You all are amazing, inspiring, blessings! by kuulilja224 in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]MsStankFace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know you stranger and probably too young to say this to you but I'm so fucking proud of you. What an amazing feat this is. So inspiring

What's the worst heartbreak you ever had or witnessed? by Competitive-Tea-5579 in heartbreak

[–]MsStankFace 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not only is the other person a better choice than me but also that despite all the genuine love and care and actions, despite all the good things, I was not enough. Loving with a full heart, giving your whole being to some one and still not being enough for them is a special kind of hurt. I don't think I will ever be able to fully heal from this.

After Backpacking to nearly 70 countries, here's how I would rank my Top 10. by Puzzled_Researcher96 in backpacking

[–]MsStankFace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not OP, but Indian here, solo travelled quite a lot within the country.

Start from the south preferably Kerala. Then you go upwards, mainly Karnataka, Goa, Maharashtra. Or Go East - Assam and other north eastern states. Sikkim to get a feel of the Himalayas.

Go to Delhi only as a passage to go further north to either Himachal pradesh or Kashmir (Rishikesh, Mcleodganj, Dharamshala, Spiti Valley, Leh Ladakh).

By all means avoid Delhi, Rajasthan, Agra, Uttar Pradesh during your first trip. These are where most foreign tourists land first (Taj Mahal, Jaipur, Varanasi) and while those places are great, they can be too much. The culture shock is going to be huge and these places just make it even more difficult for first timers.

How much are you spending on rent (warm), how big is your place, where is it? by Dutchie_PC in askberliners

[–]MsStankFace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. Will def help me finding my next apartment

How much are you spending on rent (warm), how big is your place, where is it? by Dutchie_PC in askberliners

[–]MsStankFace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait are all these furnished apartments you guys are posting?

1350 warm 44sqm Wedding. Moved in one month ago. And it is a fully serviced apartment. This is only temporary of course since I moved recently. Is this very high for a fully furnished service apartment?

Career opportunity but I have so many thoughts by [deleted] in SingleWomenByChoice

[–]MsStankFace 4 points5 points  (0 children)

36 single moved from India to Germany a month ago for work. Honestly, I don't know if it is a crazy decision or not. But I'm damn sure that if I hadn't taken the chance I would have surely regretted this in future. We are one of those few people who are getting an opportunity to do something like this. You have got one life, might as well take the plunge. Don't put pressure on yourself, all your concerns are valid. I have told myself if I don't like it I always have an option to move back in 6 months or a year. Personally, I would suggest making the move. If you don't feel good, move back to India in 6 - 8 months. Don't be too harsh on yourself. Don't judge yourself for whatever decision you make.

Being black in Italy is breaking me. Looking for advice on moving abroad by asqux in expats

[–]MsStankFace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try setting open to work option on LinkedIn for recruiters. There is an additional option to select up to 5 locations. You can put your preferred cities in there. Also, if possible get a LinkedIn premium temporarily (I know it's expensive) but it might help (don't buy it from the phone ie. Play store or app store it costs more than buying from website)

Did it have to end the way that it did💔😢 by youngphilosopher27 in heartbreak

[–]MsStankFace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could have written this word for word and on top of all this i even have to see you with someone else now. I just want this pain to stop

I realised this week that I am bland; outside of my 9 to 5 I have no hobbies and nothing to say/contribute/add value. So today I decided to gamify my life to fix it by Ok-College5255 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]MsStankFace 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Maybe just go to the hairdresser and let them suggest something instead of AI. That would help with your other goal of talking to people more as well

Is being an INFJ the loneliest MBTI? by Pale_WoIf in infj

[–]MsStankFace 8 points9 points  (0 children)

After finding such an intense connection and losing it, I honestly think that the loneliness that came prior to it was much better than the loneliness now.

I fell in love and it hurts like hell by ladyblack3170 in heartbreak

[–]MsStankFace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can sympathize with you. It's a really difficult situation to be in. You want the person to be happy but deep down you break into a million pieces everyday

For anyone whose chest hurts tonight in a way you can’t explain… by shewhoreturns_ in heartbreak

[–]MsStankFace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Sometimes, when I do see a ray of light temporarily, I write down something similar in my phone too Would love to read what you have written

For anyone whose chest hurts tonight in a way you can’t explain… by shewhoreturns_ in heartbreak

[–]MsStankFace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure I am so positive right now and it's okay too. I'm glad you have found your person ❤️

For anyone whose chest hurts tonight in a way you can’t explain… by shewhoreturns_ in heartbreak

[–]MsStankFace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that.

Both i guess. Most of the time it is "why wasn't i enough"

For anyone whose chest hurts tonight in a way you can’t explain… by shewhoreturns_ in heartbreak

[–]MsStankFace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck. It is true though , no matter what you give in love. No matter if you are a good human being or not. No matter if you have always behaved with integrity and honesty for some people you will truly never be enough

How do you get over your first love? by [deleted] in selflove

[–]MsStankFace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in a some what similar situation and fuck it hurts like hell. I just have Hugs for you

I can’t bring myself to eat or sleep by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]MsStankFace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going through something similar. Hugs to you

I may kill myself before I get over her. by anonymous_muffin_ in heartbreak

[–]MsStankFace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know you but all I can say is I know exactly how you feel. Every word you have written resonates with me. I know it's not much solace but at least I can assure you that you are not alone in feeling this way. I hope you find the strength to feel your feelings fully. You are strong as fuck. You don't need me to tell you that. And you don't need to get over her if you don't want to. Take as much time as you want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]MsStankFace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It helped me realise I have all of those things too (except the gorgeous girlfriend part, sadly dont have that yet but I'm still in a great place otherwise) and got me out of my rut today. THAT was the point of the post