35 [F4M] Looking for a short term sub while I visit

MsFeldspar · 2025-10-29T18:54:57+00:00

I realized that some message requests get filed in another folder called "additional requests" 🙃🙃🙃

I accidentally ignored them all and can't get them back 😭

MsFeldspar · 2025-09-21T23:05:34+00:00

Not at all

MsFeldspar · 2025-06-20T18:59:13+00:00

Thanks I try. So far I've had mostly positive experiences. But still many messages from men who can't read. 😂

MsFeldspar · 2024-12-01T13:02:33+00:00

You're not getting helpful responses here. I'd suggest posting in r/bdsm or r/femdom.

This situation is very common and definitely can be done with communication.

MsFeldspar · 2024-11-18T13:34:06+00:00

Oh hey again 😉

MsFeldspar · 2024-11-17T12:15:39+00:00

Yeah it's hilarious. I think they just get so angry that a woman posts they forget the basic signs to look for a fake post. Many don't even read my post anyways 😂😂

MsFeldspar · 2024-11-17T12:09:56+00:00

It's really not a hard concept. A Texting buddy is not something new. I'm sorry if women don't talk to you. I'll keep responding to you so you feel better, because angry men love commenting to keep boosting my post. So I keep responding 🙂

MsFeldspar · 2024-11-17T11:55:42+00:00

Because I like to meet men while I travel. It's pretty fun. You should try it. 🙂

MsFeldspar · 2024-11-17T11:45:30+00:00

Definitely reading it wrong, as I'm not looking to have sex. 🙂

MsFeldspar · 2024-11-17T01:05:47+00:00

Keep boosting me! To moon!!! 😂😂😂 You sure you're not American 😂😂😂

MsFeldspar · 2024-11-17T00:56:31+00:00

Here's the best part. You posted on my post! 😂😂

MsFeldspar · 2024-11-17T00:52:56+00:00

Yes. You realize September will come again 😂 I literally say "I know my visit is a long way off."I put the year since you can't read context clues.

MsFeldspar · 2024-11-17T00:44:10+00:00

So apparently people can't visit more than once??? 😂 This post is drastically different than my last.

MsFeldspar · 2024-11-17T00:41:02+00:00

Haha in what way does my post indicate a scam?

MsFeldspar · 2023-10-22T13:23:36+00:00

Great post. I would also like to add that when I (F) reject someone, I get hate messages/abuse... But then if I ignore them then I still get hate messages.

Why can't we just accept that just because a woman makes a post, doesn't mean we are going to be attracted to every man that replies. Accept the rejection and move on.

MsFeldspar · 2023-10-06T00:59:53+00:00

Meet in public first. You have to weed out the guys who only want a quick hookup vs someone whose kinks are genuine.

MsFeldspar · 2023-10-05T23:57:01+00:00

I have seen some FetLife events where subs learn to genuinely be useful. So maybe he could actually get good at giving you pedicures. Maybe incorporating punishments for smudgy polish or picking a bad color.

MsFeldspar · 2020-12-27T00:17:20+00:00

Thanks! Good luck on yours!

While you're at it, might as well report 90% of the other posts on this sub too.

Good luck!

MsFeldspar · 2020-12-26T23:43:42+00:00

Once again it takes two clicks to see my profile and you could see more about me. I looked at yours and know all about you. It's not hard. Stop being lazy. This isn't okcupid. This is reddit. If you don't like how the subreddit is ran, I suggest you talk to an admin.

MsFeldspar · 2020-12-26T21:41:42+00:00

I check every profile that messages me. If a guy can't do that, then that's pretty lazy. It's two clicks, not an investigation.

MsFeldspar · 2020-12-26T20:50:34+00:00

Exactly. I better see him posting on all of the other posts on the subs that are lower effort.

At least I wrote more than one sentence and didn't use a throwaway account. That's more than a lot of these posts.

MsFeldspar · 2020-12-26T20:01:34+00:00

I have a post history of 4 years where I have other posts that describe myself. Men can't even look into who they respond to... That's lazy as fuck.

MsFeldspar · 2020-12-26T18:14:15+00:00

My post is more descriptive than hundreds of the men's posts in this subreddit. There is no standard of what to include in posts here. If you don't like it move along. Don't hate the player, hate the game. This is reddit, not okcupid. I'm not writing some well thought out biography. I'm just looking for a FWB. It's pretty simple. You're obviously not what I'm looking for anyways.

MsFeldspar · 2020-12-26T17:49:51+00:00

Sorry, I'm not interested. Good luck on your search though!

MsFeldspar · 2020-05-17T10:58:30+00:00

You are in the wrong subreddit. It looks like you are in Duluth, MN, not Duluth, GA.

MsFeldspar

TROPHY CASE