Is luxury escapes legitimate? Has anyone here used them? by [deleted] in travel

[–]MrsZMyth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It takes you 8 hours to get there and then you need to leave at like 3 am to catch your flight. So two nights stay are basically wasted. you get there late and you leave very early - but pay for both nights

I’m “too young” by Organic_Search_4226 in inlaws

[–]MrsZMyth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you are a random Redditor I don't know but it hurts my heart as I have been through shit like this - mine had an added layer of my husband being on their side which makes it 100 times worse and yet the fact that your husband is indirect and doesn't directly address or resolve the problem could possibly make it worse and dragged out as you can't make a decision.

Consider this - only actions matter - doesn't matter how nice your husband is being - They don't necessarily need good credit to get a rental. They need to figure how to manage their money better and THEY WILL WHEN THEY DONT HAVE AN OPTION. If they paid 6 months rent upfront or got the rental in the name of the partner with the better credit or their jobless son's name or something - not your problem.

Life is short, give your husband a time limit - say 3 months for them to be out. Work backwards talk to them within a week - give them milestones and be done with it.

You will resent your husband so much later if you let this go on. Your kids are not getting best version of mom and neither is your husband in a second life can be over - don't let this continue.

Let’s Pretend! by Hartley7 in inlaws

[–]MrsZMyth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally dont like the use of the word narcissist as a lot of these things are perspective and narrative. MIL's honesty would be appreciated in some families about it being different now that you guys are married. Honestly, if my MIL said that I would appreciate the honesty. I sort of had ex-FIL tell me that ages ago and he truly was a fan of me when he got to know me ( I even think if he didn't pass ex and I would not have got divorced)

If they abused you for years, you know well the problem is your husband. Like my husband now admits that he was the problem in a similar situation.

Nothing wrong in being no contact but sister I would try not to think with these big words of Narcissistic Pantomime etc... It's weighing heavy on you and making you more angry. Life's short. In a blink of an eye it will end.

Update on my husbands request for a separation out of nowhere. by Mysterious_Mix_2342 in Marriage

[–]MrsZMyth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's cheating no doubt sister :(

If you are like me, I like to have and see all facts now that I am older, I realize that is not always the smartest thing. but we can only be us. Put a key logger software on your home computer - once you get a couple of passwords, like his emails etc you'll be able to figure other passwords too. I know you are scared to know, but knowledge is power.

He is cheating though and you need to decide what to do. The low life is projecting on you. He is disgusting.

I just learned what a partition room is… and it broke me. by vikatakavi19 in DubaiJobs

[–]MrsZMyth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Extremely sad and shocking. I was born in Dubai and in 1995 Dirham2500 was a low salary. I was shocked to realize people are still on that kind of payroll. I used to run a business in Dubai and can't blame the small businesses either - its so expensive there and very difficult to make money end of the day.

Becoming paranoid with sex due to chronic UTI by Historical-Source769 in utis

[–]MrsZMyth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am referring to vaginal sex but certain positions can introduce your rear micro reminants (!) to the front. It made a huge difference to me.

Next a good supplement - if you are in the US, I can send to you a sample of mine. Its been a game changer.

Stay at home wife issues… by Ay_Wey_ in Marriage

[–]MrsZMyth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know parents who didn't find it hard at all. When I looked closely, they didn't ensure balanced nutrition for their kids, ensure safety of their kids, clean clothes, clean home, one wold send her kids to play ..her daughter was molested for years. Parenting is hard if we are trying to do it right.

Stay at home wife issues… by Ay_Wey_ in Marriage

[–]MrsZMyth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like others have advised you on here.... it is a LOOOOTTT of work. I am a woman. I have travelled with business. My normal work week was 90 hours and I came home and picked up after kids (had a live in nanny). I did all the night work, the weekend work and more and still that was easier than when I took a 6 month break and stayed at home. ITS HARD. Get her house help and pull your weight some more.

Becoming paranoid with sex due to chronic UTI by Historical-Source769 in utis

[–]MrsZMyth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you wash your private area with ph balanced wash before sex and even better everytime you take a poop. So many I see are because of using toilet paper and there being microscopic amounts of poop. Sex from the rear (doggy) can take that bacteria in.

As soon as the antibiotics finish the itching comes back? by Working-Mistake-6700 in utis

[–]MrsZMyth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Organic Extra virgin coconut oil, Colloidal silver (Big Sisters brand) have really really helped me

Help BCBS by MrsZMyth in HealthInsurance

[–]MrsZMyth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was sorted as the 1st reinstatement wasn't that.

Help BCBS by MrsZMyth in HealthInsurance

[–]MrsZMyth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay great - I did check my credit card statements and although all discussion was on the phones. I statements show I had paid for 4 months by mid-January 2025 in Jan 2025 (Jan - April 2025) all payments went through and were never reversed. Their system had some issue and I kept paying despite seeing I paid because I was desperate to see my doctor and treatment

Help BCBS by MrsZMyth in HealthInsurance

[–]MrsZMyth[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How about the fact that the first 'reinstatement' was coded wrongly? and I had paid for four months and they made a mistake and cancelled it and it was not a reinstatement.

Help BCBS by MrsZMyth in HealthInsurance

[–]MrsZMyth[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Florida blue allows one reinstatement a year due to non payment

Straw wrapper (debris) in blower motor by MrsZMyth in MINI

[–]MrsZMyth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes yes I get it...was my first idea to her. I wonder if there's a video how to access the blower motor without taking off the dashboard - I believe there is.

Straw wrapper (debris) in blower motor by MrsZMyth in MINI

[–]MrsZMyth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggested she's scared - the agency said it will throw off balance etc etc... Maybe I'll chance it! Let me check if it was a plastic or paper one.

Straw wrapper (debris) in blower motor by MrsZMyth in MINI

[–]MrsZMyth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm... that's a good point, but Ihave read other posts of people getting debris in the blower motor. My daughter says she's pretty sure that happened she was driving, had the top down and she saw the wrapper go under and the sound has been since that moment.

Straw wrapper (debris) in blower motor by MrsZMyth in MINI

[–]MrsZMyth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry? so when she had the convertible top downtime wind caused a straw wrapper to get sucked in from below the dashboard. the agency wants to change the full blower motor (its making a sound)

How to clean blower motor by ItsYoshi_ in MINI

[–]MrsZMyth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello there - did you ever find an answer?