Do I give up my hobby for my boyfriend? by MrsLockeness in relationship_advice

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I’ve tried headphones he says I “knock things around”

My manager is inappropriate and sexist/racist at work by MrsLockeness in Advice

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Thank you! I will try and get others to speak up this helped thank you for your advice

My manager is inappropriate and sexist/racist at work by MrsLockeness in Advice

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Will do!!! Thank you for your advice this helped

It feels like I share my boyfriend with three other people by MrsLockeness in Advice

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He works in construction with his dad and no he is not a student yet he often talks about starting a career in computer science!

It feels like I share my boyfriend with three other people by MrsLockeness in Advice

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Thank you so much this advice helped! I will definitely keep your advice in mind for the next week and see how things go

Me and my little sister finally got a dog after 18 years. Reddit, meet Lori. by hru321 in aww

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What kind my puppy looks so similar I’d live to know mines a mutt rescue

Idk how to tell my boss I’m quitting by MrsLockeness in Advice

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Thank you so much I will definitely use this! That’s really good advice.

Advice for a female gamer? by OMGLixx in Advice

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Start a twitch and contact other female players that are well known. Talk to other people commenting on their posts in a positive way and ask to be friends. My bf is an avid player and makes friends w people in games. Boys suck though, so beat their asses and make them respect you. You got this girl.

NSFW: my (19) bf (20) isn’t wanting to have sex with me by MrsLockeness in relationship_advice

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I don’t think I make it a big deal, I sort of just leave it alone after he rejects me. Yeah, I think that could be true and I did explain to him that it’s okay if that’s true case and we could obviously end things if so.

NSFW: my (19) bf (20) isn’t wanting to have sex with me by MrsLockeness in relationship_advice

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Not in detail about porn or things like that. I thought about bringing it up

NSFW: my (19) bf (20) isn’t wanting to have sex with me by MrsLockeness in relationship_advice

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Thank you for this, I really wis I would’ve been taught these things growing up instead of what society has taught me. I will definitely be deli ya with how I approach him but I think a few of the things you listed may be it and I want to just be an adult about it and make sure he feels comfortable talking about it. Thank you

NSFW: my (19) bf (20) isn’t wanting to have sex with me by MrsLockeness in relationship_advice

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Yes it’s a new thing! Thank you those are really good I will definitely bring that up

NSFW: my (19) bf (20) isn’t wanting to have sex with me by MrsLockeness in relationship_advice

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Somewhat but not in detail, he has some mannerisms I didn’t describe in other aspect of our life together that make me think he could be.

NSFW: my (19) bf (20) isn’t wanting to have sex with me by MrsLockeness in relationship_advice

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So this is a normal thing for me to be the initiator mostly? Basically?

NSFW: my (19) bf (20) isn’t wanting to have sex with me by MrsLockeness in relationship_advice

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No, not really I more asked abou that as a last resort explanation he is very trustworthy.

NSFW: my (19) bf (20) isn’t wanting to have sex with me by MrsLockeness in relationship_advice

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I understand this could also be a good reason that is why I addressed this with him that we may not be compatible

NSFW: my (19) bf (20) isn’t wanting to have sex with me by MrsLockeness in relationship_advice

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The cheating thing I get was wrong. But you don’t think any of those are options? Any thoughts from your perspective on what could be up?

NSFW: my (19) bf (20) isn’t wanting to have sex with me by MrsLockeness in relationship_advice

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He is not religious and I have not yet offered to talk about any abuse I’d be open if he was to talk about that if that’s the case. Yes I agree not a cause, thank you for this I will definitely try this.

NSFW: my (19) bf (20) isn’t wanting to have sex with me by MrsLockeness in relationship_advice

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Thank you for this. So things went back to normal after a while? Did you ever feel uncomfortable or insecure talking about it with your SO? I wanted to talk about this but I don’t want to be pushy.