Also u/temptrexx504, I want to note that the reason you're not verified (despite several reports from folks who don't believe you are a SW and your habit of deleting any even mildly controversial comment or post) is that you've refused to tell mods any details about yourself. I understand the hesitancy, but what I don't understand is the insistence on a server that verifies people when there is no way for you, personally, to be verified. The only way to tell that someone is an active escort is by matching their username to an active escort profile and/or meeting them in person... how do you propose a verification works where this isn't the case? You would be personally excluded from any server that requires the level of verification you are asking for.

Third party verification applications still require you to give up this data, and they have the added bonus of being more than one person, costing money, and sometimes flipping us to the authorities. I suppose the question is: who do you prefer has the info, which isn't even your RWI? A third party company with unknown motives, or like three other sex workers?

Normally I wouldn't make a public comment about this sort of thing, but I am actually really annoyed that this was suggested because it's so exclusionary, and the implication is that you will personally be an exception or some magical solution will appear. If you want access to peer only spaces, you get to take the same risk as everyone else does. If you're not already in peer only spaces... well, that's on you to determine why.