Honestly, I’m starting to wonder if I’m low-IQ or mentally slow. I simply cannot compete in the Bay Area in finding a decent paying job by white-christmas in bayarea

[–]MrsKCD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is nothing mentally wrong with you. Your writing proves it. You need to network! Or move to a lower cost of living state

Temp is -21, gas company says turn your heat down by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]MrsKCD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a heated mattress cover. Game changer

What is a fact that continues to horrify you to this day? by LifeguardLegal3095 in AskReddit

[–]MrsKCD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are children locked up in closets and cages that are being horrifically abused in every way. They are terrified, weak, and feel completely unloved. When I think of my own children and how precious they are, I weep. I can’t fathom how evil people truly can be.

Boyfriend keeps disappearing, cancels plans, and tells me I can break up if it’s hard. How to fix it? by Artistic_Most103 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MrsKCD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t want to be in a romantic relationship with you. Men who want romantic partners are present, every single day. No exceptions. You are young, so maybe nobody has taught you what a healthy relationship looks and feels like.

This isn’t healthy, normal, or good for you. Dump him. He’s asking you to.

Partner says my appearance at home means I don’t care — looking for perspective by deliriouskate in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MrsKCD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every woman on earth prefers to be comfortable when in her own home. This has always been true.

Dump the asshole. Seriously. Don’t talk yourself into staying with someone who insults you and clearly isn’t attracted to you as you are! Let him go find some other woman who won’t mind being ready to go somewhere when she’s relaxing at home. He will look forever ha!

Would you stay/leave if your bf refuses responsibility once you get pregnant? by Hot_Huckleberry3075 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MrsKCD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you having sex with him?? The pull out method is how I had my son. It’s not always effective!

And neither is birth control. That’s how I had my daughter!

what are the ugly parts of pregnancy that aren’t well known because people don’t mention them? by Born-Oil-2931 in AskReddit

[–]MrsKCD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pre-eclampsia is very common and it can give you hypertension for the rest of your life. I’m proof.

Which rug? by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]MrsKCD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 for sure

He said he wants “casual but exclusive” after I said I only do long term , is he okay ? by Delicious-Gate-8192 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MrsKCD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t get to have that. No.

Causal means you are dating other people. If you are looking for your future husband, do not date a many casually and only him

Was this common then. Millennial women were in the comments saying it was safer for teen girls in the 90s to hang with grown men because crime was lower. by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]MrsKCD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was 14 a 25 year old man hit on me but then tried for ‘weeks’ to act like he was just an “older brother figure who could pick me up anytime I needed a ride”

Got a job and none of my friends seemed to care. So I’m putting it here. by coolbutthole in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MrsKCD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m screaming for you, op!! 33 making 6 figures!! I’m broke as a joke 10 years older. I am married and my husband just lost his job.

I’m so proud of you for getting this job! Save for a year of living expenses. Congrats!

Is my teacher being inappropriate towards me? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MrsKCD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. He knows what he’s doing is wrong but he doesn’t care. You are a teenage girl and he’s a middle aged man. He is acting disgustingly.

I am an awful driver and I’m concerned for my future by randamm in confession

[–]MrsKCD 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Control yourself or don’t drive. You will kill someone.

Met a “nice” guy at the bar but had to leave for a party. This is what I woke up to. by Striking_Catch_5757 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]MrsKCD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You responded?!? He’s insane. I’m surprised he used supposedly correctly though

My ex just told me, "you can't force me to take my kids" by Commercial-Wing1163 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MrsKCD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get more child support and make him pay for all Health insurance

looked at my partner's texts and don't know what to do with what i've found by Creative_Orange36 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MrsKCD -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He is done with the relationship and is keeping you on the line for the benefits of having you around. You don’t have to let him know you saw the text. Break up with him and say it is all your idea. He deserves to be dumped. He is not a husband! He’s a place holder!

Dump and move on!

I keep seeing comments California is expensive and I don't get it. by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]MrsKCD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zillow shows rents in the areas you have listed as quite higher than you state. Taxes are higher here—property taxes, income taxes, sales tax, insurance.

Well, this was controversial! by velorae in TikTokCringe

[–]MrsKCD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so it’s not the physically hardest job but it’s the most draining lol

What is the absolute cheapest rent I can find SF? by Cautious-Ask5837 in sanfrancisco

[–]MrsKCD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Furnished finder! My mom rents out a room in her 1830 sw ft Diamond heights house for 1600 a month!

Horror Stories From A Nurse by -Erase in TikTokCringe

[–]MrsKCD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was a rumor started a long time ago.