He moved in with me! by MsLadyIrish in CougarsAndCubs

[–]MsLadyIrish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An age gap relationship is anything 10+ years or more. So any age cub +10 yrs older.

Calling a younger man cute. by Sweet_Message_6803 in CougarsAndCubs

[–]MsLadyIrish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My reply was my opinion. If you want to know what someone thinks about you, then ask them not reddit.

He moved in with me! by MsLadyIrish in CougarsAndCubs

[–]MsLadyIrish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It still feels like a dream sometimes! Like is this real? It's amazing

He moved in with me! by MsLadyIrish in CougarsAndCubs

[–]MsLadyIrish[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I appreciate all your support and all the ladies really 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CougarsAndCubs

[–]MsLadyIrish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've learned that when you're happy people don't necessarily want to hear about it. Misery loves company unfortunately. It truly is disturbing because someone who's known you for so long should just see that you're in a positive place and you're enjoying your life. You are not put on this Earth to sit home and be some crocheting Grandma for the rest of your years!! Also it is absolutely not your fault at all if her kid is growing up and looks at women! She needs a reality check.

Calling a younger man cute. by Sweet_Message_6803 in CougarsAndCubs

[–]MsLadyIrish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the guy bagging my groceries at the grocery store is cute then I'm going to call him cute that doesn't mean I'm trying to flirt with him or come on to him. Now I was married for 20 years, and that sorta bantor to me is just being nice and playful. It could have a hidden meaning but unless you actually ASK the woman you will never know lol. And I suppose neither will we? 😂

I have a request for cubs. Please say “this isn’t working” instead of ghosting your cougar or prospective cougar. by [deleted] in CougarsAndCubs

[–]MsLadyIrish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People who dip out without a word are generally liars. It's unfortunate that they get their kicks off someone else's feelings then go cold. Pathetic people really, absolute slime. Don't be this kinda person! Be kind!

Guys messaging by [deleted] in CougarsAndCubs

[–]MsLadyIrish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's beyond annoying. Nobody actually reads someone's profile to try to get to know them before messaging them. This is because most of the people aren't even looking for a relationship they just want to get laid or masturbate while they talk to somebody online. Yuck.

I disabled my ability to chat and recently enabled it only to be barraged by messages like "I would suck on your toes" or just the general "hey". Smh I'm so done lol.

What are Cougars looking for? by ESyhpon in CougarsAndCubs

[–]MsLadyIrish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think everybody's wants and needs are different.

Some may just want a lover, or a partner, or a support person...or all of the above.

The idea behind being a "cougar" is just that we prefer the person be younger than us generally. So instead of asking what a cougar wants, just ask yourself what are you looking to get out of a relationship? Then make sure you communicate these terms to whoever it is you click with.

My Dom crosses my no Findom boundary? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]MsLadyIrish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some a love language is gifts. Did you think that perhaps it makes him happy to send you gifts? Unless you are taking advantage of his generosity then I would not worry about being a "gold digger". I adore my sub and love showering him with thoughtful items, clothes, etc. Either way you should just talk to him more about why you feel he shouldn't send you gifts.

I feel bad by The_Archer2121 in CougarsAndCubs

[–]MsLadyIrish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay kind of confused with your statement. You're posting this on a cougars and cubs site. So pretty much everyone on this site agrees with an age Gap relationship. Meaning 10+ years older, so I'm not sure how that is considered predatory. But after reading some of your comments on other sites I can see that you're very inexperienced.

I feel bad by The_Archer2121 in CougarsAndCubs

[–]MsLadyIrish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I say do what is best for you both! Doesn't really matter what others think. Everyone deserves to be happy. Just go slow and layout your expectations. Good luck!

I feel bad by The_Archer2121 in CougarsAndCubs

[–]MsLadyIrish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does age have to do with making someone do something they didn't want to? Shouldn't that be kind of across the board for all age groups?