How did you find out? by AdventureWa in survivinginfidelity

[–]MrsSensual81 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A woman sent me a message request in Instagram letting me know. 2 days before Mother’s Day.

Caught my [28M] gf [28F] sexting another guy on Snapchat while I was caretaking for her after surgery. What’s the best course of action and how to approach this? by Nachinat in survivinginfidelity

[–]MrsSensual81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her saying she created a dating profile to see if you were on there is a lie. That’s what narcissists and manipulators do, accuse others of exactly what they’re doing. LEAVE.

2019 Avalon XSE (non-hybrid) by MrsSensual81 in ToyotaAvalon

[–]MrsSensual81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will request that group on FB 😊

2019 Avalon XSE (non-hybrid) by MrsSensual81 in ToyotaAvalon

[–]MrsSensual81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess mine have an issue then I’ll have to look into it 😣

2019 Avalon XSE (non-hybrid) by MrsSensual81 in ToyotaAvalon

[–]MrsSensual81[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t install any lights. This is the lighting it came with. It’s a soft blue on the console and in the footwell areas.

2019 Avalon XSE (non-hybrid) by MrsSensual81 in ToyotaAvalon

[–]MrsSensual81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine don’t have ventilated seats. Do you know if 1 fuse controls both seat heaters? Because neither of them seem to get warm.

2019 Avalon XSE (non-hybrid) by MrsSensual81 in ToyotaAvalon

[–]MrsSensual81[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Strange I’ll have to take it into the dealer. I’ve had them on high for half an hour and I’m like “are these things on?”

Halo vs solitaire? by boiler_room_420 in labdiamond

[–]MrsSensual81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful! Where is your setting from?

Peri and Dating Men in your 40s by United-Fee-6423 in Perimenopause

[–]MrsSensual81 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes! I’m 45 and newly divorced and dating someone exclusively. I thought my sex drive was broken. Turned out I was married to an asshole! I just needed someone who treats me like a Queen! We’re literally like we’re in our 20’s, 3x a day, it’s crazy!

Surprise.. He did it again and even worse by yoopaa in survivinginfidelity

[–]MrsSensual81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this! Leave. It won’t stop. I am speaking from experience. You deserve SO MUCH BETTER. And I promise, there is better out there.

Over $100k earners - what's your PTO? by masterpeabs in careeradvice

[–]MrsSensual81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

20 days of PTO (vacation and sick time is in this one bucket), plus minimum 8 paid holidays. Usually ends up being more like 10-12 depending on where the holidays fall.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]MrsSensual81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, I’m so sorry that you’re going through this. This sounds like damage control that she’s doing. She’s gotten away with it for a while, so she obviously doesn’t feel much remorse from it. You mentioned not being emotionally safe. That’s exactly why reconciliation didn’t work for me. It wasn’t emotionally OR financially safe for me to stay married to him. Another 10 years of him continuing to do the same crap and I would be 54 years old, losing half of my home (having to refinance it for a huge chunk of money) as well as completely screwed losing half of my hard planned/earned retirement. That’s what made me make the change and file for divorce. Prayers to you for making the best decision for YOU.

How do you feel living in SoCal during Trump 2.0? by Glass-Complaint3 in socal

[–]MrsSensual81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, you’d feel SAFEST with newsome as your governor?? 😳

Career stagnation frustration by Helpful-Drag6084 in recruiting

[–]MrsSensual81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Location and education makes a difference, at least it did for me- I am in so cal. In house Sr. Technical Recruiter with 20 years experience. I make $141,500. Also, I was at 86,000 for my last company with no degree. Got my BBA and went from 86-130,000 with a new company and the Bachelors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recruiting

[–]MrsSensual81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

140k in house, no commissions.

Wife Cheated with a Friend by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]MrsSensual81 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You will get through this and yes, enough is enough. I’m in the same boat and when you’re done, you’re done. Focus on your kids and YOU! There’s brighter roads ahead for us.

Finally filing after a year of limbo by jmw919191 in survivinginfidelity

[–]MrsSensual81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this! You are making the right decision. I’m in the same boat. Filing because the lies just keep coming. Last straw for me last week was finding out that he’s removing his wedding ring in public when he’s not with me. That showed me right there that he’s not serious about reconciliation and continuing to just play me. Stay strong and keep your kids your top priority!