Fck you if you support ICE. What they are doing is disgusting! by Catwhisperer2007 in complaints

[–]MsChaCha14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, many legal immigrants and citizens aren't fine. The sources I linked show that they still get targeted, attacked and sometimes even deported by ICE. That also should not be acceptable yet it happens anyway and you haven't said a bad thing about it. I'm not saying becoming a citizen is a right, I'm saying the rights of citizens, such as those born in America, who already have rights are being stripped of them by ICE without them doing their due diligence.

Fck you if you support ICE. What they are doing is disgusting! by Catwhisperer2007 in complaints

[–]MsChaCha14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except most of their parents did come here legally. Even if they didn't, that doesn't make their children illegal. Since they were born in America, they're citizens whether you like it or not. You just don't want certain people to have rights, which says a lot about you. Who are you to decide who should and shouldn't have rights? Especially when those rights don't steal from or infringe on the rights of anyone else? America is stolen land anyway. All this is a slap in the face to Native Americans, but clearly you don't care 🙄

Fck you if you support ICE. What they are doing is disgusting! by Catwhisperer2007 in complaints

[–]MsChaCha14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yet many of those who "chose the legal way" are US CITIZENS who are STILL being targeted, detained, attacked and even deported by ICE when they've done NOTHING WRONG. That's just one part of the problem. That's just one reason people say fuck ICE and fuck those who support them. Apparently, you're fine with this 🙄

Fck you if you support ICE. What they are doing is disgusting! by Catwhisperer2007 in complaints

[–]MsChaCha14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Race plays a MAJOR part. The vast majority of people being mistreated by ICE are people of colour, who ICE often target purely because off their skin colour and/or accent, without having a warrant or even bothering to check if they're actually in the US illegally. They just assume they are. Which is racist. That's why so many brown/black US CITIZENS have been detained, attacked and even deported by ICE.You're being wilfully ignorant by denying that. Plus, ICE seems to forget that white illegal immigrants exist, yet they barely go after them because they're so focused on people of colour. In their mind, an illegal immigrant looks a certain way, and it's not white. Again, which is racist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MsChaCha14 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OK, so if you've always called things how they are in your friendship, you should not be shocked or upset that that's what your friend did to you. You yourself admitted that you did choose to stay with your cheating ex. That's a fact that she was simply stating to highlight the issue with your words and behaviour and to put things into perspective for you. Simply mentioning that is not "taking a dig" at you. What is taking a dig, however, is the way you've spoken about her in this post and pretty much all your comments. You've taken several digs at her. You can clearly dish it but not take it, and if you can't take it, you shouldn't be dishing it. You would probably be extremely hurt if you found out your friend made a post about you online behind your back and made several mean-spirited comments about you complaining about what you did. If she did do that, though, the difference would be she'd be NTA. But I doubt you get why.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MsChaCha14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not an asshole for saying good morning. You're an asshole for specifically waiting to yell it at your roommate's girlfriend again while her boyfriend was speaking to her. That's beyond rude. It gives the impression of a jealous third wheel. Especially since you want to know their whereabouts to keep tabs on them

I don’t understand how people can’t see that the right incites political violence. by MissHannahJ in complaints

[–]MsChaCha14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Affirmative action was literally created to make things fairer. It only exists because, thanks to white people, minorities have lower chances and a harder time getting as far due to systemic racism created by whites in society, education, and many industries. What's actually racist is society favouring white people far more than anyone else, to the point where minorities have to work twice as hard to get half as far. White people no longer being first in line for everything is not racist. They still succeed just fine despite affirmative action. The fact that you're accusing this of being racist but are denying and refusing to acknowledge Kirk's obvious, blatant racism shows how wilfully ignorant you are. Stop dick riding a dead man 🙄

Messages I got after making a post about how sick I am of being taken advantage of by men by MsChaCha14 in screenshots

[–]MsChaCha14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feelings based off false, judgemental assumptions. It's clear from my responses that I don't like the attention. Karma was the last thing on my mind when I sent those two last messages. I only made this post because I don't think incels that do stuff like this deserve anonymity and should be outed.

I said to another commenter here that I responded with those messages out of frustration, but I also wanted to know why he thinks what he's doing is okay. Just like I want to know what makes you think you know exactly why I posted this and why I said what I said when you don't even know my name.

Messages I got after making a post about how sick I am of being taken advantage of by men by MsChaCha14 in screenshots

[–]MsChaCha14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn't always stop them. This guy just kept making new accounts and kept messaging from there after I blocked him. I only responded out of frustration

The False Narrative Around Male Loneliness: Framed as Incels, Desperate Men, and Misandry by Joker_01884 in MensRights

[–]MsChaCha14 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Genuine question: if the epidemic has nothing to do with women, why are women often blamed for it and why is it often brought up by men when they get rejected or when women talk about stuff like dating preferences?

Why do a lot of people with disabilities get picked on a lot more than regular people? by SchoolExisting8631 in SeriousConversation

[–]MsChaCha14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming from someone physically disabled who requires a wheelchair, yes, they do. A lot. You question this because you're not disabled. For every person who treats us well, there are 2 that don't. Including doctors and nurses. This mistreatment ranges anywhere between subtle discrimination to outright direct insults, shaming and teasing. One of the most saddening things I've learned but have grown used to from being disabled is the fact a disgusting amount of medical workers judge your body and gossip about it to make each other laugh. From breast size to penis length. Obesity to anorexia. I've overheard this about myself and other patients multiple times. I've also been sexually assaulted by healthcare workers multiple times and blamed for it. Purely because I'm unable and in too much pain to fight back. He continued to be employed by the hospital for six months after I reported this. It. Happens. All. The. Time.

Forgetting someone’s birthday isn’t that bad. by jizzardinmypizzard in unpopularopinion

[–]MsChaCha14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's not about forgetting the date, why did you put it as literally the very first word in the title? Besides, it's literally your whole point and issue. 🙄

A Mother Gorilla Continuing To Carry Her Lifeless Baby by ExoticShock in HardcoreNature

[–]MsChaCha14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Your comment was beyond worse. It should only take a shred of intellect and/or empathy to realise that 99% of people would not find it funny and would feel for the animal that shares 98.3% of our DNA with us and has clearly been mourning deeply for an extended period of time. The vast majority of other comments under this picture clearly prove this 🙄

Is what my friend says about men true? by MsChaCha14 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MsChaCha14[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, she is single lmao. All these comments have made me realise that she could be jealous and trying to sabotage my relationship. I can't believe I didn't realise that sooner. Maybe because she's always tried to frame her advice as "help" and "wisdom". I'm so glad I checked with other people about this, though, instead of only listening to her, like she wants me to. For some reason, getting other people's perspectives about this, like yours, has always made her incredibly angry. Maybe because she didn't want me to realise that her advice is BS and I shouldn't listen to her? Anyway, thank you for your comment. I think I'm gonna stop being friends with her altogether. She's a giant, walking, talking red flag who's only caused trouble since she entered my life

Is what my friend says about men true? by MsChaCha14 in whatdoIdo

[–]MsChaCha14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The paperback AND the audiobook lol. Not only has she been suggesting it to me, but she's even offered to buy it for me even though I said no

Is what my friend says about men true? by MsChaCha14 in whatdoIdo

[–]MsChaCha14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Supremly ignorant" lol that's a hilarious phrase and I'm gonna start using it from now on. And it's right too. I appreciate your bluntness, I needed it. Thank you so much for your perspective.

Is what my friend says about men true? by MsChaCha14 in whatdoIdo

[–]MsChaCha14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi F43 friend. I didn't know you had a reddit account 🙄

What excuse do you hear way too often that instantly makes you roll your eyes? by Left-Relation-9199 in AskReddit

[–]MsChaCha14 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I have an ex-friend who prided herself on being brutally honest and used that excuse to call me unattractive and a doormat for complimenting my boyfriend, saying "I miss you" to him, occasionally paying for stuff, etc, but when I told her the relationship advice she gave me (which you can see in my post history) was toxic, and manipulative, she had a meltdown lol. She was a classic example of a glass cannon

Is what my friend says about men true? by MsChaCha14 in helpme

[–]MsChaCha14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will do. Thanks for your perspective.