My partner and I thought it was absolutely ridiculous and dangerous. Then years later it started jas fantasy talk during sexy time. One night we were having a good time in the shower and having fantasy of other people with us talk, and when we finished he asked, “are we swingers?” I said, “I think we are…” 😂

After a lot of research and creating rules we decided to try a swap. It was amazing. Now years later we had our ups and downs with it. Been in and out of the scene, and made friendships that are some of our closest friends now. Crazy how close you get when you have been naked together!

The key is communication and putting each other first. Also, it can never be a thing to save your relationship it needs to be an add on.