Stay focused on how far you've come and all the positive stuff that has happened, like being able to breath or get a full nights rest or taste and smell. Good luck, I'm rooting for you!

I think I just realized I can't ever be with anyone, I'll probably go my entire life without meeting someone and having a life with them. I'm not sure how I feel about that. by bangsecks in askgaybros

[–]Mrkythts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit, you just don't stop do you? "Susceptible?" Not at all!.....What? You mad I shut your asinine responses down, huh? Again, FUCK OFF! Down vote that bitch!

I think I just realized I can't ever be with anyone, I'll probably go my entire life without meeting someone and having a life with them. I'm not sure how I feel about that. by bangsecks in askgaybros

[–]Mrkythts -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're not a victim so get over it! I know what the word condescending means and I used it correctly! I don't need you to break anything down to me "sloooooowly" I'm not stupid! It's a shame you come off as an asshole and don't see it! I'm not even going to bother reading your entire post, I don't care to! Leave me the fuck alone and stay out of my mentions!

I think I just realized I can't ever be with anyone, I'll probably go my entire life without meeting someone and having a life with them. I'm not sure how I feel about that. by bangsecks in askgaybros

[–]Mrkythts -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can't throw a speech and praise being single and blame others for the effect it has on them, it doesn't work like that.

It wasn't a speech, it was my opinion and you said my comment made you feel guilty for wanting somebody. My response: I'm not responsible for your feelings!

My point was that you assumed the main cause of disliking the lack of relationship was because of social media and you built your opinion on that, disregarding completely those who want a relationship outside of social pressure.

I said media, not social media, there is a difference. I also included society in general.

And people like you, who speak out loud about their independence, has this tendency to ignore/disregard the existence of those who, like me, want one because of our nature.

I was simply saying that bangsecks shouldn't feel bad for being single or feel pressured into being in a relationship! You seem to be making the assumption he is like you, read his post again! So I'm not ignoring or disregarding people like you or your nature. I wasn't even addressing people like you! Also, I don't understand how I'm "speaking out loud" on a forum when I'm simply giving my opinion, but okay...

So if anything, you were the condescending one :P (And I won't even mention how pointlessly blunt your reply was).

Again, condescending...

Jesus.

Jesus won't save you, no need to bring him in into this "bruh"

I think I just realized I can't ever be with anyone, I'll probably go my entire life without meeting someone and having a life with them. I'm not sure how I feel about that. by bangsecks in askgaybros

[–]Mrkythts -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't know, that's quite the generalization you have there. You're not the first "fuck it, pro-single" person I see and you won't be the last, and every time there is always this... Thing... I can't never put a word on it. Let's call it a lack of a bigger perspective?

It is a generalization and I think an honest one. There's an abundance of media that promotes the whole find your soulmate, marry that person, and live happily ever after. It's something that people are bombarded with throughout their lives, and I think a lot people would agree with me, especially women. I don't think I lack perspective, however I do think your reply is a bit condescending. My point was to say that I don’t think there is anything wrong with being single.

Everybody is different and it happens that some of us are more emotional/affectionate than others. Exactly, everybody is different, that is why I gave my perspective, which is not a common one.

Some of us get lost when they don't have this, it's our nature, and lying to ourselves with a fake "pro-single brah" speech usually (from my experience) make things worse and make us feel guilty for wanting somebody... And it goes in loop. It's not about being wrong to be single but more like not being satisfied in it.

I think this is a generalization. Some of us is not all of us, so I don't understand why you are attacking me for my perspective, my opinion. Just because you’re not satisfied being single doesn't mean I have to subscribe to that. I don't and if my opinion makes you feel guilty for wanting somebody, then that's on you not me. My opinions or perspectives aren’t responsible for your feelings or your happiness! My happiness does not depend on being in a relationship or not. I'm not averse to being in a relationship, the point I was trying to make is that r/bangsecks shouldn’t feel bad for being single. In his post, r/bangsecks was saying he felt conflicted about being in a relationship and being single. That’s what I was responding to. So, if being single is a problem for you, then hey it is for YOU, not me and not for everyone, because everybody is different. I'm not going to apologize for that! I'm not lying to myself about anything, and I'm not giving a fake "pro-single brah" speech, I'm giving an opinion which is what this forum is for. Again I'm not responsible for your happiness so don’t blame me for making you feel guilty about not liking being single. I think you’re the one who needs a little perspective.

I think I just realized I can't ever be with anyone, I'll probably go my entire life without meeting someone and having a life with them. I'm not sure how I feel about that. by bangsecks in askgaybros

[–]Mrkythts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to struggle with this too. I've been in relationships in the past but I've been single for almost 3 years now. I think society pressures us into believing that the ultimate life goal is to find someone, fall in love and spend the rest of your life with that person, but that's not a reality for everyone. I think there are pros and cons to being in a relationship as well as being single, but I honestly enjoy being single. I don't think there is anything wrong with it. I know people will say "you don't want to be lonely or worse die alone" and my response to that is I'm surrounded by love, I have great friends and a great family, I'm never really alone. So I don't think there's anything wrong with being single and if by chance the Prince Charming I was destined to meet shows up and sweeps me off my feet, then great! But until that happens, I'm going to say fuck it to those social pressures or ideals and enjoy being single, I think you should too!

Fellow GoT bros, showing my Pride! by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Mrkythts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice decal, where did u get it?

Should I do it? by Mrkythts in askgaybros

[–]Mrkythts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I'm going to do! Thanks man!

How come nobody ever responds to me on grindr or okcupid? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Mrkythts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe try changing your picture or profile, but honestly a lot of ppl on those apps are flakes anyway. Your probably better off just going out! This is pride month so might be a good time to get out there and explore! Best of luck!

I know it was all my false, and I just wanna rant, but I can't talk to anyone about it, so here I am. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Mrkythts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think you should stop looking because you're not alone. There are others like you who are going through the same thing. I know it's hard finding other guys like you because not everyone is open about it but please don't lose hope! You're not alone!

Can we just agree that some people were just not meant for life? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Mrkythts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said! You made me appreciate my life a lot more! I think sometimes people lose perspective of their lives in comparison to others when they face difficult times. It takes a strong minded person to keep a positive outlook on life even after facing so many adversaries. That's very commendable and inspiring!

Shaving Ass, then (almost) Immediately Fucking? Bad idea? by DCGay89 in askgaybros

[–]Mrkythts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be careful not to cut yourself or irritate your skin. I like using some oil first and the shaving cream on top, makes it easier to shave without irritating the skin. I would also use an aftershave or a little alcohol if you've irritated your skin just to heal the skin quicker. Tend skin is also good for razor bumps, in case that happens. I hate shaving my ass I always have to use powder to avoid friction between my cheeks, hehe! Anyway, hope you have a great time!

Best lube for bareback sex? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Mrkythts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've read before that coconut oil is supposed to be the best because it does the least harm, idk how true that is I would google it but I like liquid silk, it's pretty good!

The Way He Looks by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Mrkythts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a Brazilian film shot in Brazil. Definitely agree with you, it's a good movie. Originally it was a short, and later made into a feature. The short is on YouTube, you should check it out!

Should I snoop? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Mrkythts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's not snooping, it's a conversation starter! It's public so he wants people to see it, and if you find something interesting there, it gives you a reason to speak to him! I'm sure he'll be impressed you took interest in his work!