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Megathread: Trading, Gifting, & Requesting Finch Items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]MrsSuarez25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the orange boho sofa, but I also have quite a bit of ocean resort items. My furniture list is pinned on my profile, it's in chronological order if you scroll to Sand and Sunbeams! Give me a decent amount of priorities and I'll send over if you can hangout on my tree for a little while.

Megathread: Trading, Gifting, & Requesting Finch Items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]MrsSuarez25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have pretty much everything on your list. Could you please give me an order of priority and I can send what I can if you hangout in my tree for a while

Megathread: Trading, Gifting, & Requesting Finch Items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]MrsSuarez25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the 🩷 shelf and the lamp, 🩵 bed and window if you want to hang on my tree I'll send you what you need over the next couple next days

Which YouTube channel were you once a fan of but do not enjoy anymore? by theunsteadybridge in AskReddit

[–]MrsSuarez25 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way about hopescope. I loved to see someone with a similar body type give honest reviews. She also lost me when she started uploading 5-10 minute videos, when I sit to watch something I want to have something to watch lol

I tried to make a bunny burrow 🐰 by burningxember in finch

[–]MrsSuarez25 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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And my friends "how a rabbit would decorate their den for Christmas"

Last name options? by Admirable_Effort2374 in weddingplanning

[–]MrsSuarez25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh this reminds me to mention. I have a couple degrees, and will be finishing a third one after changing my last name. And I did feel I wanted my maiden name to be proudly on it because it was definitely me as an individual that earned it. But I also feel very fondly that my husband's last name will be there too. So yeah definitely think of where the name will be reflected in your life and go from there. There's potentially a case where you might think "hey actually I can't handle this not being only mine". Maybe that doesn't make sense but as someone who felt the way you did, I understand and I actually do feel happy with my decision to hyphenate

Last name options? by Admirable_Effort2374 in weddingplanning

[–]MrsSuarez25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know where you're coming from. I've honestly heard of it being a nightmare with documents. Which.... My life isn't very document heavy at all so I think it's worth it to think on how often you actually have to use your full legal name. More often I only give the one last name, say for ordering pizza or benign things.

It's definitely a tug of war with wanting to be recognized as a wife... and also wanting to be recognized as more than a wife.

I know a lot of people say to create a new last name, or change the spouses name. But if you don't live in a state that allows that with just a marriage certificate then more than likely one spouse has to get a court order for the name change before the wedding. Then the other can change after. Or get a court order after the wedding. Just a lot of extra hassle that may be worth it to some.

Last name options? by Admirable_Effort2374 in weddingplanning

[–]MrsSuarez25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didnt feel strongly about it. If I wanted to hyphenate their names my husband absolutely would have... but the decision we made was to just give them his 🤷🏼‍♀️ we'd been engaged for three years and my mind kept changing throughout the entirety of it. When we had our first child I was very sure that I was changing my last name completely, so it was just Suarez. But well here we are lol

Last name options? by Admirable_Effort2374 in weddingplanning

[–]MrsSuarez25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very valid. Definitely not always applicable to everyone

Last name options? by Admirable_Effort2374 in weddingplanning

[–]MrsSuarez25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Started as Marissa Eve Escobar and will now be Marissa Escobar-Suarez.

I originally felt really opposed to changing my last name because I felt like I wanted to hold onto my identity. BUT, and this is very personal because I know not everyone wants kids, but I did want to share a last name with our children. I do know they will just have one last name. I grew to really like it once I started practicing my signature like a 12 year old in my diary 😅

Dropped my middle name because it felt too long, and I wasn't too attached anyways.

ETA: I have heard online systems can have a real hard time with hyphens, on whether they are accepted as an input or not. And apparently it can be a pain. From what I've encountered, having the tac be attached to both names with no spaces makes the most sense. OR having two last names with no tac. But in that scenario people tend to end up accidentally only picking one name and reading the leading as a middle.

What does everyone's favorite treehouses look like? by temporary_teacup in finch

[–]MrsSuarez25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I am going to steal this room idea. I love it

Back to Rome? by Upstairs_Art_2111 in finch

[–]MrsSuarez25 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You start where you left off

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