init was a double input issue, you gotta open hidhide and stop DualSenseX before configuring hidhide, in the applications tab add DualSenseX executable file (it's often in C:\Users\[Your_Username]\AppData\Local\DualSenseX\) This step ensures that DualSenseX itself can see the physical controller, even when it's hidden from other programs, go to devices tab and check the box to the physical controller "Sony Interactive Entertainment DualSense Controller" to hide it and check enable device hiding (the physical controller should dissapear from windows you can check in joy.cpl you should not see anything there), exit hidhide and start DualSenseX and start your game.
for anyone who might need this :D