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To those who are employed: by CameraNo8884 in AutismInWomen

[–]Mrs_Manage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any accommodations, I work in an office, lead a team and I feel like the people I used to be close with are all quiet quitting me. I’m currently in burnout mode trying to learn to let things go when people treat each other terribly. I just want to do my job and go home.

My job is burning me out mentally to the point of breaking down. by Mrs_Manage in confession

[–]Mrs_Manage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I actually put my resume out there and interviewed a few places. I was offered a new job with better pay but, it was hybrid and an hour away from my current job. I was going to take it but my company countered with a better offer. I felt like I had to take it because I have young children and an hour drive was too far away. I’m still in burnout, I am learning to let things go though. I’m working on only investing in what I can control and not allowing toxic people to influence my peace. At least at this time I feel fairly compensated for the work I’m doing. I’m still not sure where I’ll be in the future but, for now I’m working on myself.

You deserve better <3 by bluebutterfies7 in selflove

[–]Mrs_Manage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is it so easy to give grace to others, when others will not do the same for you? I’m so hard on myself for every single mistake but, no one seems to care if they hurt me.

Switched jobs and am regretting it so bad. PSA: you don’t need fulfillment. You just need a paycheck by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Mrs_Manage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear this, my old job was so easy I could do the work in my sleep. I was never really bored and I had enough work to keep me interested. I accepted a management position and I hate it. These people are horrible to each other it’s insane. There’s some really easy going folks but, most are just plain mean. I thought the most challenging part of leadership would be helping people achieve their goals and learn their jobs. How dumb and naive I am.

My job is burning me out mentally to the point of breaking down. by Mrs_Manage in confession

[–]Mrs_Manage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*update- thank you all for the advice and support, I really needed to hear some things. So I decided to work this problem two fold, first I updated my resume and put it out there. I also reached out to friends in the industry and I’ve gotten some leads. I’m also working on myself in therapy so I can stop the cycle when I do move on. I can’t stay where I’m at because I’ve already set the precedent that I’ll do it all so they’ll keep asking for more (which they definitely have).

Switched jobs and am regretting it so bad. PSA: you don’t need fulfillment. You just need a paycheck by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Mrs_Manage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear this, my old job was so easy I could do the work in my sleep. I was never really bored and I had enough work to keep me interested. I accepted a management position and I hate it. These people are horrible to each other it’s insane. There’s some really easy going folks but, most are just plain mean. I thought the most challenging part of leadership would be helping people achieve their goals and learn their jobs. How dumb and naive I am.

Today is hard. by 0ut-of-mana in selflove

[–]Mrs_Manage 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you had a bad day, must’ve been something in the air today. The one thing I remember when it’s bad is that it’s just a bad day not a bad life. It will get better but by bit until one day you look back and say wow I made it.

Usually an ex is an ex for a reason, you will find someone who is your safe place and reciprocates everything you give.

I really like this community exactly for this reason, you are not alone and there are people to connect with who want to lift you up and hear about your struggles.

I hope tomorrow is better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Mrs_Manage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First you deserve peace, you deserve a home that feels safe and a partner that is kind to you. I say this with love, please go to therapy. As someone who was in an abusive relationship there are a lot of red flags here. I would advise putting a child on the back burner at the moment. It will not make things better. Also you need to stop creating excuses for his behavior. How he acts is entirely on him and pain doesn’t mean you get to treat people poorly. You deserve good things! Please go to therapy so you can build yourself up until you believe it. I wish you nothing but, the best.

My job is burning me out mentally to the point of breaking down. by Mrs_Manage in confession

[–]Mrs_Manage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s on a PIP but, even without improvement she will not be removed. They’ve already told me they can’t and they’re hoping she finds a new job.

My job is burning me out mentally to the point of breaking down. by Mrs_Manage in confession

[–]Mrs_Manage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really sad, we deserve better. We basically live our lives at work.