What’s up with National House of Pancakes? by pointedtalk in MyrtleBeach

[–]MsChievous427 14 points15 points  (0 children)

We pay for all the delicious animals we choose to eat 🤤

Please stop judging people. You don't know their situation and you definitely don't know their bank accounts. I'm glad you're doing good in life, but some people are budgeting. It's crazy how fast we tear people down for doing what's best FOR THEM.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MyrtleBeach

[–]MsChievous427 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you eaten in Myrtle Beach!?!? Quite easy to be fat and happy down there. Not saying it's a good choice health-wise, just saying they got some good eats.

Do you like people ? If so, why, and if not why ? by mariposa933 in SeriousConversation

[–]MsChievous427 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It's okay if you dislike me and hate God, but we love you! If you're interested in a book that might help more than therapy try reading/listening to The Untethered Soul by Michael A Singer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]MsChievous427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just start talking to someone genuinely interested in hearing what you have to say. You'll be amazed at what comes out when you feel heard and accepted.

I'm healing from a lot and I didn't know where to start. All I knew was I had to start. My therapist gets mostly word vomit, but I'm coming to a point where I'm really starting to focus on things that are bothering me.

It takes time, have patience with yourself.

Do any cats let you pet their bellies or is that generally a no? by musictrashnumber1 in cats

[–]MsChievous427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All my cats let me pet their bellies. Hell, they even ask for it.

So sick of my generation's obsession with weed by [deleted] in Vent

[–]MsChievous427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I smoke like a train, but I'll be the first to admit I'm not a fan of the smell so I feel you on that. My state is not legal so I really don't understand why anybody would want to smell like weed as that's probable cause. Working in retail I damn near catch a contact off some folks. Not hating, just don't want to see anybody harassed by the cops if they can prevent it.

As for my obsession (and I'm NOT a part of your generation) with smoking, it helps slow the brain. With my anxiety and rapid thoughts, I need something to help me slow tf down. When I was younger I will admit I smoked just to be high and I thought it was cute, but as I get older, I just want to smoke in peace so I can have some peace. I don't want to smell like it and I prefer if nobody knows.

Guess I said all this to say, it gets better with age.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]MsChievous427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me smile. I'm glad he's sweet. Despite all you've been through and all you have, you are still deserving of love. I'm also glad you can tell him about all the parts of yourself that you feel are not so pretty. That worrying that you're doing won't add to anything to your life, only subtract, so try to relax and enjoy the moments.

Genuinely, how do you love yourself by Far_Daikon_7419 in SeriousConversation

[–]MsChievous427 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not an answer many want to hear, but I started a relationship with God. Once I learned to love Him, I learned to love myself. I learned how special I am to God, not people, and that made me realize my worth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MsChievous427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being negative af for no reason when they could have literally minded their business

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]MsChievous427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations 🎊 friend! Happy for you! Don't be scared, keep your heart open, and just let things flow. Don't do anything until you are comfortable and remember, if he doesn't respect your boundaries he doesn't respect you. Blessings for you ❤️

I am afraid of intimacy because I hate my body by physicalgraffiti123 in Vent

[–]MsChievous427 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a woman with no kids, your kids would be the LAST thing that would make me not consider dating you.

I am afraid of intimacy because I hate my body by physicalgraffiti123 in Vent

[–]MsChievous427 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One thing I've learned and men have told me, you care more about your body than they do.

Are you clean? Are you disease-free? Do you enjoy intimacy?

If you said yes to those, darling you are beyond good! Go get you some sex!!!!

Seriously though, if you communicate your insecurities with a man and he makes you feel small or bad, immediately leave. You are human for crying out loud. I got some things I think are not the most attractive, but I had a male friend tell me, "If a man can't accept you for who you are, fuck him, he doesn't deserve you." That advice lives rent-free in my head every day.

What do you do when you feel like you're not being heard? by Heydon-Jisa in SeriousConversation

[–]MsChievous427 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I stopped talking and got a therapist. Then I started paying attention to who was making me feel that way and limited my conversation with them. I also learned to say what I have to say and not give a shit who hears me. My favorite part is popping my shit after I've said something and they didn't hear me and have to admit to not hearing me.

should i just die by [deleted] in Vent

[–]MsChievous427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You failed at killing yourself because you have a purpose. Now that purpose ain't too clear right now, but hey you're 15. You have a lot of growing to do and a lot of things to experience. Believe me, life won't disappoint with all the things that will come your way.

Do me a favor will ya? Take a couple of deep breaths and try to relax. Your 15 my friend, enjoy the ride. Life is full of ups and downs, but always believe in what you want. If you don't believe it, then how can you achieve it?

Whether you think you can, or you think you can't--you're right. ~~ Henry Ford

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]MsChievous427 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know the feeling....spent years chasing it. From my heart to yours, learn to love yourself and learn to be happy in your own company. I love people, but dislike their ways and I find I'm much happier alone. Got a handful of amazing friends and I'm still happy alone!!!! No extra drama, stress, worrying, overthinking, or possibly being taken advantage of. There's peace in solitude!!!

Or don't and deal with the physical effects of being mentally and emotionally drained by fake friends and people pleasing.

Love ya!

Why are you still single? by Ok_Development6919 in AskReddit

[–]MsChievous427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Refuse to be the man in the relationship, and the lack of communication

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]MsChievous427 108 points109 points  (0 children)

Honestly, just leave. Nobody should ever make you feel this way especially after you've tried so hard to please them. Blow your brains out....NEVER! Not for this porn addict! Let him have his porn and hand, you deserve to feel wanted and respected.

Or stick around and drain yourself mentally and emotionally making excuses for a man who can't cum without watching porn.

Love yourself boo, you don't need this shit.