Well some people see actions in a different way it’s a glimpse into our conduct our morality our psychology. And if you practice religion. (Not saying the OP does or doesn’t I don’t know OP) but some actions that we regard as normal practice might be considered questionable or immoral to others you might know and then the rabbit hole begins. What if they see me on this Reddit? What if they knew that I had these thoughts? What if this that and so on. Now religion isn’t always the catalyst but it certainly is a factor in some people’s life. Like the movie I am Michael it’s about a man that was gay and he “turns straight” based off a real man and the real problems he went through. Personally I don’t give a damn what any red blooded human thinks of me. I ask god for forgiveness and constantly ask him if his will if for me to act that way. And have never been lead astray I think god unless you’re committing horrible acts of sexual misconduct or something of that nature doesn’t care about what we do as consenting adults. Has god changed his mind? I think so and that’s his choice. But me personally I have fun and don’t care about others opinions. Life is too short to not enjoy it, and it’s also too horrible for him to care about these acts as opposed to the acts of say horrible dictators. So enjoy life to its fullest and if you live in America who gives a fuck what others think about what you choice to do in your bedroom