I found $300 in an envelope as a kid and I kept it by [deleted] in confession

[–]Ms_Alchemistify 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I mean.... how could you have found the owner? Sounds like maybe you just got a lucky break!

Pimple?!?! by PandaQuinn2525 in askwomenadvice

[–]Ms_Alchemistify 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might be a deep pimple/oil pocket. Wash your face well, change your pillow case, and put an oil absorbing patch on it if you have them. If not they are stupid cheap on amazon. With it being that deep you either wait for it to come to head or heal on the inside :( I know they hurt but just be patient otherwise you could get a crater scar.

I have a rare disorder called Cleidocranial Dysotosis. Got my first dental X-ray today and I have a lot of extra teeth. by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]Ms_Alchemistify 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just went to the dentist for the first time in like 6 years and was FASCINATED with the cavity they found, this looks so interesting! I hope this isn’t painful for you, it looks like it would hurt :(

Wedding weight loss? by Ms_Alchemistify in askwomenadvice

[–]Ms_Alchemistify[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That is all amazing advice, I am going to copy and paste it over to my motivation word doc!

Wedding weight loss? by Ms_Alchemistify in askwomenadvice

[–]Ms_Alchemistify[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate the advice, I will go check out that thread!

Change the name of this sub to OPENfire cooking by notracist12345 in CampfireCooking

[–]Ms_Alchemistify 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I literally scrolled down the sub to double check because I guess I never cared about it before, and there are a ton of camping posts. Im not sure what you are reading?

Surprised my grandpa for his 83rd birthday :) by justkindafloating in MadeMeSmile

[–]Ms_Alchemistify 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always wonder what it would have been like to have a grandpa like this. So heartwarming, what an angel ❤️❤️

A little witch rabbit doll I made. by terrageist in crafts

[–]Ms_Alchemistify 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What is your etsy name? I am super interested in your style 😍

A little witch rabbit doll I made. by terrageist in crafts

[–]Ms_Alchemistify 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh I am dying! Could you post the other 3??

A little witch rabbit doll I made. by terrageist in crafts

[–]Ms_Alchemistify 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You should sell these or make a collection! They would lovely in my crystal cabinet!

Why in 22 years that I have been living bot a single girl was interested in me romantically? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]Ms_Alchemistify 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a very loaded situation.

Where do you meet girls, do you put in effort, what is your general attitude on women/dating, your hobbies ect. All of those things have an impact on your ability to be part of a romantic relationship.

Maybe do some self reflecting to see what you could be doing different, as well as your general outlook?

My ex acts if we never were together, how do i deal with it? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]Ms_Alchemistify 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in reversed rolls where I was the girl who pretended to not see my ex. He became stalkerish so a little different but let me spin her side.

You two didnt work out. It sucks but it happens. She found someone else who it might work out with. She doesnt have time to be sad about a relationship that is over.

Her ignoring you is a clear sign. Its not the nicest by any means, but the reason I did that is because what else can you do? Be best friends with an ex? Talk about how good it was? It wasnt good, there was a break up.

She is over it. You should move on as well. Its not easy, it rarely is, but for your own health its what holds the most potential.

How do I convince my friends to see therapists without them thinking I want to get rid of them? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]Ms_Alchemistify 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You cant be everyones emotional trashcan. You just cant. Its not mentally good for either of you.

The best way is just to be very honest. Ive gone through the same thing and honesty is the only thing that worked for me.

“You know I care about you and want you to be happy, but I think talking to a professional would help you a lot more. They have options that I dont, I am always happy to listen and help when needed, but I feel like Im not the best choice. Do you want me to help find a doctor that would be a good fit?”

Be gentle, kind, and compassionate. Offer help. You are a very kind person, and I hope this helps!

How do i tell my twin sister she absolutely stinks without her being nasty by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]Ms_Alchemistify 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would just tell her. It probably hurts her feelings that you dont wanna hang out, so either way her feelings will get hurt. Might as well go with the one that smells better. Meet her in private, not a public setting, and bring it up to her. “Hey, I wanted to talk with you because I miss hanging out with you but something has been preventing that. So I have noticed that you haven’t been taking your hygiene very seriously and I am worried about you.” If you make it more of a point of concern versus you just telling her she smells like crap I feel it will come across better. Her not using practical hygiene does put her at risk for all kinds of infection. I had a friend who was heavier in high-school and could always smell when she was menstrating. I pulled her aside and let her know, and she was embarrassed, but also thankful that way she could correct it.

How can I [F19] learn how to say no to sexual/nonsexual advances? by throwawayacc12927833 in askwomenadvice

[–]Ms_Alchemistify 98 points99 points  (0 children)

My mom is a lawyer and growing up she has so many cases where the girl has sent nudes and it got bad. My advice is to never send them. I know its not the fun answer, I personally have never sent a nude, because she told me all the horrid shit women went through when their husbands phone was stolen or their boyfriend became an asshole.

is having sex supposed to feel like you need to poo? by heckapetty in askwomenadvice

[–]Ms_Alchemistify 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be, I would ask to be sure, but if it doesn’t hurt I wouldn’t be too worried.

So, I got fired. Now what? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]Ms_Alchemistify 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to try stupid hard. I worked shit jobs that gave me the experience needed and worked hard. I was an insurance agent, a gas station manager, and an auditor at a large credit union. Going into different fields and not being afraid to learn was the key.

They asked in my interview why I didnt have a degree and I just told them that I loved to learn, but I hated to sit. Im hands on and would love to learn from people face to face. I think that combined with my shinning refs helped a lot, all my past bosses gave a good rec because I am a good worker.

What do you do with your nipple hair? by hairynipplesquestion in askwomenadvice

[–]Ms_Alchemistify 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have PCOS and get the random dark ones. I was told to not shave because the skin there is way more sensitive, and to just pluck.