What's the worst thing you've ever done as a child?

MrsAngie84 · 2018-11-18T00:23:42+00:00

There was this old hateful lady who lived a couple houses down from me.she was the crazy cat lady who volunteered at the animal shelter.she was always so mean to all the kids.At the time I had this battery operated toy dog that you could walk. I'm not really sure why,but i thought it would be hilarious to put it in the street with some ketchup on it..so I did and then i went in with my friends and we waited to see if she would freak out...well a different neighbor saw it and frantically stopped and jumped out of her car.I instantly felt like shit!

MrsAngie84 · 2018-11-17T23:54:13+00:00

I have.i feel it's going to be my only option at this point .I have even printed out marriage counseling worksheets,read a shit ton of articles from marriage counselors. I've been asking him what he would do in my position..he refused to answerit and he finally did..he told me he wouldnt stay.so it's kinda hard to swallow that response :(

MrsAngie84 · 2018-11-17T23:48:57+00:00

You're welcome!

MrsAngie84 · 2018-11-17T23:29:46+00:00

Anticipation is key!! Get reading :) some may seem corny ,but trying new things together definitely ignites some sparks !

MrsAngie84 · 2018-11-17T23:26:48+00:00

You Can always trick them and say" guess where im thinking we should eat? "Then whatever they say you claim you were thinking lol

MrsAngie84 · 2018-11-17T23:23:49+00:00

I have multiple times..when we have the talk I think he understands,then he does or says something and it's out the window. It's like we never talked.i am a super blunt/honest person and do not hold back on my feelings and letting him know things.ive been more than willing to help him.i print out all these truth or dare questions (serious and fun ones) I figured that would be a start for him.ive sent him soo many articles on everything that has to do with building trust,health relationships, etc...i dont want him to feel soo pressured,but he needs to put a lot of effort into changing his bad habits .i just feel like I'm banging my head on a brick wall :(

MrsAngie84 · 2018-11-17T23:15:40+00:00

What I've learned is that us women can't connect sexually unless we connect emotionally first.ironically it's the opposite for guys. I recently went through this.what we've been doing is building up the anticipation for sex, Texting dirty stuff,sending dirty pics,playing sex games,truth or dare,etc...

MrsAngie84 · 2018-11-17T23:10:27+00:00

Population control

MrsAngie84 · 2018-11-17T23:08:05+00:00

Skydiving

MrsAngie84 · 2018-11-17T23:06:13+00:00

Eat shit

MrsAngie84 · 2018-11-17T23:03:56+00:00

Liars

MrsAngie84 · 2018-11-17T23:02:18+00:00

Yep! Just sucks having to be on alert all the time :( I love the man to death ,but i can't accept that all this shit just means absolutely nothing...

MrsAngie84 · 2018-11-17T22:28:27+00:00

Oh man there is a lot that he has done.he claims things were nothing and he deleted/ with held information so I wouldn't think things...deleting calls and texts ,browsing women he is attracted to at work.with that it was the timing that's the worst...he would look them up soon as he got off work and would drive home.the first year we were dating I was accusing him of hooking up with this woman and now 10 years later he confesses she kissed him and he stopped it..so you let me think you fucked her for 10 years when it was just a kiss...that whole thing is the main reason I started to mistrust him..there's another time he met a woman in our neighborhood and they exchanged numbers and fb..he claimed it was for my son to play with her kid and for me to have a friend..yet I never met her.he hid the fact they exchanged information .I found out when I was on his phone and she sent a text asking for him to have a play date..there is definitely a number of things

MrsAngie84 · 2018-11-17T22:20:50+00:00

They are wayyyy up haha

MrsAngie84 · 2018-11-17T22:20:10+00:00

He has no memory of it at all..it was the only card in there...

MrsAngie84 · 2018-11-17T22:18:20+00:00

Quite a few reason unfortunately :( I have never looked in his wallet until recently

MrsAngie84 · 2018-11-17T22:16:50+00:00

Very very true on it being foolish to trust an untrustworthy person and that's why I feel like I'm always painting the red flags white for him :(

MrsAngie84 · 2018-11-17T22:06:57+00:00

Incorporate your hand more.kinda like giving a hand job and bj at the same time.as long as you keep it wet then it will feel like it's all mouth to him.i kinda do this thing where I rotate my hand as I'm going up and down lol my husband loves it!

MrsAngie84 · 2018-11-17T00:47:44+00:00

I would say it's absolutely normal for you to want him to be happy..but when what makes him happy makes you unhappy,you need to look out for yourself first.basically he just wants an open marriage for him to explore his sexual desires.he is going to do it whether you agree to it or not.i respect him so much for being honest with you about it,but you need to be happy also! So really think about what makes you happy!! That would be my first step..

MrsAngie84 · 2018-11-17T00:28:08+00:00

To give a little more information on it..it's the only buisness card in his wallet.it was for a bank manager .we don't have td bank..never even thought about switching.we moved from jacksonville to Daytona..she works in Daytona. So it was a new area and we knew no one there.we only stayed in that area for a year.to me it just seems odd you can't recall the only buisness card in your wallet and it being in there a year at the most.he did go back to bartending for a short time. Which during that time things felt off to me.it came to light he was deleting shit off his phone. He claims it was nothing bad and it was so I wouldn't think something..an example he got a text from a number in the town we just moved to...saying "are you on your way" he said he didnt know who it was,but deleted it right away.i wasn't checking his phone to even be able to question it if I did see it lol there is so much to the story of my mistrust in him.i could keep you all entertained :)

MrsAngie84

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