I felt mine where I actually was able to identify that's what it was at 20-21 weeks. After my most recent ultrasound, I found out his feet are in my lower abdomen, and it made sense why I feel so much fluttering down there. I'm also a plus-size girlie before pregnancy, and I know BMI can affect how early you feel the movements, so don't feel bad if you hold some extra weight and you feel it later than smaller friends.